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"According to what you said, even if you have a chance to become an immortal, you will be unlucky first." Zhang Hu smacked his lips and commented.

"That's not necessarily the case. People are different from each other." Zhang Lan said.

People are not comparable. Some say that it takes three generations to change the fate of a family, but that is not true. Some people, with the help of noble people, change their fate in one generation. Therefore, the right time, right place, and right people are all important.

Don't compare people with each other, because comparing people with each other will make you angry. People have different living environments, life experiences, and learning experiences. Some people are born with a silver spoon in their mouths, while others are born with nothing to eat and nothing to wear.

Zhang Lan once knew a classmate who came from an ordinary family. He didn't like to go to work right after graduation and often quit his job to live off his parents.

His parents were worried that he would continue to be useless, so they took him to a fortune teller. The fortune teller said that he would have a leisurely life and would become richer and richer.

His parents were skeptical, but he himself didn't believe it at all. He thought that if he hated working so much, how could he have money in the future? He could barely support himself.

Later, his parents couldn't stand it anymore, so they smashed his computer and said to him, "You'll become a useless person if you stay at home every day. It would be better if you go out more often!"

In fact, he is not addicted to games, he just loves reading books and watching movies, and is interested in all kinds of miscellaneous knowledge.

Since then, he would go to a nearby place similar to a nursing home almost every day to chat with the elderly.

That place is said to be a nursing home, but in fact it is more like a resort center. There are food and entertainment things inside, as well as a small zoo. The scenery is also superb. Tourists from outside can also buy tickets to go in and spend money and relax.

He found it very interesting to chat with those old people because he felt that everyone's life was like a book or a movie, each with its own highlights.

Among them, there was an old man with whom he got along particularly well. When he was young, the old man was very capable and was the owner of a factory. When he got old, he handed the factory over to his children.

Even though the old man is in his sixties, he is still full of curiosity about the world. He knows what is popular and what hot news events are happening.

Moreover, this old man is not blindly obedient. He has his own judgment and will not jump to conclusions when talking about topics he does not understand. It is true that people who are powerful when they are young will also be powerful old people when they are old.

Then, his classmate Zhang Lan happened to have similar interests and personalities to him, and the two of them talked about everything under the sun, as if they had met too late. They always had no shortage of topics to talk about, such as cars, military affairs, history, biological evolution, and life.

They would also have disagreements, and the two of them could debate from just after dinner until midnight, and continue to debate the same topic the next day. Later, because the old man was afraid that the management of the nursing home would kick him out, he paid for him to become a member, so he could eat, live and play there. This time, he could support himself even without a salary.

In his words, he felt that he and the old man were like the two protagonists in a movie. About two years passed like that, and gradually he became familiar with the old man's youngest daughter.

The rest of the story was like a TV drama. He had an affair with the old man's little girl, and the old man not only did not object, but was very supportive.

The old man's daughter was already in her thirties, eight years older than him, and had been single for many years. She had never gotten along with anyone she was introduced to, but she just clicked with him. Now, their eldest daughter is already in her teens. He cherishes his current life and is very good to his wife, father-in-law, and children. Perhaps his only shortcoming is that he doesn't like working.

He told Zhang Lan that he now believed the fortune teller who had told him that he would have a leisurely life and become richer and richer in the future.

Comparing yourself with others will make you angry to death; comparing your lives with others will make you sick.

Ordinary people cannot earn their fortunes, so just let it go. Change your mindset and comfort yourself. Compare yourself with those who are not as good as you, and you may also be a capable and rich person.

People, it is enough to be better than the best and better than the worst, and live a comfortable life. There are many people who are not as good as you, so just be content. Besides, instead of comparing with others, being envious, jealous and resentful, and causing sadness and anger, it is better to be yourself and live your own life.

You need to adjust your mindset when you are alive, try not to compare yourself with others, and don't be jealous of others. It's their business if they are better off. Just do your best based on your own strength.

As long as you have enough to eat, warm clothes to wear, and don't owe anyone anything, it's good enough. Live a peaceful life and the most important thing is to be happy.

Some people appear glamorous on the surface, but are actually very unhappy, unhappy and hypocritical; while some people can barely make ends meet, but live a happy, blessed and fulfilling life.

We can't be the best, so just be an ordinary person.

If you can't afford high-end wine, drink louzi, which is still intoxicating; if you can't afford high-end tea, drink ordinary tea, which is still tasty; if you can't afford a lover, keep a good wife, which is still romantic; if you can't afford a big house, live in a small house, which is still wind and rain proof; if you can't afford a big lobster, eat a small lobster, which is still calcium supplement; if you can't afford a luxury car, drive an ordinary car, which is still a means of transportation; if you can't afford fine clothes, wear coarse cloth, which is still cold-proof; if you can't afford to join a luxury club, just go to a corner of the park to brag; if you can't get close to high-ranking officials and rich people, just make an appointment with a few good friends from the working class...

Live with a positive attitude, don't compare! Don't compare! Others have good jobs, good lives, money, power, and fame, that's their way of life.

If you can't compare yourself, just compare yourself with yourself. It's enough as long as today is better than yesterday and you have enough food and clothes.

Neither feel inferior nor flattery. He is a famous celebrity and I am an unknown person. We are both just a speck of dust in the world. He is rich and you are poor. That is fate.

To be alive, everyone needs three meals a day, and everyone is working to earn money to support their families, but the ways are different. It doesn't matter if you earn more or spend less, as long as you can fill your stomach and not go hungry.

Don't always compare yourself with others, because you have different starting points, different strategies, different intentions, and limited abilities, and therefore the results you get are different. Everyone has their own destiny.

Success has its own efforts and troubles, while being ordinary has its own peace and fun! So you should keep a calm mind. In fact, what is really worth comparing is not others, but yourself today, your past, and your future self, to see what has changed.

If you make a little progress every day, are a little happier, gain a little, constantly renew yourself, become richer and more advanced day by day, then you are an excellent person, regardless of others.

Don't compare yourself with others. There are many people in this society who are better than you, more outstanding than you, and better than you in terms of family background, appearance, ability, etc.

Those who don't have it have to admit that everyone has their own destiny and talents, so you have to admit that you may be an ordinary person. It's good to be an ordinary person. You don't have to worry about it. You can cultivate your own piece of land, adjust your attitude towards life, and live your own mood. (End of this chapter)

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