Innate limitations combined with acquired human and environmental limitations lead to a path that seems to be chosen by a person, but the result is actually inevitable.

Just like sometimes when you look back at an experience, you will find that the choices made at a certain period were the best solutions at the time, because they were the best choices under the constraints.

Humans are creatures that rely on the environment to grow, and are bound to be restricted by it. It may seem like one's own choice, but it is just a few options left by the environment.

As for whether the choice was the best solution, at the time perhaps we could just do our best and leave the rest to fate.

All decisions people make seem to be the best solution at the time, and life is about finding the best solution within one's cognition. If a person goes back ten years without retaining his memory, will his life change?

Or if a person travels back in time from ten years later without retaining any memories, will this person's life change?
The conclusion is to stop regretting the past and stop being pessimistic about the future. Get rid of all meaningless and unchangeable thoughts and emotions, always maintain an ideal state, only think about how to solve problems when encountering problems, and keep the brain without any noisy voices when there are no problems.

Is there a causal relationship between seeing through the operating mechanism and whether or not one works hard? Some people express emotions, while others express facts.

It is true that we will die eventually while we are alive, but it is impossible to die immediately.

Now that we know this mechanism, will we think about how to allocate life in the next few decades?
Why can't people first acknowledge certain real situations and then develop real and feasible action plans based on the real situations?

I always emphasize that we must work hard, strive, change, strive for self-improvement, and never give up. Why must life be filled with positive energy words, and not allow any other voices to break this peace?

Is it really to change something, or is it to numb the shaky, confused and fearful heart?
To change, you must first face what it is like, and then try to change it.

The so-called destiny is just a phenomenon in the laws of nature. Someone discovered this phenomenon and then invented the word destiny to create mystery.

In the final analysis, everyone does everything for the best solution at the time, and the fundamental reason is for themselves. Most people are unwilling to admit that they do everything to satisfy their own psychological needs.

It doesn't matter whether it is decided or not. Your own physical feeling is real, and everything else is fake. Be a frog in a well, and be a god in your own world. Then your life on earth will not be in vain.

However, if we don’t consider the future, how many people can do that? If we consider the future, we need to step out of our own world, which is contradictory in itself. The balance point can only be determined by ourselves.

To plan for the future or not is actually a question of what your heart desires.

Planning for the future does not necessarily lead to success, but not planning for the future does not necessarily mean failure. Success or failure is not the key, the key lies in what your heart is looking forward to.

The contradiction may be that I want to go, but I can't go there yet.

Again, whether you can do it or not is not important, what matters most is whether you want to do it or not. In your living environment, try to connect in the direction of your thoughts, so as to extend your life, wait slowly, endure slowly, and lean towards what you want.

In this way, in the end, life may not be very good, but it will definitely not be too bad.

However, there was a reason why Zhang Jintao believed in fate so much, and his family members believed the same.

In the beginning, Zhang Jintao's parents spent hundreds of thousands of dollars to get him a good job in a bank. In the end, he was replaced by someone else, and the other person had no connections and just happened to get the job by chance.

He graduated from an average school, has an average education, average looks, average height, and an unusual weight...

In general, he graduated from an ordinary undergraduate school, with an ordinary major, ordinary appearance, and an ordinary family. At that time, Zhang Jintao stayed at home all the time, and ran back home after working outside for a short time, saying that he couldn't stand that kind of work.

As time went by, his family also started to worry. With his current conditions, if he didn’t have a good job, how would he find a partner in the future? Later, he heard that a local state-owned bank could help him find a partner, so his family wanted to get him a job at that bank, because that bank didn’t have any personal business, and if he got in, he would basically be guaranteed to have no worries for the rest of his life, and he wouldn’t have to worry about not being able to work for long.

It just so happened that one of Zhang Jintao's brothers-in-law knew a person in charge of the bank, and then he started looking for people, asking people for favors, giving gifts, and having dinner...

When talking about this at that time, Zhang Jintao's family members said that the money was well spent, as others didn't have this way to give gifts.

However, there was a small episode in the middle. Zhang Jintao didn't like to talk much at that time. He was spoiled by his family and didn't know how to speak or do things.

When we went to eat, Zhang Jintao basically just showed up and didn't say anything. It was his brother-in-law who did the rest.

The person who asked for help only remembered Zhang Jintao's name and outline.

At the end of the dinner, the leader said, "I'll take care of this matter. I guarantee it will be done for you."

The next step is to apply for the exam and have an interview. No matter how many backdoors you use, you still have to go through the process.

Everyone was happy, and the whole family waited for the notice to take the exam and interview. But more than a month later, one day Zhang Jintao's brother-in-law suddenly called and asked, "Xiaotao, have you gone to work?"

Zhang Jintao said: "I haven't received any notification yet!"

"But I heard from others that the recruitment is over!" Zhang Jintao's family was stunned when they heard this.

Later, I called the leader and found out that the recruitment was indeed over. The leader said, "Don't worry about my work. The person has already started working."

Zhang Jintao's brother-in-law: "Come in to work? What kind of work? I'm still at home waiting for notification!"

The leader was also confused: "Ah? Then who is this person that I asked the person in charge to recruit?"

Afterwards, we will verify...

It is true that Zhang Jintao was missed. When I was screening the resumes, I specifically looked for the name Zhang Jintao. After finding him, I threw the rest of the resumes aside.

Moreover, the person recruited has the same name as him, looks ordinary, wears glasses, has dark skin, and is of the same height... His education level is also ordinary undergraduate...

The photos they took during the interview were all taken directly, without any retouching...

If you don't look closely at the photo of the two, they really look alike. Most importantly, this person is from a rural family and has no background.

Afterwards, everyone was stunned. The leader had indeed done the job and gave the green light all the way. Afterwards, during the meal, the gifts sent by Zhang Jintao's family were returned.

As for the money for the bribes and food, there was no way to get it. Later, Zhang Jintao and his family all believed in fate, and when they talked about this matter, they would say: "Zhang Jintao was unlucky, he didn't have the luck to enjoy this blessing."

Later, Zhang Jintao understood that sometimes, it is not okay to refuse to obey. (End of this chapter)

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