The skilled widow is busy farming

Whether a girl is well-educated or not can be seen at a glance by a young man raised by a big family like Lu Jun. On the contrary, a girl with self-respect can gain respect from men.

"Our family is going to have a banquet in a few days. My sister-in-law happens to be pregnant, so I want you to take care of it. It would also be good to invite the clan girls over to play and show your face, so as to broaden your network."

"Then I have to ask my mother and sister-in-law for instructions. I can only do it if they agree."

Qing'er has always been cautious in doing things. As a daughter-in-law or a daughter-in-law, she has to say hello first and do everything correctly before doing it. Otherwise, she will lose face and lose face.

"Okay, just say hello. Maybe my mother can give you some face and introduce her to the ladies of each family, so you won't have to worry about your clan sister."

"I don't know what kind of marriage we can talk about."

Qing'er was thinking about it in her heart.

"It's impossible to be better than you. All four of your brothers have fame, and three of them are officials. They are just relatives of the Li family. They are not as tough as you, but they can get the glory of the Li family. It's okay to be a good family. I It seems that the girl taught her very well, and she has a certain amount of progress and retreat."

Lu Jun also gave his own opinion.

"Thank you for your good wishes. I hope that my sister can find a good family. Marriage is a lifelong matter for a woman. There is no possibility of regrets and changes. I will discuss it with my sister-in-law later."

"I heard your eldest brother said that they are going back to their hometown next year. Are you thinking about the children?"

Lu Jun and his wife sat and talked, and he was happy to share outside things with his wife. The young couple had a very sweet relationship.

"I'm going back. My aunt has set the rules in my family. If they are wrong, they will be changed. The clan rules have been revised several times. They rotate every five years. My eldest brother is considered the chief executive in charge of the capital. The five-year period is up. It’s time for him to go back and let me, Brother Feng, manage the company for five years, and then continue to change people after five years.”

"Isn't this too troublesome?"

Lu Jun tilted his head and thought about the benefits of doing so.

"When there is a new owner, the stewards have to be cautious for two or three years, and then replace them when they get familiar with each other. In this way, the stewards will not dare to be evil and do their work seriously. You can't raise the greed of the clan members. , after five years of rotation, it is not yet time to be greedy, and when you are completely familiar with it, you can return to your hometown. At the same time, it will also bring the wanderers back home, which will help unite the clan and cultivate more talents to take charge of their own affairs. "

Lu Jun thought carefully and nodded appreciatively, "It makes sense, my aunt is really talented."

"My aunt is amazing. It's a pity that my eldest brother is gone and I won't see him for another five years. My eldest brother loves us siblings very much. He dotes on me and Brother Chun the most."

Qing'er pouted, a little reluctant to let go of her elder brother.

"When your eldest brother goes back, your aunt and parents will be taken care of, and brother Jin also has his biological parents to love him. This is a good thing. In fact, I think my aunt is more thoughtful and considers the long term. In five years, brother Jin will be older too. After learning improvement, when you reach a sensible age, it won’t matter if your parents leave again.”

"That's the reason, but I'm a little reluctant to let go. Brother Chun will enter the examination room next year. If he gets a good ranking, my aunt will be relieved of her worries."

"Yes, I think Brother Chun is very capable. He is not a reluctant person. It's not a big problem. By the way, how are you talking about Brother Chun's marriage?"

"We haven't decided on a candidate yet. My aunt wants to choose a good one, but she also wants to satisfy Brother Chun. She's a bit picky. She wants to choose someone with a non-confrontational temperament, which will save my aunt some trouble in the future."

"That's right. Both daughters-in-law are very competitive, which can be fatal."

Lu Jun can now understand his parents' choices. His daughter-in-law is particularly suitable for him. She can handle the complex relationships of the Lu family properly and comprehensively. This is his greatest skill. Someone else may not be able to do as well as Qing'er. .

His sister-in-law has a strong and domineering personality. She was married to a clan wife. She has no problem with her ability, skill, and scheming. She is the best choice. But there is a small problem with such a person. She has a strong and domineering personality. Is it right for her to compromise? It's so easy, he even chokes with his elder brother, and he is a person who argues hard with reason.

But Qing'er just managed to make her sister-in-law look good, slowly fall in love with her, and become softer towards her. It's not just about giving in. This alone will make her sister-in-law look down on her daughter-in-law and think she is weak and incompetent.It is also because the daughter-in-law has done well that the mother is sincerely willing to favor her. The sister-in-law is not jealous because of this, and the relationship between them is much more harmonious and sincere than before.

From the bottom of his heart, he felt that his wife was the best, upright and upright, and that she should be the perfect wife to marry.

Two days later, Qing'er began to prepare for the banquet. Her mother-in-law was now in charge of the house. Because her sister-in-law was pregnant, she was afraid that she would overthink it, so she did not give her the housekeeping rights. Instead, her mother-in-law was in charge.

"Mom, sister-in-law, you all are here by chance. I'm here to tell you the list of ladies to be invited to the banquet."

"Okay, I'll take a look."

Mrs. Lu wanted to check it out, but she was also worried that her daughter-in-law would not do enough. If something went wrong, she could help correct it, but offending someone would lead to enmity.

"Mom, sister-in-law, can I ask for a favor?"

"What big thing is worthy of the word "begging"? Tell me, my sister-in-law can handle it for you."

The elder sister-in-law of the Lu family likes the character of this younger sibling more and more, and is willing to give her some face.

"It's like this. I was thinking that there are more ladies coming this time, and my clan sister came from my hometown to look for marriage. I was wondering if I could invite the clan sister to come over and show her face, play for a while, and let all the ladies take a look. How would I like it? An opportunity.”

"What does this mean? Just post an invitation. This is a blind date banquet. Let each wife bring her children to take a look. We know each other, so just bring them."

Mrs. Lu glanced at her eldest daughter-in-law, smiled at each other, and agreed happily.

Qing'er was also inexplicably happy, "Thank you mother, thank you sister-in-law, then I will tell my sister."

"You have to post a post to show your face, otherwise you will think you are here to gain glory, which would not be beautiful. You have to be careful in your work."

My sister-in-law reminded me specifically.

"Well, I listen to my sister-in-law, and she is still considerate. Sometimes I am not as careful about details as my sister-in-law. My aunt always says that I need to change this."

Qing'er chuckled.

"It's not my fault that you're young. I've just been doing this for a long time. If you don't understand anything, just come to me."

"Well, I'm going to see my sister-in-law later. I still have a lot of details to ask my sister-in-law. I'm afraid that if I do something wrong and the ladies will be dissatisfied, it will be a lot of fun. I have to ask my sister-in-law to take another look at it for me."

"it is good."

The sister-in-law is naturally happy to ask Qing'er about everything. She does not take authority, nor does she take the opportunity to cultivate her own network. She works openly and aboveboard, and she is not a power-loving person. This makes her very embarrassed. She has doubted others and suppressed her before. Indeed, Not as open-minded as my younger siblings.

Qing'er got the approval and immediately posted a message to the two sisters-in-law and clan sisters, taking the opportunity to come as guests and meet more ladies. Whether they can seize the opportunity depends on their ability.

This is an opportunity. Don't underestimate this. Not everyone can come to the Lu family's door. If you can't enter this door, how can you meet the ladies of the third rank of officials at the banquet? How about opportunities.

Qing'er's efforts were worth it. She used her dexterity to gain the recognition of her mother-in-law and sister-in-law. It was just a banquet, and she easily accepted it. It also created many opportunities for her parents' family, and she was able to contact the families of higher-ranking officials. One or two.