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She finally understood why some people compared the woman's sweet voice to that of a duck.

A woman may sound soft and frail, but a group of women may be chirping.Song Yunxi really felt like her head was about to explode.

"That's enough." Mother Tao slapped the table, and everyone fell silent instantly.

She glared at the woman in front of her and said unhappily, "You all should go back!"

After hearing this, the group of women bowed obediently and left without making a sound.

After they left, Tao's mother felt a headache and rubbed her forehead.Then he turned around and asked Song Yunxi seriously, "What did you think of?"

Song Yunxi looked confused when she was asked. What did she think of?After a long silence, he asked cautiously, "It's very noisy when they talk together."

Tao's mother was speechless for a while and said, "Have you noticed that a few of the women in that group are about the same age as you?"

Song Yunxi was startled when she heard this, and she looked at Tao's mother in surprise.Some don't understand what her grandmother wants to teach her.

Mother Tao saw that Song Yunxi really couldn't understand, so she simply said it clearly. “When a man has a status, what kind of woman does he want but can’t find?

There are young and beautiful women every year, and some things are hard to guard against. "

"A couple for life is just what is described in story books. In reality, it is very common for men to have multiple concubines."

"Sometimes, don't worry too much about useless love, and be open-minded. Don't reject them. Maybe he fell in love with you when you were young and beautiful. But what if your sex fades as you get older?"

“As long as it doesn’t affect your status and rights as the head wife, it doesn’t matter if he is the Three Thousand Beauties.

Remember, anyone who is willing to be a concubine is not an enemy.Because the moment they became concubines, they personally ended all their hopes. "

"What you have to guard against are those who intend to threaten your position. Do you understand?"

Song Yunxi looked at Tao Mu in disbelief.

Isn’t it said that concubines are all enemies of the main wife?
How could it be that her grandmother didn't mean that.

Besides, what's wrong with being a couple for the rest of your life?Why is it not possible.So she couldn't help but retort
"It may be possible to have two people for the rest of your life. Besides, not everyone in the countryside lives with two people."

This time, Tao's mother was surprised. She looked at Song Yunxi with some confusion.After a while, he spoke.

"In the countryside, you know that most families in the countryside live together. One piece of jewelry from you is their living expenses for a year."

"But just like that, are there fewer customers in the brothel? You are not married now, so some things will not be mentioned to you.

When you get married, go sit under the tree at the entrance of the village. Their stories are more exciting than you think. "

"If you don't talk about men, let's talk about you. Maybe you won't get tired of him and think everything is new in the first year or two of knowing him, but what about after a long time?"

"It's not just men who change their minds in this world. Women can do it too, but they have more restrictions than men. The consequences are even worse."

"You are still young now. When you reach your grandmother's age, you will understand that love is the smallest thing in life."

"Kid, remember, never place all your hopes on men."

"Your sustenance can be anything but people." Tao's mother said to Song Yunxi seriously.

Song Yunxi felt a little complicated after hearing this. To be honest, she didn't understand why the sustenance couldn't be a human being.

But what Mrs. Tao said seemed to be quite right, at least she couldn't refute it.

"But grandma, if you tell me this, it won't make any sense at all!"

Tao’s mother was silent for a while. For us women, “When you first get married, it’s for your mother’s family, and after you have children, it’s for your children.

I have not lived for myself my whole life, but what can I do?Is your life going to be over?
There are many good things in this world worth remembering.You have to be nice to those who care about you, right? "

Song Yunxi was very surprised when she heard this. She didn't expect Tao's mother to be so open-minded.Isn’t it said that ancient people were very feudal?
She felt like she was in a fake world.

Mother Tao turned her head and stared at Song Yunxi quietly for a long time.

Song Yunxi touched her face with some discomfort and asked doubtfully, "What's wrong, grandma?"

"It's okay, I just feel like time flies by so fast. I remember back then! I married your grandfather at the same age as you, and soon my grandson will have a family."

Mother Tao said with emotion, but there were some vicissitudes in her words that Song Yunxi could not understand.

"Both your grandmother and your mother are not blessed. I hope my Erya can be different from us." Tao's mother touched her head, her tone full of care from the elders to the younger ones.

Lying in bed late at night, Song Yunxi recalled Tao's mother's eyes at that time.I don't know why I feel sad.

She could sense that her grandmother was unhappy.Even what she gave to herself was something she only understood after experiencing countless disappointments.

Her grandmother!I hope she can protect herself, and I hope I don't have to go through what she went through.Meet a loved one.

So she could feel the conflict and struggle in her tone.

Maybe she has seen too many bad things, maybe she is one of them.

So she wants to teach them in advance so that they have less expectations. Without expectations, they will naturally not be hurt.

She understood the truth, but it didn't happen to her.Song Yunxi always felt that what if.

Maybe she will be the lucky one, maybe not like grandma and the others said.

Besides, it’s not like we haven’t had a good life, since some people have a pretty good life.Why can't she be someone?

Thinking of this, Song Yunxi's depressed heart suddenly felt much better.

She tried her best not to think about what Tao Mu said, and soon she closed her eyes and fell asleep.

And Mrs. Tao over there couldn't sleep. Many of her words today actually came from her heart.

She vaguely remembered the year she married her husband.

At that time, she was the same size as Erya. She accompanied her mother to the temple to offer incense.

It can be said that there was a sea of ​​people at that time, maybe some things are really destined!

There were obviously so many people that day, but when she looked up, she happened to see him.

He looked at her for a long time, and she looked at him for a long time.That was probably the boldest thing she had ever done in her life.

She originally thought that the relationship between them was just that one-sided relationship.

But not long after, the matchmaker came to propose marriage, and her mother did not want to agree.

But when she looked at the young man standing behind the matchmaker, she mustered up the courage to pull her mother from behind for the first time.

Although my mother was surprised, she still respected my choice.

When we first got married, he and I also lived a life of harmony.

But what happened later?It’s been so long that I can’t seem to remember.

In the end Tao Mu closed her eyes, but when she closed her eyes, a tear slowly slid down her hair.Disappeared without a trace.

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