The reborn peasant girl has space for farming

Chapter 3385 Healing
It turns out that she was really timid and inferior. She put all her expectations on her son. She had no autonomy. When her son was rebellious in youth, she was extremely unable to accept it!
He even had a lot of extreme emotions, constantly quarreling with his son, and even trying to change his son\'s mind.

But then after listening to Bai Meixi\'s words, I slowly changed my thoughts and my own concepts. I really jumped out of my comfort zone and entered the process of self-cultivation. Not only was the result very pleasant, but the process was also very happy!
The relationship between the two of them has also gone from being very close to each other, to the point where they can sit down and chat with each other calmly, like friends, tell these things, discuss and care for each other!

In fact, sometimes, if you pay attention to children from the side, you will find that children\'s ideas are really novel and their ability to accept new things.Including cognition, it is very fast, and it can also find its own position, so as to develop better.

This is the power of the new era. This is also the power we don’t have. From Ming Ming, we can also feel that children are really growing up little by little. Sometimes, we have to withdraw from our children’s lives!

Let the children develop better and have a better understanding of the future. What we parents have to do is to give our children certain suggestions when they make major decisions!

But don’t stop your children, because there are some bumps and valleys, and they have to bravely brave it themselves before they can have it.

What they have now is more time, more ability and the ability to correct mistakes, precisely because they are young and have the opportunity to make mistakes!

So at this time, it is not a bad thing for them to let them suffer a small loss occasionally, at least they will grow quickly.

Only by truly summing up experience from failure can people grow faster. In addition, there are many things that we adults do not have certain decision-making power!
There are many situations, which may be futures and hopes that even adults cannot see!

In the past, maybe working hard and making progress in a factory was the best thing, but times are different now, and the speed of development is also different from before!

If you want to develop better, you must have a smart mind, including different ideas, as well as constant persistence and hard work. You must also be able to overthrow yourself and build a new understanding.

It also requires academic qualifications and more interpersonal relationships, which are really complicated, and many adults may not have these things.

So when I was young, I always looked forward to growing up quickly and getting rid of the control of my parents. But when I really grow up, I feel that the happiest thing in life is to be able to grow up happily by my parents\' side. big!
There is no need to think about these issues. When I was young, I was very innocent and very happy.

But now that I have grown up, many problems have emerged, and I can no longer hide behind my parents like I did when I was a child.

\"It\'s the best thing to live happily now, and don\'t think about those unhappy things. We believe that the future will be better and better, and you have to give yourself more confidence and don\'t always think about it. For those bad things, we still need to take a longer view.

In addition, no matter how bad things were before, they have passed. Now you are confident and sunny, and you still have our love. Your baby son is also so outstanding, and he will definitely be even better in the future!
You don’t have to think so much, and it will definitely get better and better in the future. Plus, you give yourself more confidence, which is also a good thing. \"Bai Meixi is really happy, really happy to meet you all. Meeting you is a kind of fate, and being with you, not only has a good time, but also has a lot of fun together.

\"Yeah, so I don\'t think about anything now, I just think about how to improve myself and take care of everyone. This is the most important thing!
When my children go to college, I will be completely liberated. The tasks I have given myself over the years will be completed. \"

Obviously, the task I gave myself at the beginning was very simple: to raise my children, so that they can go to a good university and have a good future!
It really took a lot of effort, but now I think that improving myself is a very important thing. No matter what the future holds, the most important thing is to improve myself.

No matter who you are, there is nothing you can do to stay with you for the rest of your life. Only when you are strong can you be of value. If your own abilities are strengthened, your life will definitely get better and better in the future.

\"Yes, when your children are admitted to college, you will be liberated. At that time, you can also go out and have a look, spend more time with your children, relax and travel. I feel pretty good about it. !

You can\'t confine yourself to this small place for the rest of your life. You still have to go out more and take a look. Only then can you know how wonderful the outside world is!

Moreover, the value of your life will be more and more reflected, including your vision will also be improved!

As the old saying goes, it is better to travel thousands of miles than to read thousands of books. Only when you go out and see things can you change your mind. The more developed the city, the more tolerant it will be, and at the same time, you can also find something that suits you. want to do. \"

Bai Meixi also knows that Mingming is indeed capable now. If she goes out and takes a look, it will be a good thing for her future.

\"It would be fine if I went on a trip to relax and have fun with my son, but I never thought about living outside. I was prepared to stay with you for the rest of my life!
What\'s wrong?They want to drive me out now, but I won’t go out. Besides, this is my roots. If I leave, I won’t be able to accept it myself. I never planned to go out!

But I do have an idea and want to travel with my son. For so many years, I have always heard you talk about going here and there. I also want to see with my own eyes what this world is like!

I have been busy in the first half of my life, for my children, for money, and never stopped. Now that I have this opportunity, I want to stay and see the outside world. How wonderful it is, and do it for myself. live. \"

(End of this chapter)