After kicking out my ex-husband, his brother and I got back together.

Chapter 414 I teach myself
Feng Yining handed the child to Songzi and gave Songzi a hint, and Songzi immediately understood.

She touched Zheng Yanqing's face.

"Okay, you and dad go to rest first. Mom will come and tell you a story later, okay?"

"it is good."

Zheng Yanqing hugged Songzi's neck, and the two father and son returned to their room.

Feng Yining and Xia Yizhen took Su Xiaojun's shoulders into her bedroom.

When she closed the bedroom door, Su Xiaojun was still a little nervous. What kind of important thing was this, and why did she need to tell her so solemnly?
"Xiaojun, come here and sit down."

Feng Yining and Xia Yizhen were both sitting on the carpet at the end of the bed, each holding a plush doll in their hands.

Su Xiaojun walked over and the three of them sat in a circle.

Xia Yizhen pursed her lips before speaking.

"Xiaojun, last time, your pants were stained with blood, and you went to your mother in panic, right?"

As soon as he mentioned that, Su Xiaojun's face suddenly turned red.

In fact, she didn't know what the red blood was. When she was in Haimo Village, she had seen her mother bleed. At that time, her mother would always be very shy and quietly pick up a piece of white stuff and flush it into the toilet.

She didn't understand at that time why her mother didn't tell her father and grandma when she was bleeding, but went to the toilet with something like a pack of tissues.Doesn't she feel pain?
Once again, she couldn't hold back her curiosity and asked her mother, but her mother avoided her eyes and did not answer. She only said that children should not ask such questions.

Even though he was not completely sensible at that time, Su Xiaojun also knew that this matter should not be mentioned in front of others.

If my mother doesn't want others to know that she is bleeding, then this must be something bad that cannot be known to outsiders. Naturally, she doesn't want others to know.

But now, Xia Yizhen and Feng Yining were both sitting in front of her, looking at her and talking about those things with a calm expression, which seemed to be very different from her previous mother.

Xia Yizhen continued.

"You have grown up now. We girls have an organ in our body called the uterus, which is specially designed to give birth to babies."

She reached out and touched Su Xiaojun's belly.

"It's here, just like your mother gave birth to you, your aunt gave birth to Huanwan, and I gave birth to Shu Cheng. This thing called the womb is where you lived before you came to this world. "

Su Xiaojun looked towards Xia Yizhen's belly.

Xia Yizhen looked into Su Xiaojun's eyes and said softly.

"The fact that you can bleed regularly every month means that your body is slowly maturing. During this process, we must protect our privacy, but there is no need to be too shy. Do you understand?"

Su Xiaojun nodded.

Feng Yining sat on the other side and also said to Su Xiaojun.

"Xiaojun, you are 12 years old now. You have some knowledge and you need adults to guide you. There are differences between men and women. We girls must have our own privacy. It's okay to play with circles during the day, but rest at night When you are here, don’t spoil that kid anymore, you know?”

Su Xiaojun immediately understood what Feng Yining meant, pursed her lips and nodded.

"Good boy."

Feng Yining touched her head.

"For us girls, when we grow up, our room is a very private place. From now on, if Circle goes to your room without your consent, you can scold him out. Of course, your uncle and I will do the same. Education circle, respect girls’ privacy.”

The two of them talked with Su Xiaojun in the room for a long time.

They told Su Xiaojun that menstrual periods are not shameful and bleeding is a completely normal phenomenon.

If a person likes things, food, clothes, and scenic spots, there must be things he doesn't like.

As long as she doesn't break the law or harm others, she is free to do whatever she likes.

They also told Su Xiaojun that she can boldly say no to things she doesn't like. Now that she can speak and express herself better, she should be more confident and like herself more.

The two of them were just like helping their childhood selves, telling Su Xiaojun that this world belongs to anyone, whether wonderful or ordinary.

……

Zheng Yanqing sat upright on the little tiger bench, in front of a large white wall with two paintings hanging on the wall.

The two paintings are diagrams of the body structures of the two genders, and Songzi is standing next to the pictures.He held a small stick in his hand and stood in front of Zheng Yanqing with a serious expression.

"Look, this is the physical difference between boys and girls. When you are young, the difference between boys and girls may be reflected in your hair and clothes, but when you grow up, it will also be reflected in your figure."

Zheng Yanqing was very serious and nodded seriously.

Songzi continued.

"Boys and girls have different bodies, and they experience different changes as they grow. Sister Xiaojun is growing now. Last year, she grew eight centimeters in one year, right?"

"No! It's [-] centimeters!"

Zheng Yanqing retorted.

Songzi took a deep breath.

This guy recorded Su Xiaojun's height changes accurately to the decimal point!

"Uh... you are right. Did dad tell you that if a stranger wants to touch a part of your body that is covered by clothes, what should you do?"

"Reject him loudly and run to a crowded place!"

"Correct!"

Songzi clicked on the picture again with a small stick.

"Whether you are a boy or a girl, you must protect yourself and don't let others touch you casually."

As soon as he said this, Zheng Yanqing had doubts in his little head again.

"Dad, you also said that if you are a close relative, you can help Quanquan bathe."

"Uh... That's right, but..."

"Sister Xiaojun is also a very close person to Quanquan. She can help Quanquan bathe, and Quanquan can also help her bathe!"

After hearing this, Songzi's eyes widened in shock.

"Hey, hey, that's not okay. Girls have their own privacy. You can't just look at a girl's body!"

Zheng Yanqing tilted his head and asked innocently.

"Then why can you take a bath with your mother and still not come out for a long time?"

When Songzi heard this, he thought this was too far off track. Wasn't he educating his son?Why is my son trapping me now?

"Hey, don't talk nonsense. When did I take a shower with your mother and not come out for a long time?"

"Just like last time, the day you bought me cheese sticks, let me eat the cheese sticks by myself and not enter your room."

Zheng Yanqing said it without hesitation.

Songzi waved his hand quickly.

"That's... that's... Oh, why do you, a little kid, have so many questions?"

Zheng Yanqing stood up immediately, ran to Songzi, and shook his trouser legs.

"But dad, you said, if you don't understand, you should ask. Why did you and mom not come out of the shower for so long, and didn't let Xiaojun and I sleep?"

When Songzi was in a hurry and didn't know how to explain, Feng Yining was already standing at the door, looking at the father and son in the room with a dark face.

"Zheng Song, I asked you to teach the children, is this how you teach them?"

As soon as Feng Yining walked into the house, he took Songzi's arm and dragged him out.

"No, it's not my wife. Please listen to my explanation. I'm teaching my children. It's just that our son has too many problems, so I just..."

"Shut up, I can't count on you. Just go out and I'll teach myself."

Feng Yining dragged Songzi to the door, pushed him out, and slammed the door.

Songzi stood outside the door, looking at the closed door of the room, thinking constantly in his heart.

I clearly locked the door on the day I bought the cheese sticks, how could this little finger still get in?Do you know that you and your wife take a long time to take a shower?
(End of this chapter)