The reborn peasant girl has space for farming

Chapter 2448 Innocent

When parents and children play together, can the children adapt?

And we have to talk to the child many times, and then we need to go through many contacts to determine whether the parent is qualified to adopt the child, and whether the child is sincere and willing to go to a new family. In all aspects, There are many factors, and they all need to be carefully considered.

After all, children are still young and cannot control many things accurately. Therefore, at this time, what they need most is the teacher's help. They must think clearly about the future of these children.

Only by helping to think clearly about the future of these children can these children have a happier life.

Otherwise, if a child's personality is already extreme and then enters a relatively quiet home, or the parents' personality is relatively immature, problems will easily arise.

In addition, they themselves are children with problems and lack contact with their relatives, so there are many children with defective personalities.

You must know that many families are unwilling to accept children with character defects. After all, it is difficult to change a person's character. At the same time, if it cannot be changed, then for a family and the child The damage is irreversible.

Therefore, in order to allow both children and parents to choose a family that is more comfortable in each other's minds, teachers' help is needed.

We must allow students to understand their own strengths and at the same time understand their own problems. Only children who understand their own problems and are willing to actively change will have a better future.

If it is difficult for a child to change himself, the family he chooses will be very limited. There are even many families who don't like to be with such a child.

Therefore, choosing a family is equivalent to the child being reborn again, and it is also equivalent to the beginning of a family. This changes the destiny of three people.

Adhering to the idea and principle of being responsible for each other, it is indeed not easy to do this kind of control.

We also need to communicate with parents many times to help children integrate into the family more quickly.

There are even some families who had children before, but later due to various reasons, they wanted to adopt a child again, or abandoned the child for adoption. These are very serious matters.

You must know that once a child is abandoned by a family again, this may be a fatal blow to the child in his life.

You must know that many children are particularly afraid of contact with others just because they have been hit. In this case, a child may not be able to get out of that vortex throughout his life.

He has always thought that he is a person with problems and has not dared to contact others for a long time. When he grows up, there will be no way to better enter this society.

But these all need to be taken into consideration, including the character of the parents and the qualities of the parents in all aspects, which are particularly crucial.

This kind of thing has happened before. Because the child has a relatively introverted personality, the family he came to is a serious and very strict family. Such a family is not bad, but it makes the child unhappy.

At the same time, the child spoke less and less, and had no way to communicate with people around him. Everyone thought that the child was sick. Later, the director found out about the situation and took the child back directly. When the child saw He particularly longed for the happy life of children, and he also hoped to stay in the orphanage and did not want to return to that home again.

Even now, when this child encounters a problem, he will subconsciously avoid it.

He is afraid that he will be abandoned by others again because he cannot do many things well. He is also afraid of himself, because doing unhappy things will cause special pain to others.

It was precisely because of the child's anxiety that the child almost committed suicide. This incident has never been forgotten by the dean.

It's not that the parents in that family are bad, it's just that the people in that family are more serious and dogmatic, which is a very scary existence for such children.

So this proves that the choice between the family and the child must be two-way. You cannot just think that the child has come to a scholarly family, and the family environment and family background are relatively strong. There is a better life.

The most important thing is to see whether the family can be better accepted by the child, and whether the family can better accept the child.

Every child is an angel, and they have their own ideas and independent personalities. Therefore, the dean will basically respect the opinions of the students when it comes to such major life choices.

You must know that the future road needs to be walked by the students themselves. Even if the dean thinks that this family is suitable for him, as long as she shakes her head and does not want to stay in this family, the dean will not force anyone to Instead, it gives children more freedom of choice.

You must know that there are many orphanages that want to push the children out immediately. As long as there are families willing to accept the children, they will think of ways to push the children out. Regardless of 21, they have never considered whether the children can bear this. kind of family.

Just to alleviate some of the burden, you need to know that everyone is actually stressed by the orphanage, and everyone is quite uncomfortable.

In this case, everyone no longer has to worry so much, so in recent years, many children in orphanages have been returned to adoptive families.

This will also leave a lot of trauma in the hearts of the children. Therefore, in order to avoid such a situation, the dean will be very careful every time he chooses a family. After considering many aspects, he will hand over the children to the family. go out.

The situation will also be explained to the parents. If the child finally does not want to stay in this family, the child must not be forced to stay in this family.

On the contrary, this child will have absolute freedom, because everyone has the right to choose.

Children must be responsible for their own choices.

There is nothing wrong with being cautious in everything. Otherwise, all the consequences will be borne by a child, which would be a real sin.

Some things are also about fate. If there is fate, we will naturally become a family.

(End of this chapter)