The reborn peasant girl has space for farming

Chapter 1693 Pressure
The pressure on every young person has begun to increase dramatically, and some young people have even begun to suffer from physical diseases because of their psychological problems.

Even after expert research and investigation, many young people not only suffer from physical diseases due to staying up late, irregular work and rest, or eating late at night, but also due to depression caused by high work pressure, which ultimately leads to physical diseases. .

Therefore, if you want to truly start from the medical aspect, the most important thing is to change the psychological stress problem of today's young people.

We must start with the psychology of young people, which is the most important. With the development of the economy and the rapid development of the country, this is also a major cause of psychological problems.

Coupled with the family's education method, it also causes children to have various emotions, which is a very normal phenomenon.

"Key, I think what you said is very right. Young people nowadays are under great pressure. For example, my daughter is in her senior year of high school at a critical moment. In fact, she is very confused. She has something she likes in her heart. But now she is also starting to think about practical issues, which also makes her unhappy."

Cheng Haiyi said.

"Yes, brother-in-law, many children now have such pressure. After all, it is different from the era when we were children. Now we not only have to consider our own interests and hobbies, but even all aspects of the future career, and now children My inner world has become richer and more colorful.”

Key said.

In fact, Cheng Haiyi is most concerned about his daughter's inner emotional world, because now that her daughter is older, there are many things that she will bury deeply in her heart. Fortunately, her daughter will often communicate with Bai Meixi, but she I also feel that my daughter has always been preoccupied.

When I saw my daughter like that, I felt very uncomfortable. Of course I hope my daughter can grow up healthily and happily, but the state that this era has given them is the rapid development of a different era. Success or failure depends on it. At this moment, and the country's rapid economic growth, children's thoughts have also changed.

In addition, my daughter has stopped talking to me a lot as she has grown up, and I don’t know how to talk to my daughter about these things. But every time I see her daughter change, I want to say something, but I don’t know what to do. I don't know how to express that kind of question.

So sometimes I really want to help my daughter to enlighten her heart. In addition, the current school is a small society. I hope my daughter can learn this way of getting along with friends, but I also hope that my daughter can protect her well. Do what you should do now.

Her daughter is Cheng Haiyi’s heart.

In fact, I don't care how good my career is, but the only thing I care about is that I hope my daughter can grow up healthy and happy.Because my son's current situation has not been particularly optimistic, but his son's current situation is much better than before. This time, I and Bai Meixi are going to see how our son is doing.

"Yes, children have many thoughts when they grow up, and they no longer tell us, but we will also find that they have various emotional changes at this time. As parents, we should actually understand our children's thoughts well. Psychological changes, only by understanding their psychological changes can we better help them."

Cheng Haiyi.I feel that it is necessary to open a mental health class for parents to help parents relieve stress and various emotions, so that I can be friends with my children and talk about all the things that have happened to me recently, because after all, parents are older than their children, and There are many things that can actually be communicated and exchanged with parents.

I also hope that I can be a good parent and communicate more with my children. After all, when something happens, I can know the child's emotional changes immediately, so that I can help my daughter solve some minor problems. , and also hope that they can gain some experience from it.

In addition, it is time to choose a school. In fact, every college entrance examination is not a turning point in life. Faced with various turning points in life, the college entrance examination is only the smallest link. It is just a small step. But the link determines the difference in fate, and many parents think that it is not that serious.

It's just that a good school can allow you to contact more good classmates and broaden your horizons. This is indeed a good thing, but I don't want to put too much pressure on my daughter. As long as her daughter If you like something, just try your best to satisfy her.

In addition, my daughter is getting older now, and my thoughts are also mature. I completely respect my daughter's ideas, and hope that she can combine his ideas with my own, and everything can be discussed with each other. This way, when faced with future choices, you will have more and better decisions and the direction you should take in the future.

As long as parents can communicate better with their children, many children are actually willing to do this kind of communication with their parents. After all, I have been with my parents for so many years, and I still feel that parents and children understand each other best. They love each other, and everything parents do is for their children.

Although there was no such thing as a college entrance examination in my time, I sincerely wanted to be with them, communicate with each other, and learn from each other. Only by communicating with each other and learning from each other can we all make progress together. With this kind of progress together After the idea, there was more love and care between each other.

In addition, every communication is actually the biggest communication between parents and children, and it is also a better way of communication between them. I also hope that she can learn and communicate these things better.

And now many children are rebellious and feel that what their parents do is very old-fashioned. Although I know that they are all for their own good, many times, the children's ideas are different from mine. , I also look down on the behavior of my children, which will lead to quarrels or running away from home.

Because today's children are a group of children with unique personalities. They have their own thoughts and opinions, and they now think that their ideas are relatively correct.

(End of this chapter)