The reborn peasant girl has space for farming

Chapter 2459 Optimistic Facing
"Everyone has his or her own destiny. Let's not think too much about it. The children in the orphanage are actually quite good. At least they have someone to rely on now, which is a relatively good thing.

Look at the many beggars on the road. Even if we want to help, we have no way to help, right?
None of us know what their lives are like, so it depends on who the children in the orphanage are competing with. We must let the children have a healthy mentality now, and we must not make the children too pessimistic. "

Cheng Haiyi is an optimist. Sometimes he feels that life should not be so pessimistic and should be optimistic. After all, what happens to people is a normal thing and we should face it positively. For many things, we should not So sad.

In fact, there is nothing wrong with the dean's education method, but sometimes he feels that the dean's ideas are a bit pessimistic, which makes the children less optimistic. They cannot always be so optimistic when encountering problems. pessimistic.

On the contrary, sometimes you should be more optimistic. Only in this way can you find what you should do in life. If you are too pessimistic, life will not have much meaning.

The fate of these children is already hard enough. If they can't take pleasure in the pain and find some happiness in the pain, then what's the point of life?

If it is always painful, then life will lose its meaning and we will survive.Isn’t it just to discover the beauty in life?
And this little beauty is actually around us, but we have never really looked for it.

Although he particularly agrees with the dean's method, there are many things in which it is better not to do that. Letting children have a happy time is a very happy thing.

If you blindly put too much pressure on your child, your child's emotions will become extremely tense and there will be no chance to breathe.

If a child doesn't even have time to breathe, how painful life will become. Even if there are many things worth living in life, the child will not see them. They are all pessimistic and have no happiness at all.

They will feel that their life is extremely painful.

After life loses its color, many beautiful things can no longer be seen. It is precisely because they cannot see such good times that they will become more and more extreme.

Even some children will place a lot of hopes on others. You must know that many children in orphanages will fail to recover after falling in love or encountering setbacks in life.

Some may even choose to give up their lives, which is really terrifying.

Since the dean fell ill this time, it can be seen that many children are very nervous. They worry about the dean every day and don't know what is going on with the dean. They are not even in the mood to study well.

There are many children who have actually wanted to run out secretly to see how the dean is doing.

I also want to know if the dean is okay now, or what kind of condition the dean is in. Even if he knows what kind of condition the dean is in, what's the point?

At the beginning, you may have thought that all this was because the children missed the dean particularly. In fact, it was not the case. After a few days of observation, he found that these children were more selfish in their hearts.

Because they are afraid that if the dean really falls, they will never have a home again. Many children even think that this school will be abandoned and what will their future be like.

These children are calculating carefully in their hearts, in order to find a better way out in the future. It is not a bad thing for children to seek a way out in the future, but it is also a bad start.If children are always like this, they will be particularly selfish people in the future.

There are even some children who, after being hospitalized because of the dean, are really emotionally broken, and they want to escape even when they hear the dean's name.

Fortunately, Bai Meixi and Cheng Haiyi arrived in time in the past few days, so these children can feel more stable.

But Cheng Haiyi also noticed that regarding children's psychological problems, it is really necessary to hire a psychological teacher for the children to provide certain intervention in the psychological aspects of the children.

Because the psychology of some children has really become distorted. If we don't intervene, the final results of these children may be particularly tragic.

Maybe we now think that we teach and educate people just to find a way out for the children, but what we should be more concerned about is the hearts of the children, knowing that they are children who have been abandoned.

They are more fragile than we imagine, even some children are psychologically vulnerable.The disease has already appeared, but usually it is not noticed by everyone.

"Everyone has his or her own destiny, but we really should hire a psychological teacher for these children, who can at least provide them with more psychological intervention.

It also helps children to embark on a more correct path in life. You must know that the personalities of these children are inherently extreme and prone to problems. "

Bai Meixi had actually had such an idea before, but he had never implemented it. But this time when he came to the orphanage, he really discovered that these children needed psychological intervention.

We also need to make these children realize that life is not just about sorrow, nor is it just about hard work and struggle. There are many other things. The friends around you are really important and can affect you a lot.

Bai Meixi sees many things very clearly, and she also hopes that the children can have a better future.

"No matter what, children are good. Children are exposed to different things, so they have different ideas. This is also a normal thing.

We hope that every child can have a better future, and we also hope that these children can understand what they want in the future.

When you go out into society, the most important thing is to truly become a useful person to society and then be worthy of yourself. "

Cheng Haiyi has never thought about what kind of repayment he would ask these children to do. He only thinks about making these children happy and carefree. This is the most important thing.

"But we also need to let these children have a grateful heart and know that there are many people who have helped them. Only when people learn to be grateful can they learn to give."

(End of this chapter)