The reborn peasant girl has space for farming

"When you are young, who doesn't do a few ridiculous things? If you haven't done ridiculous things, how can you be considered young? It's because you are relatively young, so the things you do cannot be understood by others. You always stand on the side of It’s normal to think from your own standpoint and not think about others at all!

Including when we were young, didn’t we also go through this?So I implore all of us to give Xiaoqing a chance to accept and get to know Xiaoqing again, including Chengwen. I also hope that Chengwen can think about the relationship between him and Xiaoqing!
After all, the two of them have been together for so many years and have gone through ups and downs together. Xiaoqing has never cared about reputation and stayed with Chengwen!
You don’t know this kid Chengwen at all. He was disobedient before. I was really angry to death. I hung out with those gangsters all day long. I was very angry every day. But what should I say? This kid doesn't even listen to me!
I turned over my stick and went out to play with them all day. I am getting older and my health is not good. You said I can't watch him all day long, but with Xiaoqing here, I feel a lot more relieved! "

My sister-in-law really feels that after Chengwen met Xiaoqing, her personality has really changed a lot. She is not as playful as before, and she can also work at home in a down-to-earth manner and not talk to those bad friends all the time. together.

"It is true that when we were young, we all did stupid things, which are normal, but this kid Xiaoqing did a lot of things that we couldn't tolerate!
I really feel that the marriage between the two of them should be carefully thought about by Chengwen, at least not to make Chengwen regret it, and most of the time, life is lived by oneself, no matter what, Chengwen still has to make his own choice!

We are not in an arranged marriage, so no matter what Chengwen’s final choice is, we all respect Chengwen’s child!
As for Xiaoqing's affairs, let Xiaoqing do it slowly by herself. We can't control what the two children will become. After all, no one can say for sure about emotional matters. You still have to experience it yourself. "

Bai Meixi feels that no one can decide about marriage, not even her parents. It is no longer the time to marry on the fingertips in ancient times. Emotional matters last a lifetime, and who you end up with must also be based on the decision. Make your own choice and don't let yourself regret it.

"Yes, you are right. I am not an unenlightened parent. Although I like Xiaoqing, in the end, I have no objection to who my son chooses to be with or marry. As long as It was his own choice, as long as he doesn't regret it.

Xiao Qing is a child with a good nature and is relatively simple. She doesn't allow Cheng Wen to go out to play with them and watches Xiao Qing play everywhere. She really got rid of many of Cheng Wen's bad habits!

I never thought that Cheng Wen would undergo such a big change after he came here, which really surprised me as a mother. I never thought that such a naughty child could mature one day.

I hope these two good children can eventually get married. I am getting old and can’t take care of it even if I want to. I still have a lot of things of my own that I can’t take care of. I really don’t have the energy. I won’t worry about the two of them anymore. I’ll try my best to adjust my condition first, which is better than anything else! "

The eldest sister-in-law also knows that no matter what she says or does, she can't change the children's minds. Everything she has is just a reference. In the end, the children's choice should be respected!

"Okay, if you think so, that's the best. We won't worry about Xiaoqing's affairs. As long as Xiaoqing can live a good life with Chengwen, that's enough. That's a good thing!
But no matter what Chengwen chooses, we all agree with it, and our previous promise to buy a house and a car for Chengwen will be implemented as soon as possible. After all, the children are getting older and they also need their own space!
They can't stay with us adults, and boys should be given the power to let go and have their own space, so that no matter what they do, they will be more comfortable!
What we parents should do most is to withdraw. We cannot accompany our children for a lifetime. As long as we explore slowly, it will be good. "Bai Meixi feels that it is indeed necessary to buy a house and a car for Chengwen, so that she can be worthy of her elder brother and sister-in-law.

"Your eldest brother and I have never dared to talk about this matter. If you say that you bought a house and a car for your eldest nephew, how do you want me to explain it to your eldest brother?"

The elder sister-in-law also felt particularly embarrassed, but she also knew that this was the intention of the third son and his wife.

Moreover, the son has grown up little by little. If he relies on the old couple to buy a house in this city, he will only be able to spend a small part of the money, and he will not have the strength to buy a house of his choice!

Bai Meixi and Cheng Haiyi hope to give Chengwen a space to be alone, but the house and car are named after their eldest brother, so they can feel more at ease.

"After we finish cleaning up, it will slowly penetrate into the big brother. Don't worry about this. And with Cheng Haiyi here, my big brother can understand. We promised it when it was the most difficult time. , this is just fulfilling the promise now, do you think we should do it?"

Bai Meixi also threw the question to her sister-in-law and asked her to answer it.

"I understand what you and Lao San think. I know that you and Lao San are doing it for your eldest brother and me, to lighten our burden, but now we still have some money in our hands, enough to buy a house for our children. Yes, you two don't have to worry so much.

In addition, the house and the car are both written in my eldest brother's name. Don't worry, at least Cheng Wen will not sell the house because of his actions. This is what Cheng Haiyi and I think!
In addition, people are unpredictable, even if it is my own son, I am not particularly relieved. I write my eldest brother's name here just in case. If one day they really don't support you, at least in your hands, There is such a thing, taking care of yourself until old age is no problem! "

Bai Meixi did this to give her eldest brother and sister-in-law a way out, and also to express her gratitude to her eldest brother and sister-in-law for taking care and loving them for so many years! (End of chapter)