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Although many people say that they dislike chicken soup, in fact, there must be a reason for its existence.

It's just that the way of speaking is different. Some are easy to accept, while others are unpleasant to the ear.

As an ordinary person, there is nothing wrong with lying down in this era.

What is the life trajectory of an average person? After the college entrance examination, I was asked to choose a university major when I was completely unfamiliar with various subjects.

Having just graduated from college, I was asked to choose a career path without any idea of ​​how to plan my life. Having only worked for a few years, I was asked to choose a life partner without knowing much about how to behave in society.

After entering middle age, they could no longer struggle and had to admit that they were old. The couple, a couple of four elderly people, emptied their six pockets to pay for the down payment and bought a car.

Every step is uncertain. If life continues along this path, it is highly likely that you will go the wrong way.

After entering the society, I found that everyone is very realistic and only cares about money. No matter how nice the words are, they will not do anything if you don't pay. Only money can make you live a better life.

Death occurs because the world needs metabolism, and pain occurs because the world needs to distinguish between good and bad. Pain is inevitable, the only difference is whether it happens to yourself or someone else.

The longer some things are delayed, the more painful they become. That's all, and it's actually quite fair.

The operation of human society is like a water purifier. After passing through a semi-permeable membrane, some people enter the relative wastewater pipe.

At this time, the road ahead becomes things like cleaning and watering the flowers, rather than fish soup, jelly, and Pu'er tea.

Nowadays, everyone lives to be seventy or eighty years old. Once they have adjusted their mood, they still have to live on for the remaining decades.

Lower your goals, make some small achievements, find someone you love, marry them, take care of each other, raise a stray cat or dog, do some handicrafts, and indulge in consumerism.

Anyway, if you follow this route, you can live well with an average salary. If you care about the one or two thousand yuan between the minimum wage and the average wage, then saving money is also a happy thing, no worse than consumerism. Don't buy things you can't afford, and don't do things you don't want to do.

The human subconscious mind is very rational. When the signal of not wanting to do something appears in the mind, it itself explains a lot of problems.

There are many cheap and low-cost pleasures in the world, such as watching short videos and reading exciting articles. The problem is that there are many negative things in life. In addition to the skills to make yourself happy, you just need to learn the skills to make yourself suffer as little as possible.

Being too nice will lead to being exploited, and eating too much sweets will make you fat and sick. Avoiding these things also requires skills. Some things may not be a mastery, but they can help people avoid many troubles in life.

For example, "Try not to deal with poor people about money," or understand the common behavioral patterns of people with depression.

This way you can quickly identify what type someone belongs to, and it's very easy. It depends on what level a person is in the world. There are dozens of classes if you break them down a little. What kind of things a person will encounter in general is similar most of the time.

The reason why human society is filled with astronomical amounts of suffering is to select those who are truly outstanding. No one is qualified to demand that someone must succeed. If someone does this, stay away from them. Success is not sought, it just happens.

Live your own life well first, this is a necessary ability, otherwise you will still be miserable even if you make money.

Many people fantasize every day that they will no longer be miserable if they make money. This is because they cannot face the fact that they cannot even live a basic life.

If you can't go to high school when you graduate from junior high school, you won't experience the pain of working in an electronics factory after graduating from college. Don't expect casually, and don't give and work casually, so that life will be much smoother.

False dreams and hopes are everywhere. If you cannot convince yourself that you are that kind of person when you are alone, then don't go to the table. If you do go to the table, you must accept the defeat.

If you have a problem, find someone who is professional and good at it, don't just do it blindly. If you feel you are trapped in some vicious place, run to other places. People should take care of themselves.

Money is easier to remember and calculate, but things that are difficult to calculate are equally important. Just because something is vague and difficult to calculate does not mean it is unimportant. There is no way to distinguish between necessities and necessities, because they are all necessities, and frequency and dosage are other things.

Many people don't realize that close relationships and casual acquaintances are both necessary. It's wrong to talk about some inexplicable relationships and then stuff yourself into a cave and cut off your escape route.

There is nothing more unreasonable than to give up one necessity for another.

Sometimes the motivation for finding something will change, such as when you discover that you no longer love your partner, or when your children grow up and no longer need you.

Then find new motivation and then adjust your new life to suit your new motivation.

Do as much as you feel happy, there is no need to exhaust yourself. Only when you receive the gift of fate do you have the obligation to give back to society.

This is the 21st century, and the ruling party is a socialist party. We will never starve to death.

Don't work hard when you don't need to, don't obey when you don't need to, otherwise you will inevitably fantasize about some weird things. People in this era can easily accept information and mature relatively early, but the knowledge system is very complex, competition and involution are serious, the screening and training mechanisms have serious problems, and educational institutions cannot play the functions they generally claim. All kinds of things are specious, etc. It is normal to be mentally confused due to these things.

But that is something you need to consider in order to succeed.
Most people don't need to think about the difference between Terence Tao and Einstein, or the difference between Einstein and Hawking. Being able to be an ordinary person is already a prerequisite for success. If you can't be an ordinary person, it will still be painful to have a skill. If a skill can't bring you anything, then you will gradually give up following up on this skill.

Being an ordinary person who is optimistic and knows his fate is very remarkable. And it is also simpler, because most people in the world are ordinary people, and there are rich experiences and cases to refer to on how to be an ordinary person.

It is difficult to walk alone. If you have a passion, you can shine. Increasing income and reducing expenditure play the same role, making money and saving money play the same role, making yourself happy and avoiding difficulties play the same role.

Cleaning the dust and descaling of solar water heaters is essentially the same as building a nuclear fusion reactor: both are about creating usable energy.

Humans are first and foremost animals. There is no reason why humans cannot do what cats and dogs can do, such as seeking benefits and avoiding harm, and responding to stress. (End of this chapter)

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