Six years later, she took three milk balls to blow up the world
Chapter 1177 Mr. Song’s contradictory views on parenting
Chapter 1177 Mr. Song’s contradictory views on parenting
Song Family Mansion.
Guanyin Mountain is hundreds of miles away from Haicheng. When Bai Shao arrived home, Xiao Tuanzi's fever had gone away.
However, Mr. Song still held the child with a distressed expression on his face and refused to let go.
Song Jing and a large number of nannies accompanied him and tried several times to persuade him to rest first, but Mr. Song refused.
As soon as Bai Shao entered the living room, she was faced with a solemn atmosphere and felt something was not right.
Just as she was about to go over to say hello to Mr. Song, Song Jing winked at her and asked her to change clothes first.
Bai Shao understood and quickly went upstairs to the dressing room.
Mr. Song's standards for raising children are strictly in accordance with the parenting regulations. No matter who comes back from outside, they must wash their hands and change clothes before they are allowed to hold his precious great-grandson. Even their parents do not exception.
What's more, the child is still sick, so we need to pay more attention to hygiene.
Bai Shao hurriedly changed her clothes, washed briefly, walked to Mr. Song and extended her hand.
"Grandpa, you've been tired for a long day. I'm here to hold him. You go and have a rest."
After hearing this, Mr. Song raised his head and glanced at Bai Shao, but stopped talking.
But after hesitating for a moment, he still didn't say anything. He reluctantly handed the child to Bai Shao and lowered his voice.
"Be careful when you hug him. He cried just now and just fell asleep now... Also, keep an eye on him more at night. The doctor said that the child may have recurring fevers, so be careful!"
"Well, I will pay attention. Grandpa, don't worry."
Bai Shao quickly assured her, feeling heartbroken when she saw her son's burning red face.
Mr. Song waited for Bai Shao to hold the child firmly and sit back on the sofa. Then he completely retracted his hand and stood up holding the old housekeeper's hand.
Mr. Song held the child for a day, his arms were a little stiff, and he walked out with a slight stagger. As he walked, he told Bai Shao not to worry.
"I'll go back first. I'll ask the doctor to stay with you tonight. Tell me if anything happens. If he wakes up later, remember to give him some water!"
Bai Shao was moved and agreed one by one: "Yes, I will remember it."
Song Jing remained silent and went over to help Mr. Song out in person.
After a while, Song Jing returned from the backyard.
The nursery nurse is explaining to Bai Shao the reason why Xiaotuanzi has a fever.
"In the evening, the young master went to pick up the young master. It's hot today, the temperature outside is relatively high, and the room temperature is low. When the young master came in, the heat and cold alternated, and he felt a little cold."
"First he sneezed a few times, and then he developed a fever. The doctor treated him like a child with a cold. It is very effective so far. It is expected that the young master will be back to health within two days."
"Well, well, thank you for your hard work."
Hearing that it was a child's cold and that he would recover soon, Bai Shao finally felt relieved after mentioning it all the way.
But she glanced at the thermostat on the wall and was a little worried: "Do you need to raise the temperature?"
"No need for the moment. The young master has adapted to the temperature here. It's best not to make any changes."
After the nanny finished speaking, he hesitated and spoke again: "Young Madam, we have a suggestion regarding the young master's daily routine. I hope you can discuss it with the old master."
"Say." It was about a child. Bai Shao immediately pricked up his ears and listened carefully. "It's like this. The young master is still too young. It's hot summer now, and the temperature difference between indoor and outdoor is big. It's best not to let the young master change the environment frequently. Either stay in the backyard all day, or stay here all day, a stable environment It’s more beneficial to the young master’s health.”
The nanny spoke professionally and tactfully, to the point.
Bai Shao thought for two seconds before understanding what she meant.
The nanny meant that Xiaotuanzi got sick this time because he was bouncing back and forth between the old man's place and theirs, and he caught a cold from being tossed around.
The Song family's mansion occupies a large area, and the backyard is a bit far away from their residence. If such a young child is carried here and there, even if an umbrella is held all the way and there is a corridor to provide shade, the cold and heat will inevitably be uneven.
If this continues for a long time, adults will easily catch colds, not to mention children. It would be strange if they don't get sick.
but……
Thinking about how Mr. Song regarded his great-grandson as his life, Bai Shao felt a little worried.
If Xiao Tuanzi is not allowed to go to the backyard every day, then Mr. Song will definitely have to come and guard here.
Mr. Song is so old, he can't be as comfortable staying here with them as he is in his own yard.
Unless the child is raised directly in Mr. Song's yard, the old man will supervise him all the time. They will go over to spend time with the child when they have time.
This seems good!
After all, they are busy with their own affairs during the day, and they only sleep with their children at night. It seems that they have not fulfilled their responsibilities as parents.
Just let the old man take care of him.
When Bai Shao saw Song Jing coming back, she excitedly told him her thoughts.
"Let Xiaotuanzi follow grandpa all day long. Anyway, grandpa loves him so much and will definitely take good care of him. We can also free up our hands to work hard on our careers. Isn't it the best of both worlds?"
When Song Jing heard this, he smiled bitterly and shook his head: "Don't even think about it. I was scolded by grandpa this afternoon. If it weren't for the fact that you are my grandson's wife, you would definitely be scolded too. "
"Grandpa scolded you?" Bai Shao's eyes widened in disbelief: "It's not your fault that Xiaotuanzi is sick. Why did grandpa scold you? Grandpa is not someone who is easily angered!"
"He's not expressing his anger, he just thinks I'm not qualified as a father."
Song Jing sat down on the sofa, leaned over and hugged his wife and children, and explained to Bai Shao with a tired look on his face.
"Today I was in a meeting at the company, and I was called back by the old man. As soon as I walked in, he got furious and asked me what I did every day and whether I noticed that the child was uncomfortable."
"Before I could say a few words of defense, he scolded us as parents for only spending a little time with our children every day and not paying enough attention to them. Now if we tell him that we want to give him full authority over our children, the old man will definitely not agree."
"This……"
Bai Shao was dumbfounded.
No wonder she felt that the atmosphere was not right as soon as she came home. It turned out that this was the reason.
She couldn't figure it out: "Obviously, the old man has been competing with us to take care of the children before, why do he suddenly think that we don't care about the children?"
Speaking of this, Song Jing was also speechless.
"The old man recently learned a lot of parenting knowledge from somewhere. He said that children cannot lack the company of their parents, otherwise they will grow up to be indifferent and psychologically distorted. Today he also said that I didn't like to talk to others because I didn't have a father since I was a child. Mom accompanied me and said that she was determined not to let Xiaotuanzi make the same mistake as me."
"..." Bai Shao didn't know what to say this time.
Mr. Song wants to take care of his children, but he also dislikes them for not spending more time with them. How did this contradictory concept of parenting come about?
If she knew who instilled all this messy parenting knowledge into Mr. Song, she would definitely blow that person's head off!
(End of this chapter)
Song Family Mansion.
Guanyin Mountain is hundreds of miles away from Haicheng. When Bai Shao arrived home, Xiao Tuanzi's fever had gone away.
However, Mr. Song still held the child with a distressed expression on his face and refused to let go.
Song Jing and a large number of nannies accompanied him and tried several times to persuade him to rest first, but Mr. Song refused.
As soon as Bai Shao entered the living room, she was faced with a solemn atmosphere and felt something was not right.
Just as she was about to go over to say hello to Mr. Song, Song Jing winked at her and asked her to change clothes first.
Bai Shao understood and quickly went upstairs to the dressing room.
Mr. Song's standards for raising children are strictly in accordance with the parenting regulations. No matter who comes back from outside, they must wash their hands and change clothes before they are allowed to hold his precious great-grandson. Even their parents do not exception.
What's more, the child is still sick, so we need to pay more attention to hygiene.
Bai Shao hurriedly changed her clothes, washed briefly, walked to Mr. Song and extended her hand.
"Grandpa, you've been tired for a long day. I'm here to hold him. You go and have a rest."
After hearing this, Mr. Song raised his head and glanced at Bai Shao, but stopped talking.
But after hesitating for a moment, he still didn't say anything. He reluctantly handed the child to Bai Shao and lowered his voice.
"Be careful when you hug him. He cried just now and just fell asleep now... Also, keep an eye on him more at night. The doctor said that the child may have recurring fevers, so be careful!"
"Well, I will pay attention. Grandpa, don't worry."
Bai Shao quickly assured her, feeling heartbroken when she saw her son's burning red face.
Mr. Song waited for Bai Shao to hold the child firmly and sit back on the sofa. Then he completely retracted his hand and stood up holding the old housekeeper's hand.
Mr. Song held the child for a day, his arms were a little stiff, and he walked out with a slight stagger. As he walked, he told Bai Shao not to worry.
"I'll go back first. I'll ask the doctor to stay with you tonight. Tell me if anything happens. If he wakes up later, remember to give him some water!"
Bai Shao was moved and agreed one by one: "Yes, I will remember it."
Song Jing remained silent and went over to help Mr. Song out in person.
After a while, Song Jing returned from the backyard.
The nursery nurse is explaining to Bai Shao the reason why Xiaotuanzi has a fever.
"In the evening, the young master went to pick up the young master. It's hot today, the temperature outside is relatively high, and the room temperature is low. When the young master came in, the heat and cold alternated, and he felt a little cold."
"First he sneezed a few times, and then he developed a fever. The doctor treated him like a child with a cold. It is very effective so far. It is expected that the young master will be back to health within two days."
"Well, well, thank you for your hard work."
Hearing that it was a child's cold and that he would recover soon, Bai Shao finally felt relieved after mentioning it all the way.
But she glanced at the thermostat on the wall and was a little worried: "Do you need to raise the temperature?"
"No need for the moment. The young master has adapted to the temperature here. It's best not to make any changes."
After the nanny finished speaking, he hesitated and spoke again: "Young Madam, we have a suggestion regarding the young master's daily routine. I hope you can discuss it with the old master."
"Say." It was about a child. Bai Shao immediately pricked up his ears and listened carefully. "It's like this. The young master is still too young. It's hot summer now, and the temperature difference between indoor and outdoor is big. It's best not to let the young master change the environment frequently. Either stay in the backyard all day, or stay here all day, a stable environment It’s more beneficial to the young master’s health.”
The nanny spoke professionally and tactfully, to the point.
Bai Shao thought for two seconds before understanding what she meant.
The nanny meant that Xiaotuanzi got sick this time because he was bouncing back and forth between the old man's place and theirs, and he caught a cold from being tossed around.
The Song family's mansion occupies a large area, and the backyard is a bit far away from their residence. If such a young child is carried here and there, even if an umbrella is held all the way and there is a corridor to provide shade, the cold and heat will inevitably be uneven.
If this continues for a long time, adults will easily catch colds, not to mention children. It would be strange if they don't get sick.
but……
Thinking about how Mr. Song regarded his great-grandson as his life, Bai Shao felt a little worried.
If Xiao Tuanzi is not allowed to go to the backyard every day, then Mr. Song will definitely have to come and guard here.
Mr. Song is so old, he can't be as comfortable staying here with them as he is in his own yard.
Unless the child is raised directly in Mr. Song's yard, the old man will supervise him all the time. They will go over to spend time with the child when they have time.
This seems good!
After all, they are busy with their own affairs during the day, and they only sleep with their children at night. It seems that they have not fulfilled their responsibilities as parents.
Just let the old man take care of him.
When Bai Shao saw Song Jing coming back, she excitedly told him her thoughts.
"Let Xiaotuanzi follow grandpa all day long. Anyway, grandpa loves him so much and will definitely take good care of him. We can also free up our hands to work hard on our careers. Isn't it the best of both worlds?"
When Song Jing heard this, he smiled bitterly and shook his head: "Don't even think about it. I was scolded by grandpa this afternoon. If it weren't for the fact that you are my grandson's wife, you would definitely be scolded too. "
"Grandpa scolded you?" Bai Shao's eyes widened in disbelief: "It's not your fault that Xiaotuanzi is sick. Why did grandpa scold you? Grandpa is not someone who is easily angered!"
"He's not expressing his anger, he just thinks I'm not qualified as a father."
Song Jing sat down on the sofa, leaned over and hugged his wife and children, and explained to Bai Shao with a tired look on his face.
"Today I was in a meeting at the company, and I was called back by the old man. As soon as I walked in, he got furious and asked me what I did every day and whether I noticed that the child was uncomfortable."
"Before I could say a few words of defense, he scolded us as parents for only spending a little time with our children every day and not paying enough attention to them. Now if we tell him that we want to give him full authority over our children, the old man will definitely not agree."
"This……"
Bai Shao was dumbfounded.
No wonder she felt that the atmosphere was not right as soon as she came home. It turned out that this was the reason.
She couldn't figure it out: "Obviously, the old man has been competing with us to take care of the children before, why do he suddenly think that we don't care about the children?"
Speaking of this, Song Jing was also speechless.
"The old man recently learned a lot of parenting knowledge from somewhere. He said that children cannot lack the company of their parents, otherwise they will grow up to be indifferent and psychologically distorted. Today he also said that I didn't like to talk to others because I didn't have a father since I was a child. Mom accompanied me and said that she was determined not to let Xiaotuanzi make the same mistake as me."
"..." Bai Shao didn't know what to say this time.
Mr. Song wants to take care of his children, but he also dislikes them for not spending more time with them. How did this contradictory concept of parenting come about?
If she knew who instilled all this messy parenting knowledge into Mr. Song, she would definitely blow that person's head off!
(End of this chapter)
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