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Chapter 16 My son is a love brain (16)

Leng Ruoshuang paused: "Your grandmother asked Madam Pearl to pick out some popular sayings and tell them to you. She is not asking you to follow the above practices."

"You know, there is only one possibility for such a pale lady, and that is probably because she is really stupid. Do you know who wrote these words in the book? On the surface, it says love and loyalty, but where does love come from? Rich and powerful people The lady who is a legitimate daughter... Even if she is not a legitimate daughter but a concubine, she is still a good wife or a stepmother. Don’t think about being a concubine, even if it is a good concubine. Sister Ruo, Sister Ya, your starting point is already better than that of your aunt. There are many, so you must not become a concubine. Sister Yi, please tell your two sisters about the differences."

Xiao Yiyi stood up, bowed first, and then said: "Two sisters, according to the law, the relationship between a man's wives and concubines, the principal wife takes precedence. The principal wife cannot be divorced at will. The principal wife has the right to dispose of the concubines. Except for the mother-in-law, The first wife is the most legitimate person who wants to change the middle child. Then let’s talk about the stepmother, that is, filling the house. Secondly, the stepmother is not easy to be a stepmother. If she only has the children of a concubine, it is better. After that, the side wife is for scholars, farmers, industry and merchants, and only scholars have it. The merchants considered it as a concubine to marry several women. Then, the concubine was a good concubine, and the girl was a girl from a decent family, but the family background was inferior. Then, the concubine was a concubine, and the concubine was the lowest concubine, and she would serve guests. There is also the Tongfang. The Tongfang has no name or status and is treated as a maid. Finally, there is the outer room. The outer room is the most despised. It also has no name and no status, so it has to bear infamy. Children born from the outer room have no inheritance rights. Is it possible? It depends on whether the wife of the wife is willing to be recognized."

After Xiao Yiyi finished speaking, she looked at her own mother brightly, and Leng Ruoshuang motioned her to sit down: "As my aunt, I have never treated you harshly in the past. But I have never taught you many things. You have all remembered it, Be hired as a wife, run as a concubine. What is a concubine? A concubine, a plaything! Not only can a concubine not be corrected, but the same cannot be said for the main wife. If not, the price is that the man will be apprenticed for three years. As a woman, life is even more difficult, and the world is small. , it is difficult to go out, so you need to respect yourself and love yourself. Elopement is not a beautiful love story, and having sex with the man you love once you meet is not a touching love. This is because the man has no virtue and no character, and the woman is rude and has no self-respect! Don’t blame others for looking down on you.”

"This story is just an unattainable dream of a poor scholar. As the legitimate daughter of the Prime Minister, let alone being a princess for the prince, she can also marry the emperor and become a queen. I shouldn't have asked you to treat men and women I'm so disappointed, but you are women. Men have the right to demand that you be alone physically and mentally, but women have no right. As a woman, you should be more sober. Women's laziness cannot be explained!"

"Throughout the history books, there are only a few cases of true love. The phoenix seeking the phoenix, which is regarded as a good story by the world, ended with a white-headed chant. I heard that you had two minds, so I came to fight. For thousands of years, there are only How low the probability and how long it takes to get a Pan Yangzhi. Not to mention whether there is Pan Anren, even if there is, are you Yang Rongji? Just now, the enviable Pingyao Madam Marquis, her husband is marrying her When he was married, he made a promise that his children would only come out of his wife's belly. Therefore, even if he has a concubine, Pingyao's wife is very proud. He also said that the wife of the Minister of Rites is also enviable, because her husband has a concubine in the back house. She is the only one who has a reputation, and even though they have a married woman, it is not a big deal in the eyes of the man. He even thinks that he really loves his wife, so he is not willing to bring the woman back. "

"Girls, keep your eyes open. You won't be as comfortable as you are now when you get married. That's your second reincarnation. When choosing a husband and son-in-law, you must choose someone with good character. Then, even if he doesn't love you, he will still be kind to you. You are responsible. Love or dislike must be put behind character."

Leng Ruoshuang took a sip of sour plum juice, and the taste in her mouth stimulated her. She looked at her three daughters: "You all have a deep understanding of this. What an irresponsible man looks like. It's obvious. I don't want you to do the same." If you don't want your mother, you can even force your own mother. Brother Yan's biological mother hit a brick wall in front of him, trying to make him feel guilty by dying, hoping that he could take good care of Brother Yan and not ignore it. But your father never had it A moment of moving emotion.”

The three girls were in dire straits during this period, which was very touching.

Leng Ruoshuang continued: "Don't envy Miss Chu. Miss Chu fell into such a love stupidly. She is a fool. Think about it, he can abandon his wife who has been with him for more than ten years and call him more than ten years for a true love that can only last a year. How terrible is this for the child of a young father, once you don’t love... what will happen is how miserable it will be, don’t stare at the love under your nose, this thing is so rare that it doesn’t seem to have ever happened.”

"Sister Ruo, your face is so beautiful. Starting from tomorrow, you should retouch your face more and go out less often. Don't be caught and raped as a concubine. Remember, your father is dead. The reputation has been completely ruined. Your elder brother or younger brother has no fame. Our family is a paper tiger with not much capital to protect you. You must learn to protect yourself."

Xiao Ruoruo's round little face turned pale and she hurriedly saluted: "Thank you, mother, for your guidance."

Leng Ruoshuang stood up and gathered the shawl around her body: "Sisters, you must support each other and become each other's support and your own support. If one is prosperous, both will be prosperous, and if one is damaged, both will be damaged. If one of you has a bad reputation, not only will It affects you, and it also affects your sisters, girls from your kin, and sons and daughters talk about marriage. Now that we are talking about this, when you go down, think about it separately, if you are a man, how can you make a woman fall in love with you."

"Yes, mother!" The three little ones saluted in unison.

On the way, Xiaowei said: "Madam, is it too early?"

Leng Ruoshuang shook his head: "It's never too early, and the girl has a soft heart. After saying it, it's easy to forget. They have just experienced panic, fear and confusion about the future. At this time, it is better to talk and listen. I was negligent, Just in time, let’s go see my mother.”

Xiaowei teased: "Madam now runs into the princess's yard from time to time. Didn't the old princess exempt you from the morning and dusk routine?"

Leng Ruoshuang just said: "I'm not particularly busy now. It's her business to avoid it, and it's my business to do it or not. Now, I also like to chat with her. I am a princess who is more than an earl. But what my mother gave me, and how cleverly I resolved this crisis, is something that most people are not willing to part with."

The new mother-in-law needs to know more.

A maid stood in the corner, her eyebrows lowered. Xiaowei walked up to her and said something to her. Leng Ruoshuang went to Changyan's courtyard without waiting for Xiaowei.

After Cui Yi informed her, she went in.

In her memory, this mother-in-law who always set rules for her probably happened because she was a different person, so her whole temperament changed drastically. She was mysterious, calm, but a bit aloof.

Leng Ruoshuang sat down after bowing and folded her hands on her lap: "Mother, Sister Ruo is 13 years old. Does mother have any ideas about her marriage?"

Changyan just said: "It's up to you to make the decision."

Leng Ruoshuang had a good eye. Changyan went through the memories given by the system several times and found that she was really a very powerful woman.

(End of this chapter)