The reborn peasant girl has space for farming

"Don't think about those messy things. At the beginning, I was just like you, always trapping myself in that little corner, but later I slowly came out!
If you think about it, there are actually a lot of things you can do. It would be really boring if you always relied on others.

But it is difficult to take the first step. After all, you have not taken this step for so many years, and you have already derailed social affairs. This is undeniable.

But I believe that as long as you are willing to start, things will get better. Don’t put so much pressure on yourself, things will definitely get better. "

Obviously I am also cheering for Xiaojuan, hoping that Xiaojuan can work harder on her own. No matter what happens, she must always believe in herself first.

"Thank you, I really feel very warm. In the past, I always gave my time to my family and my children. It seems that I haven't gotten together with you for a long time, but I didn't expect that this time there would be nothing Even though I feel uncomfortable, I feel very lucky!
I really should go out and walk around more and get to know this society, otherwise, I would be really stupid at home.

Before, I believed in my husband so much that I wanted to leave the rest of my life to him and give him all my time. Only in this way can we two live together for a long time!

But now I know that everything is unrealistic. Only by relying on yourself can you survive for the longest time. No matter what, you can never give up the ability to learn. "

When Xiaojuan said this, she smiled bitterly. It was true that she was not determined enough at the time and chose to return to her family. Although she also liked the way she worked hard in the workplace, for the sake of her children and her family, she still had to do it. Choose to return!
I have always been a self-motivated sacrifice. I have not helped my husband at all in his work. Instead, I have gradually tested myself. When I no longer understand much about this society, I have also begun to understand this society. Becoming relatively unfamiliar, I don’t know what to do.

I don’t know since when, the language between the two people seems to have no common topics except for the children.

Even when my husband encounters a problem at work, he tells me that he doesn’t quite understand it. Many of his ideas are old methods from before, and they are no longer popular at all!

But she has not been exposed to this society, so she doesn’t understand it very well, so her husband’s resentment towards her is acceptable, but she has never hated others. She has always hated herself the most because she gave up. That self.

"How can you think so? Think about it, the two of you once discussed with each other that the male should be the main outsider and the female should be the internal control. This was the idea of ​​the two of you, so today's situation has been created, and it has nothing to do with you!
You have always put yourself in the dust and never dared to face yourself. This is the most terrifying thing.

If it has something to do with it, then it is indeed your choice to give up. Even if you choose to return to the family, you should step out bravely. Your children are already grown, and you have to get in touch with this society and have your own income. The ability of money will never be beaten to death by others. "

Obviously, I feel really distressed when I see Xiaojuan like that, but I don't know how to help Xiaojuan. However, when I see that Xiaojuan's thoughts are particularly contrary to her, I will also give the right help.

"I've only realized this now, and I don't know if I was right, but no matter what, I have to fight for my own interests. My child is still young now!

There can never be a day when I can't even support myself. I don't need to worry too much about the child's problems. After all, the child's father can also take care of the child.

But I have to put myself in a better state. I'm afraid there is really no way for the two of us. If we continue to go down, I must be responsible for my own future. This is the most important thing!
If I can't take responsibility for my own future, I'm afraid it will be really painful. If I want my children to be by my side, I have to work harder. "

I couldn't see the essence of this thing clearly a few days ago. After calming down in the past few days, I slowly began to realize these problems. Everything is the fundamental element of myself. Only after I have adjusted myself well. Only then. "If you can think like this now, we are already very happy. We feel that you will be able to come out slowly. This is what we want to see most. Okay, don't think so much, we will be fine. .”

At this time, Bai Meixi had already parked her car outside and hurried in.

"You've been disappearing every day. I'm learning to cook from Mingming. Now you can taste my craftsmanship."

Xiaojuan was very happy when she saw Bai Meixi coming. In the past few days, her messy things had caused trouble for everyone.

"Then look at it, didn't I just pick it up here? If you can get good food, I must come here as soon as possible.

I'm going to wash my hands first and help you do it together. I usually do it by myself, but I don't have time here. I just have time today. I don't have anything to do. I can accompany you two and take me with you. Or we can make a fire place. Come on, let's have some tea together.

I happen to have good tea in my car. They gave it to me last time. I think the taste is pretty good. "

Bai Meixi washed her hands and asked everyone for their opinions.

"Then of course I agree. There is delicious food and drink here, how can we not be happy? We must drink the good tea from our leader, otherwise there will be no chance of drinking good tea."

Xiao Juaner also said with a smile.

"You two are really naughty. Let me go and get it.

Mingming, you put up the stove and we start lighting a fire, just in time to make tea. "

Bai Meixi also wiped her hands and went directly to the car to get tea. She drank this tea last time and it tasted very good and was very comfortable.

Xiaojuan and Mingming helped set up the small stove!

I haven’t made a fire in several years, but Xiaojuan and Mingming’s craftsmanship has not yet started, and they are really quite good.

"Hey, you two got over it pretty quickly. It seems that you haven't forgotten all these years of life experience. I thought you two might not be able to make a fire, so I even deliberately took some kindling from the car. Tool!" (End of this chapter)