Dr. Chung’s 90s

Chapter 43 Psychological Counseling

Chapter 43 Psychological Counseling
Zhong Yu had no energy for several days.

The death of Youlai's wife had a great impact on her.

She even began to think about what the meaning of a woman's life was.

Giving birth to children is a unique ability given to women by God, but they cannot choose the gender of their children according to their own wishes.

Of course, the children she gave birth to were all loved, but her husband’s family would treat them differently because of the gender of the children. She didn’t understand how to explain this?
There are too many women like her mother who spend their entire lives surrounding their children. They are held up on altars and they praise maternal love.

But is this the meaning of women’s existence?Who doesn’t live only once?Only giving makes sense?
The pessimistic and negative Zhong Yu looked a bit scary. When everyone met her in the hospital, they subconsciously did not dare to provoke her.

Even the most active head nurse Zhang didn't dare to get close to her. When he saw her coming, he quickly hid away. If there was any work problem, he would rather run a few more steps to find Director Tang.

Although Tang Jiaren is not an all-around supervisor, he does know some psychological counseling.

He didn't ask around, so he called Zhong Yu directly to the office when he had time.

As soon as Zhong Yu entered the office, she lazily sat down on the chair. The expression on her face was a bit world-weary.

When I first arrived at the hospital, I wasn't very familiar with Director Tang, so he was quite polite and polite in everything he said and did.

Now I don't look up or down every day, and I spend more time than spending time with my family, so I talk much more casually.

Tang Jiaren put his teacup on the table, unbuttoned his cufflinks and asked:
"Have you taken the wrong medicine recently? Why do you look unhappy when you see everyone? The expression on your face is filled with resentment. Is there something going on at home?"

Zhong Yu changed into a comfortable position and leaned on the back of the chair, playing with his fingers boredly, and said casually:
"I live alone in my house, what could happen?"

Tang Jiaren continued to ask suspiciously: "Then you have a partner? Are you suffering from some emotional injury?"

Zhong Yu looked at him with disgust, "In your eyes, am I just such a big deal?"

Tang Jiaren laughed twice, feeling a little guilty when he saw Zhong Yu's gloomy eyes.

"Okay, okay, just give me, the director, some face and tell me what's going on with you. Do you think it's appropriate to bring this state of affairs to work recently?"

Zhong Yu shrugged nonchalantly, "I didn't make any mistakes anyway, and I didn't delay the patient's condition. Isn't work allowed to have personal emotions? I didn't vent my anger on the patient."

Tang Jiaren couldn't show off the director's money in front of Zhong Yu, so he had to soften his tone and whisper like he was coaxing his daughter:
"You are wrong to think so. First of all, you must understand your position in the hospital. You are the backbone of our hospital and you must have higher requirements for yourself. Besides, if you are exposed under my nose, Well, what do you think the dean will do to me?"

Zhong Yu was pleased by his deliberately exaggerated expression. She held her chin and asked cooperatively:
"What will I do to you?"

Tang Jiaren saw that she was still willing to join in the joke, so he knew that the problem was not big, and continued to show off:
"Of course, all evaluations and ratings will be cancelled, and all bonuses will be gone. How miserable!"

Zhong Yu rolled his eyes, "Does Director Tang still need that little money?"

Tang Jiaren nodded repeatedly, "What I lack is that I still have to save a dowry for my daughter to go to college."

Seeing that she was still unmoved, Tang Jiaren had to use his trump card.

"If you don't want to tell me, then I have to go to the dean and ask him to talk to you. He may not be able to enlighten you, but he will definitely nag you to death."

Zhong Yu was offended by his words, and he compromised with a smile:
"Okay, let me tell you, I just got into a dead end, and I feel that living as a woman is really boring."

Tang Jiaren trembled in shock and couldn't control his voice and said:
"Life is so boring? You are so good and powerful, and your life is better than that of most women. You are even considered an elite in the industry. How can you think so negatively?"

Zhong Yu smiled bitterly. She had nothing to hide, so she happily told everything she had encountered.

After hearing this, Tang Jiaren couldn't come back to his senses for a long time. He said in a heavy voice:
"It's no wonder that there are such ignorant old ladies. There is almost no knowledge about obstetrics and gynecology in China. Many women still continue the older generation's concept of pregnancy and childbirth. They have more or less postpartum symptoms. The various problems left behind are probably because the private parts were damaged, so it’s hard to talk about it, so I can only endure it silently.”

Perhaps because of being a doctor, Tang Jiaren is more delicate than ordinary men and looks at problems more deeply.

Zhong Yu smiled bitterly when he heard this, "You are right, but it will take time for the popularization of knowledge. The confusion I encountered is that I do not agree that women's value can be realized by giving birth to children. If only one of me and the child can survive during pregnancy, I will choose myself, does this mean I am not a good woman?"

Tang Jiaren rejected it without hesitation, "In this day and age, women have many choices. You don't need to use the label of a good woman to define yourself. Besides, you haven't really given birth to a child. How do you know whether you will pay for him or not?" Where’s everything?”

Zhong Yu shrugged and continued with some confusion: "I just think that Sister-in-law Zheng's death was too useless, too aggrieved, and too unworthy."

Tang Jiaren nodded in understanding. The two of them resonated with each other as they were both women. Zhong Yu couldn't save the person and felt guilty deep down in his heart.

It is normal for her to be unable to get out of the situation for a while. Psychological growth can only be promoted and enriched by experience. There are many things that she cannot get out of in the short term. As time goes by, she will gradually let go.

The old god Tang Jiaren is here, "Whether you believe in fate or not, everyone follows their own destiny. You can't save her because her fate is like this, not your fault."

Zhong Yu nodded, the gloom on his face dissipating a little.

"Thank you, Director Tang, for the solution. I feel much better."

Tang Jiaren waved his hands indifferently, "We doctors are not gods. We can save the disease but not the life. Just try your best. According to you, not only are women uninterested in life, but men are also uninterested in life. But life is meaningless in the first place. , the things you really do prove that you are alive, this is the meaning."

Although the words were convoluted, Zhong Yu understood them clearly.

She stood up refreshed, raised her wrist and looked at her watch.

"We have to remove Ruirui's stitches today. You need to rest first while I go to work."

Seeing that Zhong Yu was full of energy and devoted to his work, Tang Jiaren was relieved.

When Zhong Yu came out, he went directly to the nurse station to find Head Nurse Zhang. The cowardly way she had avoided him these past few days was still vivid in his mind. If he didn't tease her, he would be sorry for the happy look on her face.

Zhang Yunfei, who had a happy face, was eating duck feet with his head lowered. His chubby face turned red because of the spicy and delicious taste of duck feet.

Zhong Yu was also cautious, walking quietly to the nurse's station, and then slammed the desk.

The duck claw that Zhang Yunfei was biting in his mouth fell directly to the ground. This was the last duck claw. In order to make this bite for her, her old woman went to several wet markets to buy it.

Seeing her face as if she wanted to pick up the duck claws and continue chewing them, Zhong Yu couldn't help laughing. "What's wrong? It's just a duck's claw. Are you so worthless?"

Zhang Yunfei sniffed and said whether he wanted to cry or not:
"Why are you scaring me? A good duck claw is gone after just a few bites. This is the last one..."

This little chubby face was white and rosy and looked easy to pinch. Zhong Yu still resisted the urge and said seriously:
"What time is it? You're still eating there. Wash your hands quickly and accompany me to remove Ruirui's stitches."

Nurse Zhang dares to be angry but dare not speak out. She can obviously handle the matter by herself, so why does she have to join in the fun?

Regardless of whether Zhang Yunfei wanted it or not, she was taken away by Zhong Yu. Although the two were several years apart, they could play together.

When I arrived at Ruirui's ward, I saw Tan Shijie, who hadn't been seen for a long time. He looked a little mentally depressed, with an unshaven beard on his face, and he looked slovenly.

Zhong Yu has an occupational disease, is somewhat mysophobic, and doesn't like people who are too sloppy.

She did not hide her disgust, and Song Meiting saw her expression.

She quickly stepped forward and took Tan Shijie's arm, saying without any hint of indifference:
"A'yu, our Shijie has been on a mission these days. If we don't eat well and sleep well, we'll look a little sloppy. Don't take it personally."

Zhong Yu didn't want to talk to her in his heart, but he had to take some care of his face, so he said calmly:
"He's not like me. I can dislike him if I want. Do you need to care about him?"

Song Meiting was speechless by her words, Zhong Yu ignored Tan Shijie and came directly to Ruirui.

She said in a very gentle voice: "Rirui, Aunt Zhong is here to remove your stitches. You can go home after the stitches are removed."

Ruirui drooped her little head listlessly, looking uninterested.

He whispered: "Aunt Zhong, will I not be able to see you when I go home from the hospital?"

Song Meiting probably wanted to express herself in front of Tan Shijie, so she rushed to say:
"We won't miss it. Aunt Zhong is a relative of our family, so we will have many opportunities to have meals together."

After she finished speaking, she reached out to touch Ruirui. Ruirui pouted and avoided Song Meiting's touch unhappily. He looked at Zhong Yu innocently and prayed weakly:
"Aunt Zhong, why didn't you marry dad? If there must be a new mother, I hope that person is you."

He was sincere and hopeful, but his childlike words made Song Meiting's nose crooked with anger.

Tan Shijie also lowered his head in embarrassment. Only Zhong Yu was the calmest. She touched Ruirui's hair with loving eyes.

She said in a gentle voice: "Because Aunt Zhong doesn't like your father, she can't marry him. Ruirui is so smart that she will understand."

Ruirui was helpless and looked at his father with a particularly disgusting look, seeming to be silently accusing him, "It's all your fault!"

Tan Shijie was a little dumbfounded because Dr. Zhong was too popular with children.

None of the adults present took this sentence seriously, but Song Meiting took it to heart. She acquiesced that her stepson was a troubled person and would need to be disciplined more in the future.

Zhong Yu calmed down Ruirui before starting to remove the sutures for him. She started from the chest first. After the sutures were removed, she found that the scar was somewhat obvious. Fortunately, it was on the chest and was covered by clothes, so it would not affect anything.

Tan Shijie had also seen the surgery plan, and he knew that it was not sutured by Zhong Yu. After she finished fixing the chest, he turned to look at his son's reconstructed auricle curiously.

Because the hair next to the auricle was shaved, it looked a bit eye-catching. After Zhong Yu removed the thread, Tan Shijie was extremely surprised.

There was no obvious scar on the reconstructed ear, which seemed to be his son's original ear.

Before Zhong Yu could retreat, he couldn't wait to move forward to take a look. As soon as this dirty big head came close to him, he almost smoked Zhong Yu away.

She couldn't help but retched and asked with tears in her eyes:
"Battal Commander Tan, are all men in the army so smelly?"

Tan Shijie scratched his head in embarrassment, "I just wanted to see how the wound was healing. I was a little excited and didn't take it into consideration too much. I'm really sorry."

Zhong Yu waved her hand magnanimously and pulled up her mask, "You'd better take a shower first when you have time."

Tan Shijie was not ashamed, he nodded simply, "I will take a shower when I get home. Can Ruirui go through the discharge procedures and go back?"

Zhong Yu nodded and gave them discharge orders while urging:
"After the operation, we still need to pay more attention to protecting the new auricle, and wait three months to bring him for the second-stage surgery."

Tan Shijie took the order from Zhong Yu and said with a smile:
"I understand, if I am not at home for the second stage surgery, his grandparents will bring him here."

Zhong Yu didn't care who brought Ruirui over, as long as they came. Tan Shijie went to the front hall to go through the discharge procedures, and Song Meiting virtuously helped Ruirui change clothes.

Zhong Yu took the things and was about to leave with Zhang Yunfei when Song Meiting suddenly said:
"I forgot to mention just now. The old man of the Tan family arranged a dinner to settle the marriage between me and brother Shijie. Since Ruirui is still here, we just have a simple family celebration. You can't be absent. "

Zhong Yu didn't know what she was thinking, and he didn't know what he wanted to do with this victor's attitude.

She said nonchalantly: "Since it's your family gathering, I'd better not go. I'm an outsider after all."

Song Meiting was a little disgusted by her lack of appreciation and said unhappily:
"After all, we are sisters. What will Aunt Qin think if you don't go? Besides, Mr. Tan has specifically asked you to come over. If you don't go, wouldn't you be letting the old man down?"

Does Mr. Tan's disappointment have something to do with her?Zhong Yu didn't want to say bad words in front of his children, so he suppressed his temper and said:
"Okay, I'll go. Do you have anything else to say?"

No matter how blank her eyes were, Song Meiting could tell that Mr. Tan valued Zhong Yu. Apart from Tan Shijie, the one she feared most was Mr. Tan. Even though he didn't talk as much as the old lady, he could decide everything in the family.

In order to live comfortably in the future, Song Meiting had to bow her head and beg for help.

"If you have time in the future, you can walk around with me more. After all, we have grown up together..."

Zhong Yu felt disgusted after hearing this and quickly waved his hand, "You'd better stop it. We have only been together for a few years and we don't have such a deep relationship. When you bullied me, you forgot about me but you didn't forget about me. Look at my mother and my childhood. For Chun's sake, I will help you if you have anything to do in the future, but don't mention anything about sisters to me, I find it disgusting."

After saying this, Zhong Yu left without mercy. Song Meiting looked at her leaving back and her teeth itched with anger.

"You damn girl was so powerful when she was a child, and yet she's so cunning when she grows up. It's really unlucky!"

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