rich concubine

Chapter 2538 Fang Ning
The two eldest children have gone to school after all. They remember the four words of loyalty, filial piety, etiquette and justice, and have learned them in their hearts.

Therefore, they will definitely not say tit-for-tat like Ling'er. Even if the father does something wrong, he is still a father. Tooth for tooth is a method that is not appropriate when used on relatives.

Three children, three expressions, actually mean the same thing.

It's just that Ling'er spoke more clearly and won Rong Yi's feelings more.

In today's world, people have many more conveniences than before. Men, women, the elderly, and children can live a good life as long as they work hard.

But the difference is different in the conventions. The old, weak, sick and disabled are all disadvantaged, and as women and children, they are humble.

In the eyes of adults, what children say does not count, and it is right to be obedient and sensible. Often when children make mistakes, adults have the right to teach and punish them. How many people will listen carefully to every word their children say?Will you be willing to consider your child’s face?About less.

In the eyes of men, women are accessories. As long as they are sensible and virtuous, know how to take care of the family, know how to serve the elderly, take care of housework, and have children, they are good women. Of course, no matter how beautiful such a woman can give birth to, it will be even better if she can coax others. alright.

There is a vulgar saying that men like women who are dignified and dignified off the bed, but wanton and "barbaric" on the bed. They not only hope that their women will be good in all aspects, but also hope that they will be more sensible where they can be sensible. If it can help your life and future, that would be even better.

In ancient times, women's status was even lower. At that time, when a woman went out, she would be wrapped up tightly. This was true for both those who had left the palace and those who had not left the palace. The slightest exposure was considered unchaste and dissolute.

A girl at home knows how to be filial, respect etiquette, and be good at housework.

A married girl has nothing to do with her natal family. Whether she is good or bad is other people's business. If a married girl is disliked by her husband's family and comes back to her natal family, she will not be welcomed.

Therefore, at that time, many women died in vain.

In the past years, many ills and problems were rarely discussed with children. After all, they are things in the past, and it is useless to pursue them now. People should pay more attention to the present day.

But now, when she discovered that the world's prejudice against women has not been eliminated, it seems to have been reduced, but in fact it has become more serious in another way.

Some things can't be treated as if they don't exist just by keeping silent about them.

"You are so old, do you know how men and women in this world came to be?"

The three of them were stunned and looked at their mother with confusion. Ling'er said tentatively: "Master said... it was Nuwa who created us."

Rong Yi was stunned for a moment, then smiled and said: "Yes, if you go back to ancient times, how did we people come here? You can take these legendary stories seriously, but now I am asking you, people in this world How did it come about?"

"He was born by his parents." The three of them said in unison.

"Everyone in this world is given life by their parents. Children come to this world from the mother's body. Mothers give birth to life, but mothers, most mothers are deprived of the right to enjoy freedom."

From childhood to adulthood, everyone is teaching a boy how to grow into a grown man, how to stand upright, and how to live up to expectations. At the same time, everyone is teaching every girl how to be a little woman and how to take care of her own family. Dividing land, how to raise husbands and children, how to abide by women's ethics... There is no room in this world for a weak man. Once a man is weak, the family will become deceitful, and there will be no room for any big woman. Once a woman's ability is When it exceeds expectations and makes a man unable to control it, such a woman will be put on heavier shackles, making it difficult for her to move forward.

"In the past years, women's status was even lower. When you were studying women's virtues, someone told you that there once was a female official named Fang Ning."

Fang Ning, this person has mixed reviews in the eyes of the world, and he is a person who is easy to discuss.

It is said that she came out of an extremely poor mountain village. By various chances, she entered the palace. She struggled all the way in the palace and ended up with the empress, who was still a good concubine at that time.

She never slacked off by the side of the Concubine Xian. Because of her outstanding ability and willingness to endure hardships, and because she also protected the two princes who protected the Concubine Xian, she was given an important position.

Later, when the Concubine Xian was granted the title of Empress, her status naturally increased and she became the most popular figure at the time.

Women at that time were really pitiful. They stayed at home on weekdays. Even if they wanted to go out, someone had to follow them.

In the dog days of summer, when farm women need to go to the fields to cultivate, they have to wrap themselves up in layers.

At that time, all the regulations were normal and no one would resist. It seemed that women were born this way.

It wasn't until Fang Ning's biological sister was beaten to death by her husband's family that women in the world seemed to wake up.

Fang Ning's sister got married at the age of 13. Unlike her elder sister, she was weak by nature. At that time, the family was so poor that they couldn't take the blame. They gave birth to two daughters. The eldest daughter had the idea to go out, but the younger daughter It is still a burden. An extra mouth in the family is like a reminder. People who have given birth to a daughter are looking at the men of the right age around them. Marrying off the daughter early can give the family a chance to breathe.

Fang Ning didn't know about her sister's marriage at first. The reason why she came out was so that she and her sister could get along well.

Before leaving, she said that she would support herself and earn enough money to support her younger sister and younger brother. Her only request was that her younger sister stay at home and not betroth her to someone so early.

At that time, in front of her, her parents agreed without hesitation. Seeing them swearing and crying, Ning Ning did not have a trace of doubt.

She left with peace of mind. When she finally had a chance to breathe, she saved her monthly money frugally and asked an acquaintance to send the silver she earned home. Two months later, the acquaintance couldn't bear it. After telling her what happened at home, she realized that her sister had been married off not long after she left.

Fang Ning was furious. According to biographical records about Fang Ning at that time - Ning was furious, but he was short of money. His younger sister had already entered the Xiao family, and it was too late to regret it.

No matter how angry she is, everything is a foregone conclusion. Even if she goes back now, she can't take her sister away from the Xiao family.

If a married person is taken away by his natal family, what will outsiders say?How should my sister handle herself?Thinking of this, she didn't dare to act rashly.

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