Beijing, a community hospital near Color TV Community.

After returning home from a business trip, the exhausted Wang Bingbing took a nap, tossing and turning and feeling increasingly tired and nauseous.

Thinking that my cold might have gotten worse and the medicine was no longer effective, I went to the community hospital for a checkup and an injection or IV drip.

In the past few months of living in the color TV community, the young couple occasionally had headaches and brain fever, and it was impossible to stay healthy all the time.

Wang Bingbing has a naturally friendly personality, and after several interactions, she has become very familiar with the nurses in the community hospital.

After saying hello on WeChat in advance, I entered the hospital wearing a mask and waited in the appointed single ward.

After a while, a doctor named Zhao Yushu came in.

Tianxiao said hello, Wang Bingbing told her situation, and finally asked: "It's mainly nausea, Dr. Zhao, that's all. Do I have gastrointestinal flu?"

"Hmm~"

Nodding lightly, Zhao Yushu judged with slightly distracted eyes.

After a while, she suddenly asked: "Bingbing, when did your period come? Has it come this month?"

After being stunned, Wang Bingbing shook her head.

Because he is a doctor, he has nothing to be ashamed of and said: "It has been postponed for more than ten days. I wonder if it is because I have been too busy recently and the day and night are reversed?"

After humming, Zhao Yushu said: "Then when was the last menstrual period?"

"Last menstrual period?"

"It was your last period. When did you get it?"

After thinking for a long time, Wang Bingbing recalled: "It was the 9th of last month, right?"

"Give me your hand."

"Which hand?"

"Any hand will do."

With a cry, Wang Bingbing obediently raised her right hand and pulled up her sleeve.

Zhao Yushu put her hand gently on her pulse point, closed her eyes slightly and listened for a while, then said, "You should be pregnant."

After making a sound, Wang Bingbing's eyes widened.

For a moment, her brain was a little confused, as if it was disconnected, as if she didn't know anything.

Letting go of her hand, Zhao Yushu turned around and said, "I'll make a B-ultrasound order. You go up to check it and confirm it again."

Subconsciously thinking, Wang Bingbing's mind was still buzzing.

She didn't know how to describe her mood at this moment?

There is the unexpected surprise of welcoming a new life, and there is also the fear of disrupting life plans.

For her at this time, the latter undoubtedly occupies a greater proportion.

After all, to her, baby is just a conceptual word, and she has never been so close to her as at this moment in her life.

But even so close, her concept was still vague.

To give birth to a child, you have to go from pregnancy to childbirth, and then to a little bit of tug and pull to grow up and educate an adult. Only then can you truly feel the responsibility of being a parent and the blood and family ties that are slowly cultivated.

Wang Bingbing was temporarily unaware of this because of the shock, but she knew that pregnancy meant that her career was about to come to a standstill.

At least for this year, she would not be able to work as hard as she does now.

At the same time, she also knew that the sequelae of leaving the child with her parents after giving birth while she and Zhang Lin went out to work would be very, very serious.

It’s not without reason that so many colleagues in Taiwan choose DINK.

The top actresses in the entertainment industry came back one after another after giving birth, and eventually their marriages broke down as expected.

Thinking of this, he grabbed his hair with both hands and murmured: "Sure enough, the plan can't keep up with the changes!"

At the same time, Zhang Lin continued to talk eloquently: "Han Feizi, a thinker in the Warring States Period, had a saying of "the eye cannot see the eyelashes."

It is said that people can see things a hundred meters away, but they cannot see eyelashes that are right in front of them.

For a person, the environment, behavior and abilities are all traceable, but what is really difficult to recognize is oneself.

The highest level of understanding is the knowledge of self-identity.

Only by knowing yourself correctly and knowing your own weight can you position yourself correctly and walk the right path.

The famous writer Mark Twain showed his outstanding writing talent since he was a child.

But as an adult, he always believed that he had business acumen and wanted to make a career in the business world.

At first, he invested in a typewriter project and invested a lot of money, but he lost all of it.

Then he wanted to be a publisher, but because he didn't understand finance or management, the company collapsed soon after.

In the following years, he also tried to operate the lumber industry and mining industry, but all ended in failure.

He thought that if he had both arts and sciences, his business would go smoothly.

Unexpectedly, he failed to get rich in business and ended up in debt.

The failure of the shopping mall finally made him sober up and realized that he had no talent and vision for doing business.

After realizing this, he began to focus on his area of ​​expertise in writing, devoted himself to creation, and wrote a series of best-selling works.

In the end, he not only paid off his debts, but also became the founder of realist literature. "

After a pause, Zhang Lin looked forward and said: "Everyone knows that I like to quote Romain Rolland's articles when I explain football.

I will quote it again today. "

Hearing this, many people thought of Cun Chao.

Many people were moved by his poetic explanation when watching the live broadcast! Please don't believe that victory is as easy to come by as dandelions on the hillside, but please believe that there is always beauty in the world that is worthy of our all-out efforts, even if we are broken into pieces.

I think true maturity should not be about pursuing perfection, but facing one's own shortcomings. This is the essence of life. Romain Rolland once said that there is only one true heroism in this world, and that is to recognize the truth of life and still love it.

As the saying goes, as soon as "Swan Goose" sounds, Zhang Lin appears!

Paired with this BGM, Zhang Lin's commentary can become a god.

At the scene today, Zhang Lin said with a beautiful voice: "Romain Rolland said that no one is complete, and the so-called happiness is to recognize one's own limits and stay contented.

People who lack sufficient knowledge of themselves will inevitably end up taking detours or going astray.

A person's greatest awakening is to understand his own abilities and value.

Only when you can find your own position can you know the direction and go further and further along the right path. "

Hua Hua Hua~~~

Amidst the warm applause, Kang Hui took over and said: "It is said in The Godfather:

People who can see the essence of something in one second naturally have different fates from those who spend half a lifetime unable to see the essence of something clearly.

The so-called seeing the essence of a problem clearly refers to your ability to understand things.

The stronger your understanding, the more you can stand on a higher cognitive dimension, see through the essence of the problem, and make the most accurate judgments and choices. "

……

In the following time, the four people chatted a lot on the stage.

At the end of the symposium, three CCTV hosts recommended five documentaries.

This is their main task today, to call for the documentary channel.

As the main introducer, Zhang Lin said: "There is a question on Zhihu:

Life is always confusing, what should I do?

One of the answers is: Borrow your strength and ask experts for advice.

They will use their life experiences to find a way out for you.

In life, we often feel confused and painful. At this time, we need to find a spiritual mentor.

Sages and celebrities throughout the ages can all serve as role models for learning.

Today, my two seniors and I have specially brought you five documentaries recommended by CCTV.

I think that when you read the stories of these outstanding people, all your difficulties and uneasiness can be cured. "

After the words fell, the three people began to make grand introductions.

Kang Hui recommended that if you are not satisfied with your work, read "Wang Yangming";

Ouyang Xiadan recommended that if you care too much about other people's opinions, just read "Li Bai";

Kang Hui recommended that when you feel life is too hard, read "One Hundred Years of Wang Zengqi";

Ouyang Xiadan recommended that when you are tired of desire, read "Master Li Shutong".

Zhang Lin only recommended one documentary, saying that when you hit rock bottom, watch "Su Dongpo".

I have met Su Dongpo many times this year, and the day before yesterday I had a conversation with digital man Su Dongpo. Naturally, this documentary belongs to him.

Standing proudly on the stage, Zhang Lin said seriously: "Wang Guowei once said of Su Dongpo that he not only had "noble and great articles", but also had "noble and great personality."

Even after a thousand years, Su Shi is still regarded as a spiritual idol by generations of people.

The film takes Su Shi's life experience as the main line and completely reproduces all the ups and downs, honors and disgrace he experienced from his youth to his old age.

The documentary said:

Su Shi passed the Jinshi examination at the age of twenty-one and became famous all over the world at the age of thirty.

At that time, people rushed to circulate his articles and imitate his clothes. Even the then Queen Mother Cao was his loyal fan.

However, things are unpredictable and fate is unpredictable.

More than ten years later, a "Wutai Poetry Case" completely changed Su Shi's life.

He was first thrown into a cold and damp prison, where he spent 103 days in fear, and then was demoted to Huangzhou as an official.

He is said to be an official, but it is just in name, with no real power or salary.

Former friends were also afraid of being implicated by him and disappeared overnight. All the letters sent by Su Shi fell into the sea.

In this desperate situation, Su Shi also felt helpless and could not go out all day long.

But life must go on. After a short escape, he began to adjust his mentality and face the current situation.

He took off the scholar's robe and square scarf, put on the peasant's cloth and straw sandals, and lived like an ordinary person.

Without porridge or rice to satisfy his hunger, he picked up a hoe and cleared wasteland to grow grain;

Without good wine to drink, he studied the theory of wine and brewed it himself;

With no place to stay, he picked up bricks and tiles to build a snow hall.

He mingled in the market, got along with fishermen and woodcutter, and became close friends with the pharmacist in the restaurant.

Gradually, the difficulties of life disappeared, and only comfort and happiness remained in his eyes.

"Bamboo sticks and awning shoes are lighter than horses, who is afraid? Ren Pingsheng in a misty rain."

When the storms of life come, why bother to avoid them?

Wearing mango shoes and leaning on a bamboo stick, walking leisurely forward is a kind of chic, isn't it? "

Asking a rhetorical question, Zhang Lin smiled and said: "Looking back at Su Shi's life, there were three ups and downs.

But no matter what tragic situation fate threw him into, he always responded with songs.

Just like Lin Yutang’s evaluation of Su Shi:

His greatest charm is not to let his heart be swallowed up by the environment, but to transcend the environment and illuminate the way of life with his inner light.

There will be several extremely difficult times in everyone's life.

You may also want to just give in and surrender.

But please believe: suffering is just a short experience.

As the saying goes, when water reaches desperate situation, it is scenery, and when people reach desperate situation, it is rebirth.

No matter how cold the days are, grit your teeth and persevere.

After surviving the bitter cold, you will always have unexpected warmth and a bright and brilliant future. "(End of chapter)

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