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Zhu Guangquan responded to the concerns of his colleagues with a smile on his face, but in his heart he couldn't help but think of a recent hot search.

The hot search is about reporters interviewing passers-by and asking young people who don’t want to get married, asking them why they don’t want to get married.

Then, the interviewees spoke freely and talked about many hot topics.

There are also a lot of people complaining in the comment area, saying that their parents' marriage is a piece of cake and that their father is the worst man she has ever come into contact with.

They grew up in such an environment and have never seen a good love relationship. They have not been taught by their parents how to love others and accept love from others. How do you let them get married?

There is no common progress and retreat, no mutual support.

There are only quarrels, betrayals, complaints, and pressure.

Then when I grow up, I say that marriage is good and should be done. Is it reasonable? Is it convincing? "

'So the so-called teaching by words and deeds, how many families can do it! '

With a sigh in his heart, Zhu Guangquan Lehe joined the team of "crusade" a colleague who was the head iron, and "severely" criticized her non-marriageism.

On the stage, Zhang Lin's narration never stopped.

“Take me and my parents as an example!

An eternal argument between us is that I think we should spend money to enjoy happiness, but they are used to saving money and suffering.

For example, when I was in college, I basically took the high-speed train for more than 100 yuan for an hour and a half.

And what about them?

It’s always a green car that costs 40 yuan.

That car is cold in winter and warm in summer, crowded and slow. There are as many stops as there are to stop at. It can be said that the trip lasts three or four hours!

Some of them especially like to hoard things.

There is always an endless supply of rice, flour, grains and oil at home, there are always rags at the door that we neither use nor want to throw away, there is always a lot of cooking to do, and there are always leftovers when you open the refrigerator. "

After hearing these words, when the crane camera slowly swept across, many people at the scene nodded slightly.

Even Boss Yang has this expression.

Scanning his eyes across several mentors, Zhang Lin smiled and said: "You see, my parents and I are on both sides of the generation gap.

But I am willing to understand them.

Why do they like to hoard things?

Because in their era, scarcity was the norm in life.

Why do they refuse to try?

Because there was no explosive growth in knowledge in their time.

Why do they seem so stubborn and conservative?

Because in their era, personal destiny has always been passive acceptance and choice.

They may really be used to hard times!

But if you think about it carefully, no matter how hard they criticize themselves, they will give everything they have for fear of not treating us well.

So I hope my children will be more understanding and patient. Isn’t this a very high requirement? "

The camera focused on the audience again, with different expressions on their faces.

There are those who are silent, and there are also those who nod in agreement.

Taking a step forward, Zhang Lin said: "And anthropologists initially thought that a generation gap would occur every thirty years, but later it became twenty, ten, five, and three years.

This means that when you look behind you at the backs of your aging parents on the other side of the generation gap and feel that they are unreasonable, don’t forget that there are countless generation gaps between those who are behind you and you. "

Bang bang bang~~~

Yang Mi clapped her hands and thought of the exchange with her parents.

The atmosphere at her home was so good that she never realized the generation gap existed.

As a daughter, her conversations with her father always start with mutual hostility.

It was her father's daily greetings to her as a daughter, and then she picked up the conversation with ease and humor. That kind of family conversation would never fall to the ground.

For example, because she returned to Beijing after finishing work yesterday, she arrived in Beijing very late.

Then her dad called and asked her if she had rested. She said what's wrong with her brother?

Because in their family, they don’t call me dad, but just call me brother, which seems very cordial.

Then the two started talking, even though they were nearly forty years old, they still joked and joked in various ways.

Yang Mi felt that the way of communication with her father was very similar to the way of communication between two men, and the atmosphere was relaxed and comfortable.

Therefore, she has no sense of identification with the generation gap.

But she feels that her father's presence made her who she is.

Growing up, her father used every little thing to tell her how to be a good person.

Therefore, she knows what she is thinking very clearly, is very optimistic and confident, and has become the brave and confident person she is now.

While reminiscing warmly, Li Hong said faintly: "The famous writer Wang Zengqi once said:

A humane family actually allows children to grow up or down.

Parents don't always talk to each other, and children are willing to fight and fight with their parents. This is actually a reflection of the success of parental education. "

Nodding in a hurry, Yang Mi said that her father was this kind of person, and he treated her like two buddies.

This not only made her confident and brave, but also allowed her to talk to her father about anything.

Staring at Boss Yang enviously, Li Hong had one sentence stuck in his throat.

Lucky people are healed by childhood throughout their lives.

Unfortunate people spend their whole lives healing their childhood!

They were both sitting at the tutor's table, but their childhoods were completely different from those of Yang Mi.

Involuntarily, her thoughts flew to a long, long time ago~~~

In 1996, when she was young, she made a bold decision.

She secretly bought a bottle of pesticide, planning to use her own life as a threat to make her parents give up the "lifetime" they had secretly decided to hide from her.

At that year, Li Hong didn't know that she would become a well-known CCTV host. After all, she is 18 years old and has been out of school for 4 years!

Four years ago, her family was relatively well off.

Naihe encountered the "laid-off wave" and her father lost his job.

The family has lost its backbone, and the mother is bedridden. The need for food, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar, and tea suddenly becomes an imminent problem.

In order to make a living, Li Hong, who was still in junior high school, had no choice but to leave school with her younger brother and work around to support the family. She also sold clothes and even collected rags in a small town.

Despite the difficult situation, Li Hong's desire to study has never wavered.

In order to earn more money and return to school as soon as possible, she worked three jobs a day at most.

After a period of time, the situation at home eased a little, so Li Hong proposed to her father the idea of ​​returning to school.

This simple idea was strongly opposed by my parents.

The tuition and fees required to study are too much, and it is difficult for the family to "breathe".

My parents thought that instead of studying, it would be better to find a good family to marry.

The concept of "a woman's lack of talent is a virtue" and the idea of ​​​​preferring boys over girls are deeply ingrained in the hearts of her parents.

In this way, without their knowledge, they decided to get married without telling Li Hong. They also paid the gift and they could get married directly after a while.

Li Hong, who knew the news, had mixed feelings in her heart.

She didn't expect her parents to treat her like this!

Li Hong knew that her parents were interested in the financial strength of the man's family.

Marrying a man she had never met before, without any emotional basis, and just being a rural housewife and letting others do what she wanted was never the life she wanted.

Compared with most women who accept their fate, Li Hong has the right to choose herself and free will.

She has always been restricted by her parents, and she doesn't plan to swallow her anger this time.

Because if she endures it any longer this time, her life will be ruined.

Just as the memories were floating around, Zhang Lin asked on the stage: "Can these generation gaps be bridged?"

He shook his head and said "There is no way".

“Because in today’s era of rapid development, a person’s energy is limited, and we cannot drag everyone around us to move forward simultaneously with you.

The ditch is there, neither sad nor happy.

However, there is no way to bridge the gap, but we can try to build a bridge.

Xiao Zhang, a college student in Chongqing, hand-drawn a WeChat manual with pictures and text in order to teach his parents how to use WeChat.

On the first page, he wrote: "Dear Mom and Dad, my son is studying abroad and cannot always be with his parents.

If you miss me, send me a WeChat message. If you don’t know how to send a WeChat message yet, please read this manual. "

Starting from the second page, it’s all about how to open WeChat, how to send voice messages, how to send pictures, and even the WeChat emoticons are all very similar.

In fact, smartphones are an essential tool for our generation, even a necessity in life.

But for the elderly, this is an insurmountable gap.

The ditch is there, but it's not like there's nothing we can do on both sides of the ditch.

We can be like Xiao Zhang, using filial piety as a pillar, respect as a platform, tolerance as an arch, and patience as a beam, building a bridge with communication to connect the previous generation and keep up with the next generation. "

Hua Hua Hua~~~

Warm applause broke out.

Everyone cheered for Zhang Lin's performance.

Li Hong, who applauded and retracted her thoughts, sincerely felt that this paragraph should be quoted by major newspapers and become a classic line to promote filial piety.

Speaking of which, after one season of "I Am a Speaker" was recorded, Zhang Lin's articles not only appeared in major national newspapers many times, but were also quoted by dozens of schools and educational institutions.

It has been spread by marketing accounts countless times.

This hidden honor is the highest achievement of a host.

Feeling Sister Hong's appreciative gaze, Zhang Lin said loudly: "Actually, people of my age should do this.

Because you think, there is a generation gap between me and my previous generation, and there is also a generation gap between me and my next generation.

As a young person, my audiences are all those born in the 90s, 00s, and 10s. They have already formed their own worldview, and sometimes I even have trouble understanding them.

But as a host, I will force myself to set a goal, I will try to understand them, and I will try to learn from any group.

Because only in this way, I will not drift away from them.

"The Analects of Confucius" said: "The Master said when he was on the river, the deceased was like a man who never gave up day and night."

In fact, each of us is not a pebble invested in this torrent of time at different periods of time?

Forty years of rapid development have made us a country with the deepest generation gap in the world.

But the accumulation of five thousand years of civilization has also made us the most tolerant country to the generation gap in the world.

Even though we quarrel, even though we don’t understand each other, our hearts are still close to each other!

This is a special intimate relationship between Chinese children and their parents. This is an immortal inheritance of our Chinese civilization. This is filial piety. "

Nodding lightly, Li Hong deeply agreed with this.

Although her childhood was unfortunate, she still sincerely hopes that her parents can enjoy their old age.

Not to mention Yang Mi on the side, I simply don’t agree with this.

On the stage, Zhang Lin kept saying eloquently: "I have always believed that no matter how the times develop, the most worthy person to always be with us is the person we love most. Only the place where we have each other is our true home.

This is the most authentic voice I want to make while standing beside the ditch of the times!

Thank you~~" (End of Chapter)