Siheyuan: Stab at Louzi at the beginning

Chapter 887 Decide first, then find a reason
Let’s talk about privacy.

I just said that the higher your status, the less privacy you have.

The overpass was a bridge specially built for the emperor to walk through. This was just for leaving the palace. If he was leaving the city, the scene would be even bigger.

Xu Damao's status naturally cannot be compared with those of ancient emperors.

But the situation is the same. It's better in the Forbidden City, where there is no one to protect you. If you leave the Forbidden City, there must be someone following you.

This is why Xu Damao gave up the idea of ​​coming to Hong Kong secretly.

It's not that I don't want to, it's that I can't. I simply can't do it.

There is basically no privacy in what you do, which is why Team Leader Li was able to know some of Xu Damao's more private matters time and time again.

Even the news that Lou Xiao'e was going to give birth in Hong Kong reached the ears of Team Leader Li in Sijiu City.

Then there is only one choice, which is to come here openly.

The lower a person's status, the harder it is to be discovered what you do because no one notices you.

Including some murder cases, the most difficult to solve are random killings. Someone is walking on the street and sees that there is no one around, so he suddenly kills someone. As long as there is no surveillance, it is difficult to detect.

Generally, when investigating these cases, we start with the relationship between the deceased. The problem is that there is no relationship at all. How can we investigate two people who have nothing to do with each other? Investigate and interview? That is why random murders are the most difficult to solve.

If someone is always staring at you, everything you do will be discovered. Therefore, those who are watched by more people will be discovered whether they do good or bad things. The difference is whether they will say it out loud. As long as it is not a big problem, everyone will assume that nothing happened.

Let me say it again, women and money are the lowest level of desires, not a serious problem, they belong to the category of minor issues. Only some ordinary people think that "making so much money for personal gain" and "maintaining improper relationships with so many people" are serious violations of laws and regulations, but in fact they are minor problems.

This made Xu Damao think of something that might happen in the future. Some things of unknown origin, such as money, must not be kept in the unit and can only be kept outside. But it is not safe outside either. People can confiscate it from you with just one word, and you would have no place to cry.

You can also use these to threaten.

It would be really funny if that really happened.

There is no impenetrable wall in the world. Maybe there is an impenetrable wall, but there are no eternal secrets. The more eyes are on you, the less privacy you have, and the fewer secrets you have.

If it's useful, keep it; if it's useless, throw it aside at any time.

Don't say that I only have a passionate heart that loves you. What I should say is that I want to be a useful person, make many friends through beneficial exchanges, and they know that some of your actions are problematic, but they just can't do anything to you.

Xu Damao has already figured this out, so when he came to Hong Kong this time, he also planned to complete another thing by the way.

Since we can't do it sneakily, let's just do it openly.

Money and women are the most basic desires. Those characters have no shortage of money, and even less of women. On the surface, they marry as many women as they want, but who knows how many women they have behind the scenes?

If you just flip through it, you will find that 'improper' relationships with multiple women are the norm, with the number ranging from a dozen to as many as eighty-seven. Doesn't anyone know about this?
Of course, many people know about it, but they will only reveal it when it is "needed". As long as you are always useful and have many friends, you will never be "needed".

If I want to mess with you, there are plenty of ways to do it.

There will be "groundless accusations" even without any reason.

I don't want to mess with you. No matter what you do, there will be great scholars to argue for you and cover up for you.

this is the truth.

After talking with Mr. Lou, I made him feel at ease.

When resting at night, according to Xu Damao's idea, it is natural for him to sleep in the same room with Lou Xiao'e.

However, this matter was opposed by everyone.

It’s not that Lou Xiao’e is not feeling well and has to put it aside, but everyone knows that it’s not possible as Xu Damao has so many women around him.

The main reason is because it is unlucky.

Lou Xiao'e is in a state where she can bleed at any time. It would be unlucky if Xu Damao saw it. Even Lou Xiao'e herself is against it.

This old idea is still the mainstream in Hong Kong, and the strict laws are still used. They have not been here for long, and now they are used to this idea.

Before doing anything, you have to ask the heavens, the gods and ghosts for advice. For business partners, you also have to calculate whether their horoscopes are compatible.

When building a factory, you must also consider Feng Shui first.

In short, Feng Shui masters can no longer survive in the mainland, and those who have connections have come to Hong Kong. That is why there are so many Feng Shui masters in Hong Kong, because they can no longer stay in the mainland. Of course, only a small number of them can come to Hong Kong.

Xu Damao really had no choice but to move into the second bedroom.

That is the bedroom next to Lou Xiao'e's room.

At Lou Xiao'e's house, even if they were willing to arrange a double room for Xu Damao, Xu Damao was embarrassed to bring anyone into the room.

After all, this is my father-in-law's home.

It is not a good behavior to bring another woman to sleep at your father-in-law's house.

Just as I finished washing up and was about to go to bed, there was a knock on the door.

Because Lou Xiao'e lived next door, Xu Damao thought it was Lou Xiao'e and went over to open the door immediately because Lou Xiao'e was indeed in poor health.

If Xu's mother knew that she was about to have grandchildren, she would probably try every means to come and take care of her for a few days.

According to the previous inland family relations, a daughter-in-law had no status in her husband's family. The only time she had status was when she was pregnant and gave birth. At that moment, she was the baby of the family.

Xu's mother also has some of the customs brought over from the old society.

On the other hand, think about Lou Xiao'e marrying Xu Damao, which was a marriage of downgrade, a marriage of a lower grade.

As a result, her status in the Xu family was that she didn't live with Xu's mother. Look at what Xu's mother did. She said the old hen didn't lay eggs, and madly mocked Lou Xiao'e, saying that she didn't cook and didn't do housework...

Later, he also instigated Xu Damao and Lou Xiao'e to divorce.

In Xu's mother's opinion, once you marry into our family, you are a member of our Xu family, and you have nothing to do with your previous family. Our Xu family disciplines our own people, and the Lou family has no control over them, because the person is already a member of our Xu family.

If I ask you to stand and set the rules, you have to listen.

This is the traditional thinking.

This is how a daughter-in-law becomes a mother-in-law after many years.

But after Xu Damao opened the door, he found that the person who came was neither Lou Xiao'e nor the eccentric Qin Jingru.

But it’s Wenli.

Xu Damao is no longer the rookie he used to be, so it’s obvious what the person knocking on the door means.

it is more than words.

But this is the Lou family manor, and Li Tianjiao and the others knew that they couldn't do anything rash today, but Wen Li came anyway.

Xu Damao blocked the door with his body without leaving any trace, hoping that Wen Li would give up.

"Secretary Wen, what brings you here so late? Is there anything?"

"Director Xu, I want to go out for a walk tomorrow, so I came to ask for leave from you. Is that okay?"

"It's a small problem. Tomorrow, tell Xiao'e and ask her to find someone to take you to experience the local customs and practices of Hong Kong."

(End of this chapter)