I pampered my mother in the nurturing game

Victims become perpetrators.

It is said that poverty is a disease that is difficult to cure, but a disease more serious than poverty is the preference for sons over daughters.

The poorer you get, the poorer you get, and the poorer you get, until you can give birth to the so-called son who can pass on the incense.

If you cannot give birth to a son, you will be guilty throughout your life.

This is a concept that some people have been influenced by before their three views are fully developed.

This concept moistens things silently and slowly takes root.

"Then let me ask another question."

Yu Feiwan raised his eyes and looked directly at Wen Wen.

"If a few years later, you started your own family, were pregnant for ten months, and gave birth to a daughter, would you happily accept it and raise her willingly?"

"I can." Wen Wen blurted out.

"What if the second child is still a daughter?" Yu Feiwan asked unhurriedly.

Wen Wen hesitated briefly, then nodded, "I will still raise him."

Yu Feiwan laughed sarcastically in his heart.

No, you won't.

"What about the third and fourth babies or girls?"

Even though family planning was implemented, she really wondered how such four and five children could be born again and again without telling the truth.

Also, if there is no household registration, it is equivalent to not having a child.

After giving birth to a daughter, do you have to throw it away to make room for a boy?

Wen Wen lowered his head unconsciously and retorted in a low voice, "Does it have anything to do with you being unhappy because we look alike?"

Yu Feiwan: Yes! She was the little unfortunate girl who was thrown away.

No, it's a big lucky egg.

Pingping's existence turns misfortune into luck.

But her healthy growth does not mean that Wen Wen is blameless for abandoning the baby girl.

"you answer me."

Wen Wen still lowered his head, feeling a little guilty, "How can there be a mother in this world who doesn't love her children."

"But, you still have to consider reality."

"There must always be a male child in the family who can support the family."

"So, if the third and fourth babies are still girls, you will abandon them, right?" At this moment, Yu Feiwan was asking knowingly.

Wen Wen hurriedly raised his head, "It's not abandonment."

"If the family can afford it, then raise it."

"If you can't, try to find a way to put him up for adoption."

"People who are unable to have children will be treated kindly."

Yu Feiwan sneered, such naive and idealistic thoughts.

You can abandon your own children, but you still hope that the people who put them up for adoption will treat them well.

Is this kind of thinking a way to deceive yourself and make yourself feel better?

"If you can't afford it, why do you still have children?"

"Because you can't determine whether you're male or female without giving birth, right?"

Yu Feiwan asked and answered himself.

She couldn't judge Wen Wen's good and evil based on this.

It has been deeply ingrained for thousands of years, so I secretly think that this is how things should be done by convention, and that is right.

For a long time, Wen Wen didn't speak.

Just when Yu Feiwan felt that the conversation was going to end in vain, Wen Wen suddenly said, "If I could make the decision, I would not abandon any child."

"But I know I can't."

"From the moment my parents died in the black mine accident, I no longer have the freedom to make choices."

"Whether it's going to school or getting married, it's not my decision."

"I don't know why you are asking me these irrelevant questions. I can only say that as a girl, I hope that girls can have the same treatment and rights as boys, but I also believe in my heart that this is impossible."

"In the village, the grandson is the grandma's sweetheart, and the granddaughter is the family's loser."

"The house and savings at home are all for the boy."

"Girls have no share."

"After a woman gets married, she must also have children so that she won't be poked in the spine and scolded as a hen that can't lay eggs."

"I've seen too many of these."

"Even my grandfather, people from all over the country said that he was a kind person, but after my parents died, he secretly cut off part of the hush money and gave it to his younger brother to save. He even asked me when he sent my younger brother and me to my aunt's house. no the same."

"I can't resist, I can only choose to go down the river." "I'm sorry, it's not too late."

"I know, my answer disappointed you."

"I have to make sure I survive first."

"If you don't want to be friends with me in the future, I'll admit it."

"I'm not good enough."

Wen Wen carried his schoolbag and trotted away from the campus against the light.

Yu Feiwan was still sitting on the steps, looking at the teaching building shrouded in the setting sun from a distance, his thoughts constantly drifting away.

Disappointed?

Not a disappointment either.

This is the mainstream concept today.

The equality she considers in her heart is no different than a small boat hitting an iceberg or a small earthworm shaking a big tree in this era.

Even if he is as kind as Li Lan, the balance in his heart is still leaning towards Yu Peng.

Giving birth to a boy seems to be a task that a woman must complete in her lifetime.

If it cannot be completed, it is a failure.

Whether in the county or in the countryside, there are many people who tirelessly seek children.

She thought clearly, and she could even understand the pity of these people.

However, she still couldn't control the intense pain in her heart.

Sour and astringent.

Fortunately.

Fortunately, she never had high expectations for her biological mother, whom she had never met.

Without expectations, there will be no disappointments.

Without disappointment, there will be no resentment due to gaps.

What Wen Wen said was an inescapable fact.

People, you have to make sure you survive first.

In a way, this is not selfishness, but self-preservation.

She guessed that the person Wen Wen married was not a good man either.

A family that abandons its daughter over and over again cannot be a kind and good thing.

"It's not too late, it's not too late."

Yu Ping's smiling voice added vivid colors to the sunset.

A living spring was also injected into Yu Feiwan's heart.

"Did you miss me this afternoon, so you secretly looked at me in the corridor?"

Yu Ping held Yu Feiwan's arm and smiled sweetly and softly.

Yu Feiwan leaned against Yu Ping's head and said from the bottom of his heart, "I have thought about it."

Want it so so much.

It is necessary to meet him face to face.

Hearing this, Yu Ping held Yu Feiwan's cheeks with both hands and frowned slightly, "Feiwan, has someone made you unhappy?"

"Don't lie, tell the truth."

Yu Feiwan took Yu Ping's hand and whispered, "I met someone I thought I would never see again in my life."

"Fei Wan doesn't want to see you, don't you like it?" Yu Ping tilted her head and asked curiously.

Yu Feiwan curled his lips, and his voice was clear and ethereal, just like the night wind in early autumn, gradually bringing a chill, "It's okay."

"It was just too unexpected, and I couldn't accept it for a while."

"If you can't accept it, don't accept it." Yu Ping continued seriously, "It's not too late. You must not wrong yourself because of irrelevant people."

"You are the most important."

Yu Ping spoke word by word.

Yu Feiwan raised his hand to straighten Yu Ping's messy hair, "You are the most important."

Your wish is my wish.

What you asked for is why I came here.

"Where's Jiaojiao?"

"Detention?"

Yu Feiwan pretended to be relaxed and changed the topic.