Mountain dwelling practice: I am a gentle guest in the world

Looking at her mother who kept winking at her, Sang Yue was speechless; looking at the little fan whose eyes were elsewhere, with an uninhibited and indulgent expression on her face, she was powerless.

It's rare to confirm that a young fan has a bad fate.

"Parents who love their children have far-reaching plans." Looking at her paranoid mother, Sang Yue tried to reason, "You are now renting a house of more than 20 square meters, which is not as big as her bedroom..."

The child is 15 years old. Due to long-term quarrels between her parents, she is introverted, but she understands everything.

There is no doubt that mothers love their children. Children may not love their parents, but this little fan definitely loves his mother more. Although I have the impression that my mother often quarreled with my father, and sometimes got physical, and even refused to feed my father when he came home from get off work.

When her father slammed the door and walked out, she hugged her child and cried, saying that her father no longer wanted her.

The little fan secretly vowed at that time that he would never let his mother suffer or be wronged in the future. So one day, her divorced mother came to pick her up to play. She was very happy that day, played a lot of games and bought clothes.

By the time it was time for dinner, my mother had no money.

She came out of the toilet and overheard her mother in the corridor secretly borrowing money from her uncle. It turns out that after the divorce, the mother had been out of touch with society for too long and could only find a low-paying job with mediocre pay and financial constraints.

I can have so much fun today because my mother has saved money for a long time.

In order to make the child happy, today's consumption is more than the mother can afford. Seeing her always arrogant mother being so humble and submissive in order to borrow money, the little fan's eyes instantly turned red.

She is young but very sensible.

After I came out, I said I didn't want to eat anymore. I wanted to go home and eat the fried egg and vegetable noodles made by my mother. I also wanted to return the clothes and shoes I bought today.

Because my mother has a strong self-esteem, she will definitely deny it if she points it out directly.

"No, it's rare that you like it. It doesn't matter, my mother can afford this." Her mother always smiled in front of her, as if nothing could trouble her.

The little fan didn't force it, silently found a cheaper place and said he liked the food, so he went in.

The little fan returned those clothes and shoes by herself, saying that her family was in trouble and it was her willful temper that cost her family money. The labels on the clothes, shoes and socks were neither removed nor stained. Seeing that the child was quite sensible, the clerk returned the goods to her.

The little fan secretly stuffed the money into her mother's drawer and mixed it with the change inside so that her mother couldn't tell them apart.

But she underestimated her mother's thoughtfulness and immediately recognized that the money had been put in by someone else. Apart from her, there are only children at home, how can there be anyone else? The mother thought it was the child who had stuffed the pocket money given by her father.

The next day, he found his ex-husband's company and returned the money to him, explaining that it was secretly given to him by his filial son.

She was pleased with her children's filial behavior, but she was unwilling to spend an extra dime from her scumbag ex-husband, as that would make her look down on herself. The father was also very pleased. He returned the money to the child and told her not to save it and not to worry her mother.

Little fan: "..."

After that time, my mother worked harder to make money, and several times she went to work sick and passed out at work. When her uncle learned that she was making more money for her children, he thought her children had made excessive demands, so he called her and scolded her.

The heartache and sympathy of the little fan made the mother think that the child felt that she did not give enough and was not good enough, so she worked more diligently and worked two jobs.

He was busy at work and was losing weight day by day, which made his children collapse.

Faced with a mother who insisted on having her own way and had a different opinion about her child's words, the little fan was at her wits' end and began to refuse to go out with her mother, and even did not hesitate to use blunt words to attack her mother:

"You are so poor, why are you pretending to be a fat man and buying me this and that? And all the things I hate! In order to prevent you from spending money, I don't even dare to take a sip of water when I go out with you! Why do you Don’t you take care of yourself first?

I'm well fed and clothed at my dad's house, and I don't have to worry about my last meal causing him to miss his next meal...Mom, I beg you, take care of yourself first! "

The first conflict between mother and daughter shocked the mother so much that she stared at her child in disbelief:

"You, you think your mother is poor?!" As the old saying goes, a dog doesn't think a family is poor, and a son doesn't think its mother is ugly. Her biological daughter, whom she regards as her life, actually thinks her mother is poor, so she always has a sullen face every time they get together, as if the whole world owes her millions. So it turns out she thinks her mother is poor? !

Incredibly, this mother began to feel that her daughter had been taught badly by her ex-husband and family, so she began to fight for custody.

In the past, she had no right to fight because she had no money, no job, and no housing.

But she has everything now, and her family background is indeed not comparable to that of her ex-husband. But she is the biological mother of the child, how can she treat her child poorly in life?

There is an old saying, it is better to live with a beggar than with an official father.

Why? Of course, the biological father only cares about his official duties as an official, so how can he have the time to educate his children? When we fight for custody rights, we either leave the child to the parents or the stepmother.

How many stepmothers abuse their children and the father turns a blind eye?

Because he doesn’t need to give birth to the child, and it doesn’t matter whether he lives or lives. Anyway, if you want a child, you can always find another woman to have one. As a mother, every time she thinks about her child living cautiously in front of her stepmother, her heart breaks.

"Your child doesn't think you are poor, but he feels sorry for you." Sang Yue tried to avoid irritating her mother's self-esteem and said tactfully, "Besides, the child is now in high school, and too many changes in the living environment will affect his mood..."

"That's for sure," my mother nodded in agreement and interjected, "I was not used to moving to such a small place back then. When I got busy, I couldn't care about anything..."

"You are an adult and your child is underage. There is no need for her to get used to your life too early."

"I know, but I am her mother. With her mother around, the child will get used to it no matter what the environment is." On the contrary, if the child has a vicious stepmother, he will not be able to enjoy a wealthy life for a few years.

Sang Yue: "..."

The little fan groaned slightly, turned away and continued to look elsewhere.

"Adults would rather suffer themselves than suffer their children."

"Yes," the mother nodded firmly, "I have never let my children suffer at all."

Sang Yue: "..."

If she continues to have this attitude, we won't be able to continue the conversation today. Doesn't she have any idea about whether she's doing well or not?

"Your child chose to stay with his father. In addition to thinking better of it, I also hope that you will have an easier life with one less burden..."

"How can a child be a burden?" The mother looked at the young goddess with a dumbfounded look. "It looks like you are not married yet. Only those who have never been a mother will despise their children in this way. When you become a mother in the future..."

Sang Yue couldn't bear it any longer, so she stretched out her hand and shook it lightly in front of her face, plunging her into the prospect of her child's future. And when the little fan noticed something was wrong and wanted to scream and tried to call for help outside, he promptly explained:

"I just wanted her to see your miserable future. Of course, you didn't let her see your plot to buy a house for your father, so you can rest assured."

The real estate plot was directly pointed out, and the fans were stunned and shut up.

The child was also suffering from difficulty speaking. She overheard her grandma and her father discussing something. It turns out that when my father wanted to get married for the second time, he decided to buy a house and store for his children.

This is pre-marital property and is also given to children before marriage.

This is done so that the stepmother will have nothing to say after she comes in. If the child and stepmother don't get along, they can move out when they become adults. There is no need to suffer injustice at home, and there is no need to suffer the hardship of having no fixed place to live outside.

But at this time, my biological mother came to fight for custody.

Grandma, who only wants a grandson, said that if her granddaughter decides to leave with her mother and it proves that she is not well-raised, neither the house nor the store will be given to her.

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