A pleasant life in a courtyard

Chapter 356 Should I call me dad or dad?
The culture of favoring boys over girls can only be said to have improved slightly for a long time after liberation.

This improvement is more superficial.

In fact, to get more serious inside, if ten people were asked, nine of them would agree whether they were giving birth or adopting a baby, or they still wanted a boy.

It is true that there were no adopted girls at this time, but generally, most of these adoptions were related to one another.

For example, the Gu family's uncle and aunt adopted Gu Danniu.

If a family adopts an orphaned girl, it must be said that this family is a kind family.

The aunt was a little overwhelmed by Li Xiang's surprise question.

In the previous years, when she and her uncle were young, they had never thought of raising a baby outside.

But during the discussion between the two, the female doll never appeared as an option.

The adoption was delayed and delayed by the two of them for more than ten years, but it never happened.

On weekdays, when the women in the courtyard gather together to work and chat, the eldest mother often helps to hold the child.

The more despicable Xu Damao behaves, the more these people will protect the poor child.

Li Xiang felt that if the aunt and the uncle took the adoption route, there would be no more suitable opportunity than this in the current situation.

But it is indeed possible, and the probability is very high.

Her father is now saying harsh words one after another. The harsher he says, the less likely he will be to turn back in the future.

This child and his eldest mother are destined to be together.

Now that Li Xiang has revived the idea, the aunt thought at first, I just want to adopt, so why don’t I choose a male baby?

Where can I find such a girl who can not only gain fame and earn sympathy, but also care about face and face?

If it hadn't been for the right time, place, people and people, he wouldn't have said this reminder.

And Li wanted to mention this not just to give the child a place to go.

Therefore, when everyone persuaded Xu Damao to leave a way for his children to survive, it was really not an alarmist statement.

No one may want a well-behaved girl, let alone a child like this.

Auntie is one of the few adults she can accept, and sometimes she can give him a face-saving smile.

Even if he wants to let go and turn around in the future, he still has to wait and see whether the witnesses present will give him a chance.

Xu Damao's daughter is a highly sensitive child, and there are few people in the courtyard who can hold her without crying.

What happened to her biological mother, judging from Xu Damao's behavior, there was basically no way out.

Although the neighbors don't know much about the specific situation, everyone at least understands one thing.

Li Xiang was still talking to the eldest mother about the benefits of adoption: "As for those who didn't tell me in advance, you and the eldest father are rich. Just because your family is so wealthy, this child will grow up. You don’t have to marry outside.”

Now the aunt and uncle are getting older, and in the next few years they only want to find someone to take care of themselves in the hospital.

That's why the aunt reminded Li Xiang in surprise that this was a female doll.

It is precisely because this child is highly sensitive and loves to cry and be noisy.

It has to be said that every item Li Xiang listed for Auntie spoke to her heart.

Especially the last one about not marrying outside, it seems that the difference between choosing a man and a woman is really not that big.

Yes, since the main labor force that takes care of the elderly is women.

Then why not choose a girl from the beginning and take good care of her. In this way, the aunt who was moved by the words stood up bravely when the uncle was ridiculed by Xu Damao.

The procedures for adopting a child are really not a hassle these days.

Especially in this situation where one is willing to fight and the other is willing to suffer.

Both parties will explain to the neighborhood committee and then ask an intermediary to prove it.

In less than a cup of tea, the Xu family girl became a member of the Yi family's household registration book.

The uncle held the limp baby in his arms, showing a rare expression of dullness.

His expression was stiff, and his hands, which were extremely stable after having made so many precision parts, were actually trembling slightly if you looked closely at them.

This shaking frequency made the little baby, who was sleeping soundly, start to frown.

With his eyes closed, his little facial features showed a helpless expression that looked like he was crying but not crying. What he saw was that he was uncomfortable being held and was about to use his energy.

"Are you okay? If not, let me hold you."

The mother's strong nature is not only reflected in the biological mother, but the eldest mother, the newly appointed adoptive mother, is adapting to her new identity as quickly as possible, and she even rarely scolds the eldest father.

"We are having a baby now. I feel like I am dreaming." The elder couldn't wait to let the newly born daughter into the arms of the eldest mother.

Everything was too sudden. From the time he agreed to the acceptance, he was led by his mother all the time.

Until now, everything had become an established fact, but he felt that his feet were still floating in the air, and he did not feel at all grounded.

"I'm not going to tell you anymore. It's not a loss for us to raise this child." After the eldest mother took the child, she patted it carefully, and the child's expression quickly calmed down.

"I know, but I suddenly became a father out of thin air. I feel uncomfortable everywhere. This daughter is much younger than Xiaoyong from the He family." The first uncle rubbed his hand on his head. It's hard to judge the expression on his face.

How old is he? It’s time for the little ones in the courtyard to call him grandpa.

Suddenly the youngest one appeared and wanted to call his daddy.

Don't blame me, I can't even stand or sit now.

"Otherwise, let's change the seniority in the household registration book, and let the children call them grandma from now on." The first uncle looked at the first aunt carefully and whispered suggestions.

"No way, I am happy for the child to call me mom. If you are willing to distract me for a lifetime, you can explain why to your daughter in the future." The eldest mother leaned to the side and replied angrily.

The eldest mother had different thoughts from the eldest father. She had never been a mother in her life, and finally had the opportunity to be called mother. She was not willing to give up this right just to make herself look good.

The elder wanted to persuade him again, but was interrupted by a greeting from outside.

"Master, aunt, you are at home." Mother Li led Li Xiang in, carrying a basket.

As soon as the person came in, Li Xiang put the basket on the table.

The actual weight of the basket filled with things made a dull "thunk" when it came into contact with the table.

The uncle and aunt looked at what was exposed inside, and felt a little moved in their hearts.

"This is too expensive." The eldest mother said gratefully.

The elder was even more embarrassed to take advantage of this and wanted to give them money.

It was impossible for the Li family to accept money. Mother Li looked unhappy and replied:

"It's for children, not for you. Stop being so polite here."

(End of this chapter)