The reborn peasant girl has space for farming

Chapter 2817 Normal Mind

He is also afraid that the children will not be able to accept it, so now he can only face the results with a normal mentality. Whether it is good or bad results, he suffers them silently.

"Not only are the children under special pressure, but you are also under special pressure. I know that this reform is a challenge for the children, but it is even more of a challenge for the teachers.

And we put all this pressure on the new teachers. The old teachers can only rely on their own experience to slowly explore, and they can only be an assistant teacher, which will also make the old teachers' There was a lot of sadness in my heart.

But everything we are doing now is for the children, to give the children a better future, and I hope the teachers can understand.

Just try to calm down and do what you should do. For the rest, just do it with a clear conscience. Don't put so much pressure on your children, and don't put so much stimulation on yourself. "

The dean also doesn't want Director Li and the others to be under so much pressure. They will definitely feel particularly uncomfortable if they bear so much pressure every day.

"Don't worry, I am also actively trying to enlighten this teacher. When you come back, we will be able to breathe a sigh of relief.

Moreover, we have indeed not held a parent meeting recently, and everyone wants to hold a parent meeting when the time comes.

There are also many parents who come to us to adopt children. We even had some parents who had developed some relationships with their children before, but all of them have been interrupted recently.

In addition, as you know recently, there are many children in orphanages who have been abducted, but fortunately, such a thing has never happened in our orphanage. "

Director Li was also highly nervous when he learned about this matter. Recently, he has been particularly concerned about his children's affairs and has not even returned home, just to prevent accidents.

"Yes, I also heard about this matter. Especially after Teacher Liu learned about this matter, he also discussed it with our Mr. Bai, so the orphanage stopped the meeting with parents. Come down.

And before Mr. Bai.I have never done any of these things, and I don’t have a special understanding of children’s tempers. In addition, parents are sometimes reckless, which can easily lead to problems in the children’s minds.

So I also put an end to this matter. Now there will definitely be many parents who want to quickly establish relationships with their children, but I don’t plan to let these parents have contact with their children now, because I am not here, I still don’t So reassuring. "

The dean also knows that there are many people waiting to meet, just wanting to get in touch with the children. Only by getting in touch with the children more can we have such an opportunity.

"It's really worrying that you are not here. We don't dare to make such a decision, because after all, it determines the children's life. Without you, we don't know how to do these things.

In the past, you have always been the one checking things out. We were afraid that we wouldn't be able to check things out. Whenever there was a problem, it was really difficult to solve.

Moreover, you still have to do everything well, and even do everything well, in order to be able to do everything that needs to be done. "Director Li still doesn't believe that he can do these things well, and he has no confidence. After all, this is about the future of the child. If the child cannot accept it, it will be very difficult for such a family to return to the orphanage. matter.

This will also have a great impact on children, and many children may even have problems because they cannot think clearly. Such a shadow will accompany the children for a lifetime, and they may even have to choose an unsuitable one. Home.

It will also lead to great distortions in the second half of the child's life, so sometimes, one must be careful in making choices.

“Actually, when I was doing this, I wasn’t that sure, and I felt a lot of pressure in my heart most of the time.

In fact, I don’t know what kind of future I can choose for my children, but I try my best to help them choose different families based on their personalities.

And I will follow every child for a period of time, even until they grow up. This is our responsibility. Every child is sent out from my own hands. I have to be responsible for them. They should also make certain plans for their future.

If there is a problem, I must protect the children, because these children are really very pitiful. They have already been hit, and they must not be allowed to bear more blows, especially the hearts of these children. are very vulnerable at all times. "

The director also understands the children, and after walking out of the orphanage, the children just long for a family, otherwise they are like Daxizi and others, who simply do not accept new families and want to be in the orphanage.

Such children must not be pushed out. If they are pushed out, they will feel very sad. They will not be able to open their hearts to the new family, and it will easily lead to problems. This is also very difficult. Big things, so understanding every child can help children find happiness.

In fact, every child's heart is different. Some children are sentimental, some are sensitive and suspicious, and some are carefree and can get along well with everyone.

Because children have different personalities, we also need to find different parents for the children, and the parents' personalities can completely affect the children. In addition, the children who can basically find families now are relatively young.

They have very good plasticity, so in order for these children to have better contact with a new family, the first step is to get to know each other better.

Only by understanding more can we know whether it is suitable. It is not only a child who needs to be tested, but also a family. It is also important for a family to test a child. Whether such a child can integrate and be recognized by everyone is very important. Things, so even though it is just a small choice, it determines the fate of a family and the future of a child.

Therefore, we must also help children find more families that can accommodate the children and at the same time provide them with a better education.

And we must give children a lot of love. Only by letting children have more love can we make children live happily. If there is no way, it is really difficult to give love to children.

(End of this chapter)