rich concubine

Chapter 2528 Different forms

Granny Bai fully supported Madam's plan to fully explain the matter to the eldest princess after finishing the matter.

It is wrong for family members to conceal and lie about big things. Besides, it does not involve one family or two families. The eldest sister-in-law has already intervened to make this matter happen. We still don’t know what the eldest princess will be like. No matter what she thinks, she shouldn't hide it. Many things are the bane of hiding it. The longer it is hidden, the more hidden dangers will accumulate.

Rong Yi said: "I just hope that the impact of this incident will not be too great. I am also worried that it will be counterproductive."

Fu Ling sighed softly, comforting Madam, and said truthfully: "Madam has already intervened in this matter. Even if I think about it now, it's too late to regret it. Besides, you did the right thing. "

Rong Yi raised his eyes to look at her, and Fuling continued: "The eldest brother and the second brother have always been safe and have a deep friendship. Although there is a layer of separation between them in terms of blood relationship, these have long been faded after getting along for a long time. The family helps each other. This is a good thing. From this point of view, madam, you did nothing wrong at all. I think the eldest princess will not blame you for this matter."

"Ah."

"It's just that it's okay for you, but it's a bit troublesome for the second lady. After all, she is her biological mother-in-law."

At this point, Fu Ling smiled and shook her head and said, "Now that we have finished talking, I will disturb your ears and tell you a few things about the family."

Rong Yi looked at her and listened carefully.

"I have always had a good relationship with my family, and I have always had a good relationship with my mother-in-law. However, in the past two years, my mother-in-law has probably gotten older and her temper has become worse, whether towards me or her biological son. She often has a bad look on her face, and sometimes the things she says are embarrassing. The hole in my family is nothing, after all, she is his biological mother. When it goes in his left ear, it comes out in the right ear, but I... I am not in her belly. Damn it, some of the things she said to me were very sad..."

Rong Yi looked melancholy. She would help her servants wherever she could, but even if she was the master, how much room did she have to intervene in the family's affairs?Household matters that are difficult for an honest official to decide, at this moment, she can only listen to it in her ears, and it is not a good idea to have any more ideas.

Fu Ling smiled bitterly: "Now the only people she likes at home are her grandchildren. Fortunately, she often takes her children out to visit and come back in a good mood."

Granny Bai answered the question at the right time: "Men and women will have bad tempers when they reach a certain age. If there are juniors in the family, all the anger will naturally be vented on the juniors. After this time, it will be fine and it will gradually calm down. Your mother-in-law I must have said something that made you feel very uncomfortable. You even feel aggrieved even though you have such a tolerable temper, hey..."

Yu Heng couldn't help but said: "It's certain that you have been wronged. This is not the same as whether you can bear it or not. No matter how good your temper is, you can't tolerate any inexplicable grievances, and you don't owe anyone anything."

Xinrui touched her with her arm and said: "You are standing, oh no, you are sitting and talking without back pain. You will not have trouble from mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the future, so you think you should not suffer any grievances, but Sister Fuling The situation is different from yours, and the whole family is here! There are things going on inside and outside. You can’t run away, you can’t hide, and everything you should or shouldn’t do is all empty talk." Yu Heng thought. After thinking about it, it is indeed true. If she gets married in the future, her family will indeed be weak.

The people in this room are all in different situations, like Rong Yi, who is the step-mother-in-law. To her, as long as she doesn’t let others take advantage of her actions, everything can be harmonious and smooth. Passed.

Poria has a whole family, and the whole family lives together, facing each other day and night, and there will always be times when things don't go as planned. When teeth touch tongues, whoever touches them is destined to tremble in pain.

In the future, when Yu Heng gets married, it will be a completely new beginning. A home that completely belongs to her. As soon as she enters the house, she will be the master of the family and be able to live up to the words of starting from scratch.

Depending on your life experience, the suggestions and opinions you put forward will probably be different.

Rong Yi thought for a while and said: "It seems that for me, it means I have learned the word "tolerance". If I didn't know how to tolerate and retreat, I don't know how much suffering I would have suffered and how much hardship I would have endured over the years. For a family with a large population, There are many things, and there are many troubles. It is impossible to avoid or escape. It is not as easy as you think. Sometimes, even if the things are solved, you still feel like you are stuck in your throat and your heart does not feel happy. This is probably what everyone will do after getting married. When it comes to sacrifice, it is impossible to be yourself completely. When I was a girl at home, my parents would do whatever I wanted. But after I got married and became a wife, daughter-in-law, and mother, I had to consider the people around me in everything. I, after the incident, will always have a feeling of grievance in my heart, which cannot be resolved and can only be digested day after day."

"Sometimes we feel that we have tolerated enough and made enough concessions, but in fact others are also tolerating us and making concessions for us. We are all the same. You can't catch a person and ask him to work hard while others pretend to be deaf. Dude, a good family means that everyone must restrain their own personalities and the most incompetent and violent side of their personalities. It’s not that you can’t vent, but that you have to vent appropriately. If you vent too much, you will only irritate the people around you. They all feel stressed.”

After being married for so many years and living in such a big family for so many years, Rong Yi's progress is visible to the naked eye, and her own mentality has also undergone many changes. In the past, she had a delicate heart and was good at dealing with people. Now, , this ability has only increased. At her height, she no longer has to work hard to figure out other people's thoughts, but she still does not forget her true heart, and will not look down on others as a matter of course just because she stands higher. , she looks at everyone with sincerity and sincerity.

What she said to Poria today is her own truth, which applies to many families. I can't say it is completely correct, but it can be considered a relief.

Fu Ling nodded: "I remember everything. I was just complaining about these days. My mother-in-law was still very good in the past. Maybe her personality has changed as she gets older."

She will not erase all the good things in the past just because of the bad things now. She still remembers that when her son was first born, her mother-in-law was jumping anxiously outside and shed tears the moment she saw her. Those tears were truly distressing for her suffering from childbirth.

Some people say that the period of confinement is the most painful for a woman after giving birth. But at that time, her mother-in-law took good care of herself and gained weight. Even her mother came to see her and kept holding her hand. hand, saying she worked hard.

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(End of this chapter)