A leisurely life that begins with the possession of a game character

Life must be experienced and explored by oneself. Everyone has his or her own destiny and way of living.

Zhang Lan did not agree to lend money to Liu Chao, and told Liu Chao that if it was a matter of two children getting married and going to school, it would only be a matter of one sentence for Liu Chao to borrow money.

But if you just want to enjoy yourself, then you can enjoy it if you have money. If you don’t have money, just endure it.

When Liu Chao saw that Zhang Lan stood up and left without borrowing the money, Zhang Lan also warned Liu Chao that if he had time to go on a self-driving trip, it would be better to drive a big car to make money.

If you want to enjoy yourself, make money by yourself. If you are quick, you can earn the car payment and tolls in a year. The child is so old, and now I still think about how I feel comfortable.

Zhang Lan can understand this selfish mentality, but cannot understand this behavior.

Zhang Lan has seen similar examples of people like Liu Chao who are about to get married soon and just want to enjoy themselves.

However, in rural areas, this happens mostly because the family is a girl, and the family does not have to worry about the house and future life.

Below is the son. A father who refuses to be a father if he has the ability, but who doesn't care about his son, is something Zhang Lan has not seen many times over the years.

I have only seen one case happen to me, it was a primary school classmate in Qingshan Village. His mother committed suicide when he was seven or eight years old, allegedly because his father had an affair. His mother was so angry that she committed suicide at home because the relationship between this classmate and his father was extremely bad.

When Zhang Lan was in the third grade of junior high school, this classmate stopped studying and dropped out of school early to work. At that time, his father didn't say anything.

Ever since the mother of Zhang Lan, a classmate, committed suicide, his father has never married another and has always been alone at home.

He doesn't go out to work on weekdays, he just works on some land and does odd jobs. When you have money, you can eat and drink and don't worry about Zhang Lan, your classmate.

My classmate is the same age as Zhang Lan, and has never been married. Except for the fact that he himself is a bit extreme in his behavior due to things that happened when he was a child.

Another thing is that his father basically doesn't care about him. His attitude towards him is that if he wants to come back, he can come back, and if he wants to go out to work, he can go out to work.

You will have a bite to eat when you come back, but don’t think about anything else.

Because they were classmates and from the same village, Zhang Lan had always been in contact with him, and occasionally would send messages and chat for a while.

When it comes to marriage, his words are always full of dissatisfaction with his family, saying that the main reason why he is not doing well is his father.

Zhang Lan’s classmates also work outside all year round and earn a lot of money, but they never have any awareness of saving money. They often go to the factory to work for a while when they have no money, and when they have money, they quit their jobs and enjoy themselves for a while.

Regarding marriage, what he and Zhang Lan said was that it would be fine if his family was in his generation, and he planned to stay like this for the rest of his life.

Later, I learned that when Zhang Lan worshiped the Bodhisattva at home, this classmate even came to see Zhang Lan.

Wanting Zhang Lan to show him whether he would have to work hard all his life, Zhang Lan comforted him after burning incense.

Whether this person's destiny is good or not depends on part of his natural luck, but more of it depends on his own acquired efforts. If he doesn't work hard and just relies on others, except for his close relatives, other people will Who would help someone who has nothing to do with them for no reason? The strange thing is that this classmate of Zhang Lan only has a son. After what happened, until now, the other person has neither married nor shown any special love for the child.

On a daily basis, it feels like you are raising a dispensable thing. No matter what Zhang Lan's classmates want to do, his father doesn't care most of the time.

You can do whatever you want, as long as you don't let me help you, don't let me plug your ass.

Zhang Lan has always been puzzled as to why this classmate's father, his only son, has always ignored his own son even though he has not married anyone else.

Until one day when going to the cemetery, Zhang Lan burned the gold and silver paper money and then used the spiritual eye of merit to check the surrounding environment.

By chance, Zhang Lan's classmate and his father passed by the Zhang family's ancestral graves on the road, and Zhang Lan's meritorious spirit was still looking around.

After a quick glance, Zhang Lan glanced again in surprise. In addition to recognizing the two people, there was another reason that surprised Zhang Lan.

The reason is that under the eyes of Gong De Ling, Zhang Lan saw that the two people who were supposed to be father and son had no relationship at all.

This made Zhang Lan, who was burning paper money in the cemetery, couldn't help but glance back again, and then suddenly realized.

It turns out that the classmate's father has known for a long time that classmate Zhang Lan is not his son, so he doesn't care about classmate Zhang Lan getting married and starting a business in the future. He himself is also drunk now.

However, one difficulty in explaining this speculation is why the classmate's father never remarried and never mentioned this to outsiders or his own family.

Afterwards, when Zhang Lan calmed down and thought about the reason, she suddenly realized that it might not be that the classmate's father had remarried, but that he might have some problems himself, which was why he didn't tell the outside world.

Looking back at this time, I realized that there might be some hidden reason behind Zhang Lan’s classmate’s mother’s subsequent suicide.

Some secrets are not suitable for too many people to know. After Zhang Lan discovered that the two fathers and sons were not biological, the father of his classmate also had a reason for his embarrassing behavior.

However, this kind of behavior still makes people look down upon. Since he didn't say it out loud at the beginning, it means there must be a certain reason for the classmate's father to endure this tone.

Looking back, my classmate's father never got married. He knew clearly that Zhang Lan's classmate was not his biological child, but he never told the truth. That means there must be something wrong with this person's body, so he would recognize his son knowingly.

But in Zhang Lan's view, regardless of whether you planned to raise the child because of something really wrong with your health or whatever, the fact that you didn't mention this when the child's mother passed away shows that you plan to raise the child later.

A child has been taken care of by himself since he was a child. Why does he have to be so entangled and wrong? Is it because he is afraid that the child will know the inside story in the future?

In the past two days, people from ten miles and eight villages came to offer incense, and the father of Zhang Lan's classmate also came once. How can I put it, sometimes a person's mental outlook can really reflect enough of the situation.

As an old man in his fifties, he spends his whole day thinking about giving his children some confidence and doing what he can to help the young people. Instead, I talk about retiring from time to time, not wanting to have a child all of a sudden. The child dropped out of school early and hasn’t spent much of the family’s money.

Under this situation, an old man of several decades has not saved a penny, for fear that his children will not have to work hard in the future. (End of chapter)