Why do you still need to roll up after being reborn?

After Ding Yamin arrived at his grandfather's house, he was left to eat. After finishing the meal, he chatted with his grandfather for a while before getting up and walking home.

On the way, he was still thinking about going back to his mother to ask again, and then he received a call from Guan Jiao.

"Ding Yamin, did your parents say anything to you when you came home?"

"I was just about to ask you. My mother said that your family doesn't agree with us getting married after graduation. Do you know what's going on?"

There was a moment of silence on the other side, which made Ding Yamin couldn't help but feel something in his heart, and asked quickly, "What's wrong? What happened? If you need anything, tell me, and I will definitely help if I can."

Ding Yamin didn't need any help, but what Guan Jiao's mother said made her feel sad.

She had always thought that her mother loved her very much, because she had never been particularly partial to her brother since she was a child, and she had never failed her in material matters. She only said this when she was admitted to college, "Jiaojiao, you are much older than your brother. When you graduate and work to make money, your parents won't want your money. You just need to remember to help your brother." ”

This is not a big deal. Isn't it normal for the older sister to work first, give her younger brother some pocket money, and buy him some clothes?

She agreed without taking it seriously.

Unexpectedly, she heard something as soon as she came back today. Her second uncle's cousin got engaged some time ago. Not counting the so-called three pieces of gold, including gold rings, earrings, and necklaces, the cash gift was 66,000 yuan.

It happened that my cousin's husband's family lived in the same village as Ding Yamin's grandmother's family, and they were from the same clan. Among the people who came to get engaged that day was Ding Yamin's uncle.

Guan Jiao's mother thought that her cousin's condition would cost 66,000 yuan, so a college student like Jiaojiao in her family would have to pay at least 88,000 yuan?

Moreover, she cannot be allowed to get married right after graduation. She has been studying for so many years and married into someone else's family before she has even made any money for the family. Wouldn't she be at a disadvantage?

No matter what, she had to work for five or six years and wait until her brother was admitted to college and became stable before getting married.

With this thought in her mind, when everyone was chatting and asking about Guan Jiao while doing errands that day, she also said this.

When he went back that afternoon, Ding Yamin’s uncle called and told Ding Yamin’s mother
Let's not talk about what Ding Yamin thinks. Guan Jiao herself feels extremely uncomfortable. It turns out that the so-called "everyone is treated equally" only when there is no entanglement of interests. Once this happens, the balance will be tilted towards the son without even thinking about it.

Guan Jiao doesn't understand. Isn't it your responsibility to raise your son?
If the money you spent on me feels like a loss if you don't get it back, then what does it count?
Do you regard me as an investment, and if there is no return, it means it is not worthwhile?

Guan Jiao's heart sank to the bottom of her heart, feeling extremely cold.

Ding Yamin hung up the phone from Guan Jiao, feeling equally uncomfortable.

When he got home and didn't wait for his mother to speak, he said, "Guan Jiao just called me and asked me to tell you two that her mother is her mother, she is her, and she won't listen to her mother. The bride price is 88,000 yuan or something." She won't even want it. As for her brother, that is her parents' responsibility and has nothing to do with her."

Father Ding and Mother Ding were stunned. The couple looked at each other and said in their hearts that they could not break up.

Ugh.
The two of them sighed together, and Ding Yamin asked in confusion, "Isn't it good for us that Guan Jiao said this? Why are you still sighing?"

Father Ding glanced at his son with complicated eyes and said nothing.

Mother Ding said with a serious face, "I'm worried about Guan Jiao's child. With such a careless mother, she will be troubled in the future."

"That's right, her parents are really, how could this be like this? Is raising a daughter just to take care of their son? Who are they?" The two couples looked at the indignant, innocent and stupid son, but did not answer his words.

When Ding Yamin went to wash up, Ding's father asked Ding's mother, "What did you mean by that? Why did you speak for Guan Jiao? Even if you don't persuade him to break up for the time being, you can't stand on Guan Jiao's side."

Mother Ding looked at him coldly, "You have to let me say whatever you want. Are you planning well? If your son refuses to break up, and must marry Guan Jiao, then my objection now is not because of him." Is there a thorn in my heart? Or maybe this stupid boy kept his mouth shut and told Guan Jiao about my objections. When they get married in the future, then my mother-in-law will not even think about having a good relationship with her daughter-in-law. ”

After saying that, she glared at Father Ding again, "If you want your son to do anything in the future, just tell him directly and don't get involved with me."

Father Ding muttered in a low voice, "How can that be done? My son and I have such a good relationship. If we object, won't we have to argue? If we argue, won't it affect our peaceful coexistence? What are you doing?"

Ding Yamin went out to wash up, and when he came back, he found his parents fighting in the main room. No, to put it simply, his mother pulled out his father's hair and beat him hard one-sidedly.

He stood aside and watched for a while, and couldn't help but remind his mother, "Mom, please be careful where you start. My dad only has a handful left on his head. You should leave a few for him."

"Son, pull your mother away quickly."

Ding Yamin turned around and left, "It's not appropriate for me to take care of your husband and wife's affairs. Go to bed."

The next day came New Year's Eve.

Yang Yan had to go back to her home to prepare for the New Year. Before she left, she told Yang Dan, "If the second brother and second sister-in-law come over today, you can't quarrel with them again. These two families have no impact on us, but my parents will feel bad." It’s great fun, plus it’s the Chinese New Year.”

"I know."

Yang Dan interrupted her sister and loaded her nephew's clothes, snacks, cartoons, and books into the car. Then he watched her ride out of the yard, then went home and put on an apron and started cleaning.

Because her father and sister had already bought many things, and she didn’t plan to stay at home much longer after the New Year, so she didn’t prepare any New Year’s goods.

While she was wiping the inside and outside with a rag, her second brother and sister-in-law came with their little nephew.

"Sister."

Her second sister-in-law's pregnancy was always unstable in the first few years of her marriage, and she had two spontaneous miscarriages. Later, she got pregnant again after almost a year of nursing. This little nephew is eight years old this year. He looks like eyeballs. He is not a baby. .

Due to his mother's influence, this child rarely comes to grandma's house, and naturally he is not particularly close to Yang Dan, his sister-in-law. It can be said that Yang Dan is more familiar with her sister's nephew than she is with this little nephew.

However, he was a nephew after all, so she had prepared three portions of shopping when she came.

"There are chocolates and comic books brought for you in the house. Do you like them if you go check them out?"

The little nephew agreed, called grandpa and grandma again, and then ran happily into the house.

Brother Yang was carrying a large piece of pork, and Sister-in-law Yang was carrying a bag, which seemed to contain soy milk powder or something. It was obviously for Mother Yang. (End of chapter)