The reborn peasant girl has space for farming

Chapter 2195 Enlightenment

"Yeah, it's really very tiring in this case."

Sister Ming also felt particularly sorry for Bai Meixi.

"So, I don't want to talk about these things. Every time she really comes to ask for money, it's for herself. In fact, I won't be so nagging. After all, she is my mother. Although she treats me It was particularly harsh, and I still didn’t want to look at him.

Life was too difficult, but she never lived for herself. She always lived for my grandmother and her unfulfilled brother. The family was like moths, and they didn't know how to be grateful at all.

And I never know how to work hard to make money. I just want to let others. I will never help such people. "

Bai Meixi particularly dislikes her uncle's family.

"It's true. If they get used to helping more, they will lose the meaning of their own efforts. They should be allowed to be self-reliant. This is the most correct thing."

Sister Ming also agrees with this.

"No, I really wanted to help my uncle and his family before. When the company was established, I also thought about asking them to help. After all, the company is short of people, and whoever comes will do it.

And they are relatives of my own family. Wouldn't it be a good thing if I could help them and let them earn some money through their own efforts?But, they are simply not able to support Adou up the wall. "

Bai Meixi felt a headache when she talked about this matter.

“I can’t do hard and tiring work at all. I’m not willing to learn technical matters, so I just want to be a small leader and give orders to others, and I don’t understand the instructions well.

Do you think this is possible without the diamonds and porcelain work?Later, I fired them directly, but the commotion was a bit unsightly, especially for my mother’s face. "

Bai Meixi sometimes has no way to think about so many things.

"Working in the company is not a piece of cake. You really need reliable people, otherwise the interests involved are quite big. Although I don't know much about your company, I really need to find someone who is more practical and reliable." people."

After hearing these things about Bai Meixi, Sister Ming also felt that she was worried for Bai Meixi. Every family has a hard time to recite. Although Bai Meixi has a particularly good life, her mother's family is indeed special. Holding back.

"You said that even if they can't do these jobs, they can still help me look after the children. If I need them for something, they will bargain with me, saying that they can't see that they are not feeling well, and all kinds of things. Things just fell into place.

You see, my mother-in-law and father-in-law never asked me. When I was bargaining, they basically helped us with everything. I really, really thank my father-in-law and mother-in-law for helping me. "

She is a person who knows how to reciprocate.

"Yes, it is really not easy for you to meet such a good family. Others are very envious that your family can live such a happy life, including me. I also feel that you can meet such a good family. It’s a blessing.”

I feel really happy for Bai Meixi. "I feel the same way. In fact, sister Ming, let me say something that I shouldn't say. You are already this age and have been divorced for a long time. You can completely look for your own love again.

People can't always stay in the past. Instead, they should look forward. There are still many beautiful things in life. As long as you experience it carefully, you will definitely see it. "

Bai Meixi also sincerely hopes that Sister Ming can meet her own happiness and find her own lover. Even if her life is not particularly good, at least the two of them are together and life will slowly change. Get better.

"I don't think about this now. I just think that my eldest son can get into a good university. This is my destiny. Watching him get married and start a business, I have completed my task. When he grows up, Let’s talk about it later.”

Sister Ming is thinking about her son, and she doesn't want to delay the child any more because of her own affairs. In fact, there was a person who was very kind to her in the early years, including this man now, who has been waiting for her and is willing to help her. To feed his son.

But Sister Ming didn't want to let her son know about this, because she was afraid that if her son knew about it, he would object or his grades would drop.

"There's nothing wrong with you thinking this way, but have you ever thought about a person who can't always be there waiting for you? You should also communicate more with your children instead of putting all your focus on it. on the child’s grades.

Communicate with him occasionally, and you will find that the child is not as fragile as you think, and the child also hopes that you can be happy. "

She felt that there was too little communication between Sister Ming and her children.

"It's exactly what you said. I should also pay more attention to it. The communication between me and my children is really very little. In fact, I am very busy every day. I really don't communicate with my children very much. He has very little communication at night. It was already very late after I finished my homework.

I also want him to go to rest as soon as possible. The two of us don't have much time to meet each other at night. In addition, this child also works very hard. He only goes to rest after studying very late every day, and there is no time to communicate. "

Sister Ming can also realize that there is very little communication between herself and her children. Sometimes, she has no idea what her children are thinking.

"Actually, communication doesn't take a long time. You can ask him every day what happened in the school. I believe he is also willing to communicate with you. What is he more interested in, or how is it? ah.

The two of you can communicate frequently. Don't treat the child as a child, but treat the child as a friend. Only in this way can you understand what the child is thinking. "

Bai Meixi just shared some of her own experiences with Sister Ming, but because the education methods in every family are different, students should still be taught in accordance with their aptitude.

"This point you mentioned is particularly important. After I go back, I will also communicate with my child properly. It is true that there is too little communication between the two of us, and I don't understand many of his ideas.

Sometimes when I see my child working so hard, I feel really uncomfortable. But fortunately, all the hard work is worth it. This child’s grades are also improving by leaps and bounds. I’m still very happy. happy. "

Sister Ming feels that it is particularly difficult for her child, because this child is not particularly smart, but he is very diligent. All his achievements today are due to his own efforts.

(End of this chapter)