The reborn peasant girl has space for farming

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"It is true that everyone's needs in this area have not been discovered, and many people always feel that children have so many problems, and they are carefree, and they are not taken into consideration.

In addition, there is a big gap between today's children and previous children. Maybe it is because people's awareness has not improved. But recently I chatted with my friends and you can see that many high school children are under pressure. Extremely big. "

Bai Meixi can also feel that the children are under great pressure, especially after seeing Cheng Qian's state this time.

Cheng Qian is under a lot of pressure now. Sometimes, it can help her relieve it, but there are many times when professional teachers really need help.

In addition, Cheng Qian is a child who is relatively cheerful and optimistic. In normal times, she is also a child who can face difficulties in life more positively. In addition, Bai Meixi also enlightens children more.

You must know that high school students are most likely to have problems during this period. They are under pressure and sometimes have different ideas from their parents.

So we really need the help of professional teachers. Some children study very well at the beginning and are also good children.

But at a certain point, rebellion begins to appear. These are normal, but many parents do not understand why such a thing would happen to their children at a critical moment.

Some children even have a very good relationship with their parents at first, but due to stress issues, the relationship between the children and their parents will become farther and farther away, and they will no longer tell their parents even their inner thoughts. .

"Yes, when people like Cheng Qian reach their age, it is really easy for them to have problems in their hearts. There are many children who are introverted and have no way to express themselves.

Coupled with the pressure of the current era, it is indeed quite high, and parents hope that their daughters will become phoenixes and their sons will succeed.

In addition, social pressure is also great, and children's psychology is indeed very easy to have problems. This is also the time when love begins, and it is easy to fall in love. These are very normal, as long as we provide positive and correct guidance.

For children, they can still understand it. Oh, as parents, they are more anxious anyway, but I look at you more. "

Doctor Lin also knows that Bai Meixi is a person who can see many things very thoroughly, and is also a very healthy person mentally.

"I have been anxious when I saw children like that, but what can be done about anxiety? Children still need to have their own way to go.

Sometimes I can understand the thoughts of my parents, but I can also better understand the thoughts of these children. Although they have just grown up, they can treat many things and have different thoughts and states.

As a mother, of course I can understand the mother's psychology, but I have also been rebellious when my daughter was that age.

Although it is difficult for us to be rebellious at that age, it is still in our hearts.I can still understand her. "

Bai Meixi feels that she and her daughter are like friends. The two of them have always understood each other.

Although the things the child does sometimes really give him a headache, he still needs to respect the child.

After all, children should make their own choices in life, especially at critical moments. Children should be responsible for their own future.

As a parent, you can only give opinions from the side instead of interfering. Blind interference can easily make children lose their self-esteem and even prevent them from making basic judgments in the future.

When it comes to accompanying our children, we can only accompany them for a period of time, but we cannot accompany them forever. The most important thing we as parents should do is to give our children their opinions and let them make their own choices.It is also to improve children's self-discipline and allow children to better release themselves.

"Yes, if every parent could pay more attention to their children's hearts like you, maybe many problems would be solved.

By the way, I want to tell you something very important. I don't dare to tell your husband about this matter, but I think I should tell you. You can see how to tell them better. "

Doctor Lin looked around.Prepare to find a place where no one is around to talk to her.

"Let's go, go to my office. You can also take a look at our office. It's pretty good. I'm also going to build a separate consultation room. If there are children with serious psychological problems, I will also ask you to come and treat them. They do consulting.

After all, teaching them is still a very hard job, because after all, every child will have some problems in his heart, it's just a matter of more or less. "

Bai Meixi also knows that there must be something wrong in the children's hearts.

The two of them were talking and laughing, very happy.

After arriving at the office, Bai Meixi made Dr. Lin a cup of scented tea.

"I didn't expect that after so many years, you still remember that I prefer drinking roses."

Dr. Lin was really very happy. Unexpectedly, after so many years, Bai Meixi still remembered her favorite drink.Just roses.

"Of course, of course I remember. Back then, the two of us shared a dormitory, and your favorite drink was roses. There were a lot of them on the table, and you even made me drink a lot of them.

So, when I have nothing to do, I will also drink some rose tea. "

Bai Meixi is also infected, so occasionally she comes to drink some scented tea.

"So, for so many years, I have been helping others, but no one knows that I actually have problems inside. I am just healing myself and others."

Doctor Lin shook the teacup in his hand.

I feel that life in this world is extremely difficult, and everyone’s heart is actually traumatized. We are just practicing, perfecting ourselves, and growing up.

"I believe you, there must be no problem, and you are so good, plus that scumbag in college, don't think about it all the time. He has really hurt you a lot. Now that I think about it, I feel very angry.

Alas, everyone has his or her own destiny, and you really can't force things on your feelings. Now that you've separated, let yourself go and let him go.

No matter what happens after that, there were still a lot of good things before.

(End of this chapter)