rich concubine

Chapter 879
In such a chat, it is inevitable that the family and the past will come up.

The elder's wife looked calm and with a faint smile, she looked into Rong Yi's eyes and said, "It's not easy. Your parents must have put in a lot of effort to raise a child well, right?"

Regarding her family and her parents, Rong Yi is actually not willing to talk about it. The situation in her family is quite complicated, and her childhood memories are also quite painful. Now that she talks about it, it will inevitably make the atmosphere hurt.

Moreover, the old lady's words "it's not easy" made Rong Yi couldn't help but guess whether it was because of her family's situation. Chang Qing had told her a long time ago. She asked with good intentions, but Rong Yi didn't know how to answer the question.

After thinking about it, Rong Yi nodded, still smiling and said, "It is indeed not easy for my parents to raise me."

The elder's wife could tell that she didn't like to talk about family matters, but she was anxious. She desperately wanted to know from her granddaughter what happened when she was a child and how she felt.

But seeing that she didn't say anything, the old lady just nodded, and then said: "Poor parents in the world, it's not that easy to teach a child well nowadays. The outside world is too tempting. If someone can't stand it, you don't know what the child is like." Where has my heart gone? I am afraid that he will not learn well abroad, and that he will go astray."

Rong Yi is also deeply touched by this. As a new mother, she looks at the little lives around her, watching them come out of her belly, giving them the meaning of life, watching them grow up day by day, and can crawl. , can sit, stand, and call mother, a sense of mission as a mother instantly surges into my heart. It seems that at that moment, their life for the next twenty years has been planned, but sometimes it is fine. Think about it carefully, will this be bad for them?
After raising a child, there are always worries. It is true that in a family like theirs, a child born with no worries about food and clothing also has the trouble of not having to worry about food and clothing.

I’m afraid that they’ll have enough to eat and drink and not do their jobs properly, and that they’ll take detours even though their starting line is so much higher than others. I’m afraid that they don’t understand what life is, kindness, and compassion. I’m afraid that they’ll live too comfortably and never know anything about it all their lives. Pain, but paradoxically, no mother wants to see her child experience the suffering of the world.

Rongyi herself has gone through hardships, and she has realized many truths through enjoying hardships. She knows that a person's growth requires not only encouragement, but also setbacks. Encouragement for a long time will numb a person, but setbacks will make a person numb. This person wakes up in an instant, and may also grow up in that instant.

Seeing that she resonated with her, the old lady couldn't help but think that at her age, she was already the mother of two children. She sighed in her heart and didn't know whether to be happy or sad. She continued: "Especially the adopted boy and the adopted daughter. Children are different. If you raise a boy, you only need to teach him to grow up and walk on the right path. But if you raise a girl, you feel like you owe her your whole life."

At this point, Changqing's eyelids trembled slightly and he looked up at his grandmother.

The old lady suddenly didn't realize it and continued: "When you raise a girl, you have to hand her over to someone else when she is a teenager, and go to someone else's house to be a wife. You don't know if she is happy at home for more than ten years, and you have to bear the responsibility of going to someone else's house to be a wife." Daughter-in-law, the pressure of being a mother, a woman’s life is very miserable. If you marry the right person, you will be happy, but if you marry the wrong person, you will have to bite the bullet, and this life will pass like this."

Rong Yi's eyes flickered, and her heart tugged. When it came to raising a daughter, she even more resonated with it. Xiaotuanzi had been in poor health since she was a child. Ever since she was born, Rong Yi felt that she owed her and couldn't give her anything. She is in good health, but to this day, she still feels resentful, blaming herself for not living up to expectations.

Then he said: "I have a daughter who is very cute. Everyone in the courtyard likes it. Every time I come back, I will play with her for a long time. She is very quiet and well-behaved. She seems to be able to understand adults at such a young age. The emotions are the same. Every time I'm happy, she grins. When I'm unhappy, she makes babbling noises trying to make me laugh. Now that I'm looking at her at such a young age, I don't want her to grow up. I miss her. She has always been so young and can be held in my arms. She doesn’t even have to go to the ground to walk. I can take her wherever she wants. I don’t want her to become a big girl and experience so many people and things. I just want her to Protect her in your arms and give her this place of peace."

Although I sometimes talk nonsense to my father, saying that I don’t care if my daughter grows up and gets married, how could I really not care?
The lump of flesh that came out of her belly was like holding her heart. It hurt for a long time even if she bumped it. When she thought about it, she would experience love and love when she grew up, meet another man, and maybe be tied to this man. Rong Yi felt heartbroken throughout her life.Even if you are a daughter of a royal family, you will get married in the future. After you get married, no matter how much you love your daughter, neither the mother's hand nor the father's hand can be stretched that far to interfere in the daughter's family affairs.

Rong Yi felt suffocated when she thought that her daughter would get married when she grew up, and she didn't know whether this person had a good temper or whether his family was kind or not.

She is a woman and has come from this road. Of course, her life is not as good as that of her own daughter. She was born into an identity that could not afford anything, and accidentally fell in love with a powerful man.

Today's life cannot be said to be good or bad, and she is indeed worried about the days when her father is away. Although with her current status, it is not her turn to deal with the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and as far as the relationship between the palace is concerned, she does not have such worries.

But not every household is in her situation, it's all in the Wangfu's situation. Who can know whether the person her daughter meets when she grows up, the person she thinks is right at first sight, is really a kind person?

There are some things that she can't think about, and she feels uncomfortable when she thinks about them. She is not unfounded. It will be more than ten years later when her daughter solves her life-long problems. But sometimes I think about it, time flies so fast. Three years ago She would not have expected that she would soon be the mother of three children.

More than ten years is just a blink of an eye.

Hearing her talk about her great-granddaughter, the elder's wife's eyes lit up. Although she felt sorry that she had blossomed and blossomed so early, after all, they had missed her life for more than ten years and could not change it.

But the elder's wife still likes little lives very much, especially the child of her granddaughter. It seems that the time missed can be made up for. The time missed by this granddaughter for more than ten years can be made up for by the great-granddaughter.

She asked: "The child looks like you, or... like General Ning Wei?"

When mentioning the child, Rong Yi subconsciously raised the corners of her lips, her eyes filled with the tenderness that a mother would have. She said, "My son is like his father, and my daughter is more like me."

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(End of this chapter)