I am a small factory doctor re-walking my life.

Chapter 485 Concept

Song Xiaohui didn't finish her words, but Li Tang understood what his wife meant. She was just worried that the burden on Liu Yuwen's family would be too heavy.

And to be honest, women are strong and men are weak. It would be better if the man had a very open mind and was willing to be the one behind him.

Just like in his last life, although he was the director of the labor union office and his wife was the department director, it sounded like his position was higher than his wife, but in a unit like a hospital, the director of a department is not a marginal director of the labor union office. Than.

So the situation in his family at that time could be said to be one where women were strong and men were weak, but he really didn't care. His wife was busy at work, so he took care of all the housework at home. He also raised his son single-handedly, and the relationship between the couple was great. Always very good.

This requires both men and women to be able to see the contribution of another person. You cannot take that for granted.

But if the man's self-esteem is too strong, and the family is still in a situation where the woman is strong and the man is weak, it will eventually break up.

He understood that his wife didn't mean to look down on anyone, she was just worried.

For now, Mimi's money belongs to him and can be used at will, which may not be earned by that boy in his life. Before contacting this boy, Li Tang couldn't tell what kind of person he was and whether he could Accept that in future family life and work, his lover will be much stronger than him.

Soft rice is really not something that just anyone can eat.

"They're on vacation now, right?"

"Yes"

"Well, I'll take some time to talk to this young man in the next two days."

"What are you talking about with him? Husband, I'm warning you, don't think about interfering in Mimi's love life." Song Xiaohui was a little surprised by her husband's thoughts.

"Relax your mind, I won't interfere. If they fall in love, they will grow up. This is a very important step in their lives. I will definitely not interfere. I just want to see that boy's Character, besides, being the son-in-law of the Li family is not that simple. If his self-esteem is too strong, I worry that he will be severely beaten in the future."

After listening to her husband's words, Song Xiaohui thought about it carefully and felt that there was some truth in what she said.

Times are changing, and the family currently has no intention of getting involved in the personal emotional issues of the children in the future. Even Li's mother and Song's mother have not said that they want to introduce a partner to their grandchildren. They all think that they can just let them talk about it on their own.

If you talk to yourself, you will face a practical problem, and you may not be able to find someone who is truly a match.

Just like Shutong, her parents are just middle-level cadres in the fertilizer factory, and they don't sound very powerful, but her grandfather, her uncle, and her aunt are all top-notch people who sneak out. In the future, when Shutong gets married, as long as the man is not a good match, in the eyes of outsiders, it will be because the man is high-ranking, wants to be a softie, and does not have a strong psychological construction to face those rumors. The life after marriage will not be harmonious. It is possible to go to extremes.

No, when Li Tang and his wife were talking about the boy, the boy's family was also talking about it.

In fact, Liu Yuwen had no intention of telling his parents about this matter. After all, the relationship was not confirmed, and he was still a student. He didn't know if his parents would agree to falling in love so early.

But he couldn't bear it, so Yulan told his sister about it, and then his sister came back and told his parents. Now, he had to face the interrogation of the whole family.

Sister Yulan didn’t know what she was thinking. She said that Liu Yuwen had a girl he liked at school, but she didn’t mention the girl’s family background. Now, after hearing this, Liu Yuwen’s parents, sister and brother-in-law , were all a little dumbfounded, the family sat there quietly, no one said a word.

After a long time, Father Liu turned his head and glanced at his wife, who had been silent beside him, and sighed helplessly: "Oh, Yuwen, you have a girl you like, and neither your mother nor I will stop you. She is already an adult, but...but for this girl, have you ever thought that her family would agree?"

Seeing his son open his mouth to say something, Liu's father waved his hand to signal him to wait: "Don't worry, listen to me first. As the old saying goes, marriage is about a well-matched match..."

As soon as the words came to this, Liu Yuwen's sister couldn't help but interjected and said: "Dad, you have to change your old thinking. What age are you in now? You are still a good match."

Although he was interrupted by his daughter, Father Liu was not angry. He smiled and shook his head: "Silly girl, no matter how the times change, the rules of social operation will not change. If nothing else, your brother just said it himself. Yes, other people’s children want to study abroad, so they leave immediately and contact the top foreign universities. Can our family do it? Let’s not talk about our family. There are several people in our institute who can easily do it.

Free love is right, and your mother and I support it, but the problem is that the family backgrounds of both parties cannot be too far apart. Yuwen, have you ever considered that if you are really with that girl, how can you bear the gossip from the outside world? Yet? Others say in front of you that you have a good wife, but they point fingers behind your back and say, "Look, that kid climbed up a high branch and found a wife, what does his family do?"

You are my son, and I know you. You have had a strong self-esteem since you were young. When you were a child, your sister and you had to tell the difference between right and wrong in many joking things. When you were in junior high school, your mother criticized you by name in front of everyone in the class. , you can't stand it, and you won't be able to correctly face the incalculable gap between you and that girl in the future. "

His own children know very well that Father Liu sees his son clearly, he is a bit chauvinistic, and he is a bit serious no matter what he does. This kind of personality is not suitable for looking for a girl from a particularly good family.

That kind of girl, not to mention whether her family is pampered or not, but her knowledge, outlook, and people and things she has been exposed to since childhood are different from ordinary people, and her understanding of many things is also different. During the period of love, because of the freshness, maybe they can get along with each other. , but as time goes by, all kinds of conflicts will break out, and it won’t last long at all.

Although he still disagreed with his father's statement in his heart, Liu Yuwen did not rush to refute. In his heart, he believed that as long as two people have feelings, there is no difficulty that cannot be overcome.

Seeing a trace of dissatisfaction flashing in his son's eyes, Liu's father raised his breath silently and looked at his wife beside him with some worry. Obviously, Liu's mother, who had been a teacher for decades, also saw the dissatisfaction on his son's face. , but at this moment she didn’t know what to say.

(End of this chapter)