Siheyuan: living in a prosperous era

Chapter 343 Humanity and Sophistication (Part [-])

(Readers can learn from this! I’m ready to finish. In order to express my feelings, I wrote a little longer, please forgive me.)
After a week of asking for leave and handing over work, when Jiang Defu and Ding Jiqun arrived in the capital, it was already Yang Shuning's third day in his new role in the personnel organization.

When they arrived in the capital, Jiang Defu and Ding Jiqun went directly to Yang Shuning's home. Jiang Defu had been to the capital several times, but this was the first time he came to Yang Shuning's house. They had met at work before. After all, Jiang Defu always came and left in a hurry.

"Hello, comrade, I am Jiang Defu. This is my work permit. My wife An Jie is also in the courtyard now. Please help me register. This is my colleague, Ding Jiqun. This is his work permit. Come with me. of."

Jiang Defu came to the guard and took out his ID and handed it to Yang Xiangdong, the monitor on duty.

"Hello, please come in. The old lady told me the day before yesterday that you were coming."

Yang Xiangdong received a notice from Yang's mother the day before yesterday. Knowing that Jiang Defu was coming, he naturally wouldn't be embarrassed.

"Anjie."

After Yang Xiangdong made the call, An Jie came out to greet her husband.When Jiang Defu saw An Jie, whom he hadn't seen for ten days, he also felt particularly missed.

……

"Anjie, I think I should carry more things."

That day, Yang Shuning came home from get off work much earlier than usual. Jiang Defu and An Jie, who had been waiting in the room for a long time, were already preparing to get up and visit Yang Shuning.Although they all lived in Yang Shuning's house, Jiang Defu felt that proper etiquette was still needed.

"No need, isn't there the fruit you bought today? Besides, Shu Ning is not an outsider either."

An Jie felt a little strange. They were all living in Yang Shuning's house, so there was no need to be so polite.

"Haha, bring more things to look good. I also brought sea cucumbers from Dongshanhai. This stuff is really good."

Jiang Defu turned back to the room and took out the dried sea cucumbers he had carefully prepared. After thinking about it, he still didn't put in the red envelope he had prepared before.Because An Jie had been living in Yang Shuning's house for a long time and his relationship was even deeper, and Yang Shuning was not one to receive red envelopes, he didn't let him go.

(You want to work with the company leader, who happens to be your wife’s mother-in-law. How can you not hurt your feelings and make the other party willing to help you? Giving gifts, even to acquaintances, is very particular. Yes, your wife thinks that the two families are relatives, so she can just buy some things and visit them in person. But the reality is that when you ask someone for something, you must show sincerity accordingly. This is more to tell the other person that you You are not the kind of person who is ignorant and ignorant. As the leader of the company, you have helped me, and I know it well. The other party may refuse to accept the gift, but you must not not give it. Not giving it means being dishonest and ignorant. Of course. , you can also choose not to send it, provided that you can bear the consequences of not sending it.)
"Sister, Shu Ning came back early today."

When An Jie came to the living room, only Mother Yang and Yang Shuning were there. When An Jie saw it, he called Mother Yang first.

"Anjie is here, come in quickly, come in quickly, sit down and talk."

When Mother Yang saw An Jie and Jiang Defu, she quickly called her into the living room.After saying this, he turned around to take care of Yang Shuning, who was a little reluctant to leave.

"Shu Ning, there's something wrong with your expression. Are you too busy at work? You've been working day and night during this period, but you have to take care of yourself." An Jie knew that Yang Shuning was working overtime every day in the unit these days, so he was also He asked with concern.

"Hey, it's okay, I'm just a little bit cold. It's a small problem. Just drink some ginger soup and it'll be fine."

Although Yang Shuning was feeling a little unwell, probably because he had caught a cold yesterday, he was still full of energy.

"Shu Ning, you have to take care of yourself. You are the backbone of your family. If you fall ill, my Anjie will have to worry too."

Jiang Defu also spoke with concern.

(Jiang Defu is not actually very familiar with Yang Shuning, so when a person meets the company leader, even though he has a few acquaintances, he cannot talk about things right away. That is both impolite and very utilitarian, which will naturally make the company leader Uncomfortable. Look at what he said. It not only points out that the relationship between the two families is unusual, but also does not steal the wife's credit. It shows concern for the company leaders. When the company leaders heard this, of course they put down their guard and at the same time it was very useful. This Isn’t the topic open?)
"Is this my uncle?"

Mother Yang had never seen Jiang Defu before, so she looked at Jiang Defu next to An Jie and asked.

"Yes, Jiang Defu."

Anjie also introduced it.

"I have always heard that DeFu is a talented and capable man, and today I finally saw him. He is indeed well-deserved."

Mother Yang looked very satisfied with Jiang Defu's appearance, mainly because she learned from An Jie and An Xin that Jiang Defu was a good man and very suitable to her taste.

"Sister, I finally heard it. You are criticizing me. As a brother-in-law, I'm sorry for not coming to visit you in time. I'm sorry."

Jiang Defu responded with a smile, and bowed to Mother Yang after speaking.

(Look at what he said. The family members of the company leader praised him, so he pointed out the relationship between the two parties, and suddenly changed his identity from Anjie’s uncle to the brother-in-law of the company leader’s family. In a simple sentence , a bow not only brings the originally unfamiliar relationship closer, but also shows enough humility and respect to the company leaders, which can win the company leaders great joy.)
"Uncle Jiang, no wonder you can marry my Aunt Anjie home. Uncle Jiang, why are you standing? Sit down quickly."

"Mom, go and help wash some fruits."

When Yang Shuning saw Jiang Defu's reply, he really felt that Jiang Defu's emotional intelligence was really high. No wonder he had comrades all over the world.Of course, it is also because Yang Shuning's current status is different from when he first met Jiang Defu.

(To make the company leader so happy, of course you have to sit down and talk. During the chat, of course, you will inevitably talk about work problems. When you talk about work problems, doesn’t the opportunity come? .)
"I saw your file a few days ago. Your resume is really rich and you have enough honors. Uncle Jiang, you are amazing, amazing. Lao Lin is really discerning in employing people, and you are really experienced."

Yang Shuning has read Jiang Defu's file, and he is indeed full of honors and capable.

(Be obedient and listen to the tone. At this time, the company leader is praising the other person for his strong work ability. But as Lao Lin said, he is really discerning in employing people. What the company leader really wants to say is that you are very capable. But if your superiors don’t use you, it’s like a pearl making a secret investment in the end. Transferring experience to the other party not only praises the other party, but also names the role of leadership.)
(End of this chapter)