The reborn peasant girl has space for farming

Chapter 2856 Personality
And death can't change anything. The most important thing is to protect yourself, have the ability to support yourself, and have ways to solve problems.

When the children get older, they will be faced with starting a family and starting a business. These are all tests for us. We must show more love to protect our little family, and we must also use our abilities to adjust our state and do what needs to be done.

"What you are talking about is particularly important. I can also realize it. Some time ago, I also heard Lao Liu tell me that some children came out of orphanages, but they could not experience the pressure of society. Instead, they Going to death, you said, this makes people angry. When I heard the news, I felt particularly heartbroken.

I have worked hard to cultivate you all, hoping to bring you up. After raising you up, I heard such news. I felt particularly sad and didn’t know what to say. You know, it’s not Every child is uniquely suited to every family.

Our parents will choose their children, and our children will also choose their parents. There are many children who are unwilling to integrate into a family.

Just like Daxizi, he just doesn't want to leave, and he doesn't want to leave the orphanage. If he is forced to help him, it will easily make him more withdrawn when he comes out. "

You must know that a child's personality is developed bit by bit. After experiencing many things, you will find that it is different, and every child needs to be well educated and understand the child's own characteristics. .

Raising a child is a difficult thing, especially the children in the orphanage. It is not easy to train them, and they have been abandoned. Especially some children are already old and know these things. , it is easy to have a gap in the heart.

"I think Daxizi is okay. This child is very capable, has relatively good academic performance, and is excellent in all aspects. Although he has a bit of a temper in school, he is fortunate to be able to communicate and reason, and he knows that he has done something wrong. It’s good to have the courage to admit these things.”

Bai Meixi really likes the child Daxizi. She feels that this child is quite outstanding, and he also helps the teacher in a down-to-earth manner and does a lot of good things.

After a while, Bai Meixi is going to take Daxizi out to study, and select a few outstanding children. We will start experiments to see if we can be students with special talents in sports. If everyone can accept it, and develop well if.

Just prepare to lead the children to take the art path. In this way, everyone will have more choices and can have more directions in the future.

"Daxizi is a good kid. I like him quite a lot. He is considered a big kid after being in the orphanage for so many years. I have watched him grow up step by step. He is relatively optimistic and has a very cheerful personality. Although he is quite cheerful at heart. Delicate, but communicate with him frequently, you will find that he is a child with a big heart.

Although they think a lot, they also have a special sense of responsibility, which I quite like. However, some children have extremely extreme personalities, especially some parents who feel that they cannot cultivate the kind of relationship with their children after they have adopted them. Emotions sent the child back again. Such a child suffered a particularly heavy blow in his heart.

The first time they were abandoned was an act of helplessness. The second time they were abandoned again, it would cause huge harm to their souls. These things are particularly difficult to accept. I can understand. I have also seen that many children were sent back by other families, or some children suffered inhuman treatment in other families.This is, every time when I choose a family, I will be very hesitant, for fear that our children will have any problems, so the children we send out every year are fewer than those in other orphanages. At the same time, we We will also do a good job of follow-up later. "

The dean is particularly responsible for the children, because she feels that the children are coming out of her hands, so she has to understand the children's situation at all times, so that she can better help the children.

Although the child has walked out of the orphanage, she still needs to know the child's situation. As long as the child lives well, she will be happiest. After all, she especially hopes that the children can have a happy family and start a new life trajectory.

Moreover, when children walk out of the orphanage, many changes will occur in their hearts. Some children feel particularly happy and their life has entered a new starting point. They have parents to cherish and love them, but some children always I feel like something is missing, and my personality may even become more and more withdrawn.

We need to pay more attention to these. We must not let the children have a particularly heavy ideological burden. If the other parent has something or does something bad, we will communicate with the parents again, or even say that it is She has the right to take her child back.

"This will also make some parents unwilling to come to our school to make a choice. I know that there are many parents who are unwilling to let the orphanage enter their lives again, so it will disturb their lives, but for the sake of their children ,I have no way.

Some children are really unwilling to live in an orphanage. These are two-way and divided into children. However, most of what we will do is respect the children's wishes. If the children are willing to live with our parents, I Of course I do. After all, it can give the children a new environment and a new starting point.

In addition, we have investigated the families who can accept the children. The parents have serious jobs, or have certain qualifications and abilities, and can raise the children well, so that we can send the children there.

So, sometimes I find it really difficult. I don’t know how to educate a child, and I don’t know how to help a child grow up healthily. This is a very deep course. "

The dean is really taking great pains to balance the relationship between each child and his family. At the same time, he is also adjusting the focus of the orphanage, especially in the direction of education. The dean also knows that the children must be quickly growth, and at the same time, let the children do what they should do better.

Children's activities are increasing every year, just to let the children go out and get in touch with different societies and different environments.

(End of this chapter)