Be good, call me uncle

Chapter 1575 Parental Responsibilities

The couple stayed in the room of the three babies for a long time, until the three babies were tired from playing, and then they dragged their tired bodies back to the bedroom.

Changsun Tao slumped back on his chair, losing his former solemnity and solemnity: "It's so tiring. Taking care of children is more tiring than going to court."

Lu Mingyu shook his head and couldn't help teasing him: "It has only been a few hours and you are so tired?"

Changsun Tao straightened up and took a breath: "The art of emperors and the outline of governing a country are things that I have learned since I was a child. Even if I have no experience, I still have relevant knowledge reserves."

"But as a parent, you cannot acquire knowledge from books in advance. You must grow up with your children and learn how to be a good father and mother."

"This knowledge is not rigid. The knowledge you just learned may not be applicable the next moment."

"And children are the most complex creatures in the world, and you have no idea how to deal with them."

Lu Mingyu poured a glass of water and took a sip. She said, "That's right. Because children are complicated and difficult to understand, many parents in this world choose to escape."

"Either they discipline their children in a way that they think is worry-free, or they choose to turn a blind eye to their children, no matter how big the mistakes they make."

"Either you choose to treat your children harshly and deny them everything, just to get them to be submissive and obedient and save them trouble."

"So in many cases, it's not that the child is ineffective or that the child is crooked, but that the parents failed to shoulder their educational responsibilities when they should have done so."

Changsun Tao agreed very much: "It is true that when I was sensible, if my father hadn't sent me to be taught by my master, I would be an ignorant and incompetent dandy now, right? Maybe I wouldn't be alive today."

Lu Mingyu looked at him with a smile: "So, we must treat the three little treasures very carefully."

"I hope they will be harmonious as brothers and sisters. Even if they add two more blood relatives, they can still support each other. There will be no life-and-death strife, and there will be no jealousy that will lead to each other's death."

Changsun Tao nodded: "Yan Yan, I understand what you mean, and I will try my best to fulfill my father's responsibilities."

Lu Mingyu said: "When I was still in the Yu family, I always thought, why live without nourishment? I can understand the pain of a person growing up without the care of his father or mother."

"So now, I have been thinking of ways to prevent my children from experiencing the pain I once had."

Changsun Tao looked at Lu Mingyu seriously and said in a gentle voice, but as if he was swearing: "No, because their parents are you and me."

“Even if we’re not perfect, even if we’re not born to be parents, we can learn.”

"And I think this is not a responsibility that you, a first-time parent like me, should bear alone."

"So I'm not here to help you share the burden, but you and I are shouldering it together. It's wrong to say that husbands teach children. Educating children is not the mother's responsibility alone." "Only irresponsible men would say that. If you are irresponsible, use your husband to teach your children to restrain a woman."

Lu Mingyu held his hand, a slight dimple appeared at the corner of her lips: "I agree, this is our common responsibility."

Changsun Tao's expression suddenly became extremely serious: "I now realize that I have been doing something wrong."

Lu Mingyu raised her lips: "Are you referring to the Three Treasures?"

Changsun Tao nodded without hesitation: "Exactly. I have always felt that this is my only daughter, and she is a lovely daughter who will most likely look like you."

"So I must pamper him and pamper her as much as possible. Not only do I have to pamper him, but his brother should also love and protect her."

Lu Mingyu listened carefully: "What then?"

Changsun Tao sighed: "As Sanbao grows up, I have realized that there are some differences, but it wasn't until her words today that I finally woke up."

"I doted on her so much and depended on her for everything, so I indulged her arrogant character. Once she didn't get what she wanted, she would lose her temper."

"Of course, my daughter is qualified to be willful. If no one in this world can tolerate her temper, then I will give her stability for the rest of her life."

"The reason why I feel inappropriate is because you have always treated the three little treasures fairly, while I favor the three little treasures."

"If things go on like this, Sanbao may feel that your fair treatment is wrong, and she also wants you to treat her the same way I do."

"Once you are unable to meet her expectations, then she will have an opinion about you and think that you are not a good mother."

Changsun Tao approached Lu Mingyu: "When I discovered that my preference for the Three Treasures was actually unfair to you, I knew I was wrong."

"You are a good mother, better than me, a partial father. I cannot let my children misunderstand their mother because of my behavior."

"So Yan Yan, I promise you that I will handle this matter carefully in the future to prevent Sanbao from being spoiled."

Lu Mingyu's eyes were filled with mist, and a soft smile appeared on his lips: "Take your time, don't be in a hurry, habits are not formed in a while, nor can they be changed in a short while."

Chang Sun Tao gently held her in his arms: "Yan Yan, in my heart, you will always be better than everything else, and this will never change, no matter what is about to happen."

(End of this chapter)