rich concubine

Chapter 2565: There will always be someone who can say something fair.
The world of a child is simple. She will not simply hold grudges against someone because of the grudges between adults in the past. She will only feel with her heart how good the people around her are who are good to her, and how the people who are bad to her are. bad.

She only needs to repay her conscience to the person who treats her well, and that's enough. As for those who treat her badly, she doesn't have the ability to fight back now, but it doesn't mean that after a few years, she can only let it go.

No matter how bad Qin Dailong is, she will not often speak ill of Rong Yi in front of her daughter. She wants to teach her daughter well, not to teach her to be as resentful as herself.

Therefore, when Ning Ning talks about her cousin today, she is so pertinent and does not mix any personal emotions.

Mrs. Qin said: "At that time, your mother, at best, had her own opinions. At worst, she was disobedient and unfilial. She ruined a perfect marriage and made a mess."

Ning Ning's eyebrows furrowed when she heard it, not because she was impatient, but because she listened in her heart and felt sorry for her mother.

She said: "Everyone is disobedient sometimes, but some people can correct their mistakes, but not my mother. I really feel sorry for her..."

Mrs. Qin reached out and touched her head. There were so many things that she wished she could tell her granddaughter. But talking about those things in the past for three days and three nights may not be able to explain all the details. Carefully, clearly, the child is so young now, even if you tell the child about the past, how much can she understand?What truth can be learned from it?
Besides, those things were really embarrassing. To say them out would be to expose her mother's shortcomings in front of her daughter.

But after having such a conversation with her daughter today, she became even more anxious and angry. To this day, even if she does not dare to do anything in major matters, as for her going to the palace today, It is enough to see that if she is unlucky in the future, it will be because of these trivial things.

She had to be vigilant. Being a mother was related to her life. She couldn't let go of the past, and she couldn't accept her future calmly. That's why she would trouble others over and over in these details in order to achieve relief. The purpose of your own anxiety.

But if she transmits these things to her daughter, and Ning Ning is taught to be so aggressive and unforgiving, such a temperament will inevitably offend others in the future.

Her daughter's life has been ruined because of one mistake, and she can't watch her granddaughter being affected by something like this or that for the rest of her life.

"Ning Ning, you have to remember that you have to have a balance in your mind for everything. You are young now. No matter what decision you make, you have to ask your elders. This is correct. But as you grow up, you will slowly You must have your own ideas and opinions, and you cannot blindly follow other people's choices. At that time, the steelyard in your heart will play a role, and it will just help you solve the difficulties you have to face. Grandma does not ask you to do anything in the future. Everything goes well and you can get through whatever comes your way, but at least think twice before taking any detours.”

Ning Ning nodded seriously, she could listen to such heartfelt words.

Mrs. Qin continued: "Most people are like this. If you don't hit the south wall, you won't look back. There are many truths that the elders today tell you a thousand times and ten thousand times. Maybe it is just noisy and unpleasant to your ears. Only Only after you have tasted it yourself can you understand the painstaking efforts of your elders.”

"..."

"It's your mother. She was beaten to death by her own temper. She came back to us with her own wit. This can be considered lucky. Her paranoia has reached the point of being hopeless. Now, your mother has become like this, and your grandmother has a lot of responsibility. She can't shirk this matter, because she was too indulgent at the beginning and the children she raised took such detours. I am determined not to let you be like your mother. "

Ning Ning said seriously: "My mother and I are different. We are two people. I can't be like her, and she can't be like me. I know my grandmother is afraid that I will imitate my mother's bad qualities. I No, there’s nothing particularly bad about my mother, she’s just in too much pain, and I can’t bear it when I look at her.”

"...Ning Ning, no matter what your mother says to you in the future, you have to go through it in your head before listening to it. She is your mother and is older than anyone else, but it does not mean that every word she says is true. The truth is worth listening to carefully and applying what you have learned. If she says something that makes you extremely entangled and in a dilemma, you should come to your grandma. She is my daughter, you are her daughter, and the three of us are like this. The closest relationship in the world should not have secrets, but your mother... you know her, and there is a gap in her heart, so she will not tell her grandmother everything." That night, the grandfather and grandson talked for a long time. , when Ning Ning lay on her grandmother’s lap and yawned repeatedly, she listened hard, memorized it, and finally fell asleep.

……

The lights in Changliu were brightly lit, and Rong Yi was sleeping in her husband's arms with her eyes closed. The person hugging her was holding a scroll, and when he saw a happy place, he would take it out alone to joke with his wife.

While Rong Yi was listening, she was thinking about Fang Fang.

What happened today was that even a child could detect that something was wrong. Ling'er was so smart, how could he not guess it?
Therefore, while eating, she would look at her expression from time to time.

Rong Yi took a deep breath and said, "What should I do if Fang Fang comes again next time?"

Jiang Shunxiao thought for a while and said, "If you want to see her, just invite her in. If you don't want to see her, just find a reason to excuse her. Why do you have to work so hard for an outsider."

Rong Yi: "But she just came in like this today. From now on, even if I don't want to see her, I have to have a good reason to send her away, otherwise... it will be inconsistent with etiquette."

At this point, she was angry and funny, and said: "Your cousin is really interesting. From time to time, she will cause me some trouble, which makes me unhappy. After so many years, even if she has anger in her heart, it should be gone long ago. .”

Jiang Shunxiao raised his eyebrows and said: "The better we are living now, the more she can't think about it. When she is unbalanced, it would be weird not to bother her. However, she can't be arrogant for a long time. This time This thing is extremely stupid, we don’t even need to come forward, someone will naturally deal with her."

Rong Yi was slightly stunned: "Are you talking about the Duke of the State?"

Jiang Shunxiao paused: "As for the person who dealt with her, whether it is the Duke or the Duke's wife, I don't know the details, but they will never let her continue to be stupid like this."

So, no matter what, someone will always stand up and say something fair.

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