rich concubine

Chapter 2584 She Said
Jiayun was stunned when she heard this analogy. She said: "But the candied haws on a stick that I can't eat can be given to Chengcheng and my sister. Why do I have to keep it for two days? The sugar threads on the candied haws on the candied haws will become watery and sticky if left for two more days. I will definitely not stay, my mother’s analogy does not hold true.”

Rong Yi said: "You just kept it until the day you can eat it. Regardless of what you think, assuming this is the case, who is more wronged, you or the person who sold you the candied haws?"

Jia Yun choked up: "Of course...of course everyone is aggrieved. If this matter can't be slapped, then it's not something that can be put away again and again. If you buy it now, you won't eat it. You have to keep it for two days. Climb If you get bugs, you have to go back and blame the man selling candied haws. How can you blame others? People will also say, who asked you to buy it back? If you don’t eat it at the time, you have to keep it.”

Rong Yi: "That's it. Some things are not your fault, nor is it the fault of the candied haws seller. It's the bug that insists on climbing on the candied haws. But you have to deal with someone who can't understand words and can't understand colors. Do you care about things? When something happens or a misunderstanding occurs, sometimes it does not lie with the two people, but with the problem itself. There is no use in blaming others or blaming yourself."

Jia Yun was stunned for a moment, then whispered: "Mom is coaxing me. This is not the truth at all. You are always trying to explain things to others."

Rong Yi sighed and said: "Good boy, in life, many things do not have to be divided into whether you are right or me is wrong. Mom knows that you are unfair to your mother. There are many things that you can't let go of, but people's hearts are So a little bit, worry about this today, worry about that tomorrow, worry about it endlessly, in the end it is you who will be annoyed and anxious, and who can you take advantage of?"

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"My mother doesn't have to defend her. It's just that at this time, it's no longer necessary to worry about what she has and what she doesn't have. It's her way to do whatever she wants. As long as my mother is not affected by her, she is not affected by her." Just play around with it.”

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"You should do the same. You should learn to look away at a young age. As long as anything doesn't really affect you, it doesn't matter. Your eyes can see further, and you will go further in the future. Lu, if you are hindered by this current thing, no matter what happens in the future, it will be difficult for you to be happy."

Jiayun fell silent, looked at her mother quietly, put her hand in her palm, feeling her mother's softness, she said: "Actually, I know something is wrong. Ning Ning is very innocent. She is not like my aunt...she is not For people like that, I just think they shouldn't treat you like this, you are the best mother in the world."

Rong Yi smiled, touched her head with the other hand, and said: "My daughter has really grown up and knows how to protect her mother. In your eyes, I am the best mother in the world. In Ning Ning's eyes, Auntie is also the best mother in the world. You said you can detect things. Would Ning Ning be so sensitive that she can't detect it? But she will still smile at you, want to have fun with you, and get closer to you. , from this point alone, she is more open-minded than you."

Jiayun pouted, unwilling to admit it.

"This is what mom wants to tell you. No matter what happens between your aunt and me, it should not affect your relationship with Ning Ning, unless you really feel that there is something wrong with this cousin. Staying together for a long time is not good for you, nor is it good for your family. In this way, you can choose to break off the relationship with her and have less contact with her. You must not misunderstand someone because of other people's words. When interacting with people, you have to see and see for yourself. Feelings, what other people say is ultimately what other people think, everyone gets along with others differently, for example, my mother treats you differently than she treats the children outside."

"Yeah...I've written it down, mother." "Mom, let me tell you a story. It's said that a long time ago, there was a murderer. Because of his tragic childhood experience, he had no interest in all the people who had a smooth life in the world. Full of hatred, he would capture those young children and kill them to vent his anger. Only one escaped from his hands and survived. In this incident, the children he killed were both afraid of and afraid of him, and even more so. Resentment, but the child who survived in his hands and the child's family, while hating him, had a moment to thank him, thank him for that moment of kindness, and let his child go, so that he did not become resentful. It’s a tragedy, this man is a murderer and is not tolerated by the world, but everyone will have very complicated emotions towards him, because he is a devil, but not just a devil.”

Jia Yun thought for a moment, nodded, and said, "I understand what mother means. There are thousands of people with different faces. Even if one person is bad in everyone's heart, there may be one person who thinks he is bad." Okay, there are no absolute people and no absolute things, only relative differences.”

"My daughter is so smart, she can tell everything at once."

The mother and daughter talked for a long time, and Jiacheng and his father also talked about the art of war for a long time. He could understand many of the obscure words, but he couldn't understand the deep meaning, so he asked his father for help. Jiang Shunxiao didn't just give him Explain to him, and even do it to show him. Even if some things are still too early for him, as long as he asks and is interested, he will not find it troublesome and will teach him step by step. give him.

After everything was said over there, Jiacheng came over and asked Jiayun to go back and rest together. Jiayun looked at his mother and thought of the story he just talked about again, and asked: "But you haven't told me yet, why did that person only let that one go?" Where is the child? If you don't tell me, I won't be able to sleep when I go back tonight."

Rong Yi laughed. This story was not made up by her, so she said: "Because that child promised that he would take care of him until he died. There is a thick stack of confessions in my study, which contains many or true records. Or fake stories, you can read them when you have nothing to do."

Jiayun agreed, blessed his body and said well, and followed Jiacheng out.

Jiang Shunxiao stood nearby and put the candle in front of him. The candlelight danced on Rong Yi's face and said, "What story are you telling the child?"

Rong Yi looked up at him and said instead of answering: "In the future, in front of the children, we should not talk about the Qin family, especially Qin Dailong."

"I have nothing to do, so I wouldn't talk about her. What did this child say to you?"

Rong Yi took a deep breath, told him about the matter, and then said: "She thought about me wholeheartedly, and I was touched, but I don't want my child to be dominated by emotions. Those things in the past should not be She has to worry about it, and I don’t want her to feel uncomfortable because of those things.”

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(End of this chapter)