Siheyuan: Stab at Louzi at the beginning

Chapter 833 In the name of love
Now you may not understand how hard students work. Let me give you the simplest example.

As long as your grandparents have gone to school, you can ask them about the study conditions at that time. Even if they only graduated from elementary school, they can all write beautiful handwriting. It was common for some students to stay on to teach in school directly after graduating from elementary school.

This situation no longer exists now. The most you can do after graduating from university is to stay on campus as an assistant teacher, which is not something that ordinary people can do.

It was very cold, the ice was hard to break, and fingers could not bend or stretch, but I did not slack off. These were all facts. It was very normal to have frostbite on hands and feet in winter. This included morning and evening self-study. Primary school students had to get up at five in the morning with kerosene lamps to go to school for morning self-study, and could not go home until ten in the evening.

People who haven't experienced it may not believe it, but it's the fact.

What I am saying is actually to illustrate one thing: no matter when or where you are, you will never succeed without hard work and struggle.

Hard work does not necessarily lead to success, but without hard work, there will be no success.

Especially those who say that they were born in the wrong era, and what would have happened if they were born earlier, or in what dynasty. In fact, they still won’t have much prospects, unless they have memories, in which case they may still be able to make some waves.

Students who really work hard to get into college will never go to bed before midnight, and sleeping four hours a day is already good enough.

"Qiu Nan, look here, this is the step. You are thinking wrong. You shouldn't use it..."

"Qiu Nan? Qiu Nan?"

He Yushui called out three times before Ding Qiunan responded: "Hey, hey, what's wrong?"

He Yushui put down the pen in his hand.

It is obvious that he is absent-minded. No matter how much you say or teach him, he won't listen.

"If you have anything to say, just tell me. There are only two of us in the room, no outsiders."

Ding Qiunan put down the pen in her hand. She really was not in the mood to do her homework.

"That is to say, when I saw that my father didn't bring the person back, I was actually a little happy. Do you think I am a little bad?"

He Yuyu:......

"What's wrong with you? It's just a normal thought. After all, he is just my half brother. It's normal to have such thoughts. My real brother is really bad for letting me go. And Yi Zhonghai saved the money my father sent and didn't tell us. He is the bad one."

Yu Haitang then understood why He Yushui was not so kind to his brother and the old man in the courtyard.

The source turns out to be here.

"First, you didn't stop them from getting the person back. Second, you were still trying your best to help them. The fact that the person wasn't brought back had nothing to do with you. You just had some happy thoughts. That's nothing. If it were me, I would have opposed this from the beginning, let alone helped to make it happen. You are already a very good person."

Ding Qiunan: ...

"But... I want to go back with them now, but they won't let me. They told me to stay in Sijiu City, saying that it's good to be under the shade of a big tree in Sijiu City and there are better prospects for development. Why should I go back..."

He Yushui also agreed with this point.

"Why are you going back now? What can you do in a few months? You'd better study hard here. No matter where you are, if you get into college, you can apply for subsidies and live on campus. Even if you go back now, you can't expect to go home every day after you get into college, right? That's simply unrealistic."

"Besides, are the teaching conditions back home as good as here? If you rely purely on self-study, you will never be able to get into university in your lifetime."

Ding Qiunan also understood that what He Yushui said made sense, but the problem was that she felt in her heart that her parents didn't want her anymore.

That’s right, she is still a mama’s girl now.

She just listened to her mother and did whatever her parents told her to do, and she rarely had her own ideas. This also explains why she didn't come back for several days the last time she went back.

He Yushui also noticed Ding Qiunan's dilemma: "Don't think about it. No matter where you are, whether you are going to college or working, you will have to leave home sooner or later. It is unrealistic to want to stay at home forever."

"Yushui, but...but they also told me to stay and ask Director Xu for some benefits, that is, more money, and then ask that leader Xiao Zhu to send her to Japan. My family is poor now, but when we have money in the future and the time is right, we can bring her back..."

Anyway, Mr. Ding still has to have some dignity.

Since the previous deal has been reached, the follow-up is no longer a deal, so let Ding Qiunan and Xu Damao talk about feelings, so that they can get more money.

Anyway, they have also seen that Director Xu is really not short of money.

The small yellow croaker was given to me without blinking an eye.

He Yushui didn't know what to say. After thinking for a long time, he finally said, "It's okay to help your mother's family, and it's okay to help your brothers and sisters, but you have to know the limit. If you go too far, people will talk about you behind your back."

"A married girl is like spilled water. A new bride who keeps bringing things from her parents' home to her new home is a good girl who doesn't bring things from her new home to her parents' home."

"They also told me to be Director Xu's mistress, so that I can ask for money legitimately."

He Yuyu:......

What kind of parents are these?

"You are already an adult. You should have your own ideas. You can't always live under the control of your parents. You should also be independent. Just like what the book says, fish will eventually leave the pond and rush to the sea, and young eagles will eventually learn to fly alone."

He Yushui thought Ding Qiunan had listened to her, but Ding Qiunan asked another question, which completely left her speechless.

"How much do you think Director Xu is willing to give me?"

Normally this person is quite normal, but when faced with his parents' request, he becomes like a different person and becomes brainless.

Just listen to your parents without thinking.

He Yushui has always been rebellious towards adults since she was a child. She never thought that someone would be so obedient to their parents.

I feel like a servant with no status at home, as if I am living for my parents.

What she despises most is some parents who, unable to get into college themselves, insist on their children studying hard to get into college.

She herself has no abilities and spends all her time eating, drinking and having fun every day, but she still requires her son to be positive and contribute to society.

It is simply imposing on your children things that you cannot do yourself.

It’s as if their children are their pets, who must carry their dreams and live for them.

What’s worse, because the children cannot tolerate such behavior, they regard it as rebellion and disobedience, and send their own children to correctional institutions for discipline.

Inflicting both physical and mental torture.

The children are "taught" to be very well behaved, as obedient as pets, and they even send banners to the correctional institution.

In this regard, He Yushui just wants to say that even if they are father and son or mother and daughter, they should not control their children's lives in the name of love.

(End of this chapter)