Who can fall in love if he can cultivate immortality?

Chapter 114 What kind of partner to choose for marriage?

strictly speaking:

In this relationship, Hong Liang was also at fault.

It was his endless "tolerance" and "tolerance" that developed Du Yan's character of pressing forward step by step in relationships.

Why does everyone bully honest people?
It's because honest people won't resist.

This is just like some parents who think they give all the best things to their children.However, children are unable to resist when they are young. As they grow older, they begin to resist, and they become "rebellious" in the eyes of their parents.

In fact, many principles are interoperable in reality.

This kind of 'love' is enough to make people suffocate.But many people are suffering from this kind of 'love'.

"If you could have said those words a few years ago, the relationship between you two would not have developed to the point where it is today. There are many things between lovers that need to be disclosed frankly. A relationship that only relies on one party's tolerance and withdrawal will not go far."

Gu Yuan seriously evaluated the relationship between the two.

But looking at Hong Liang who let out a long sigh, he suddenly understood.

perhaps.

This is a common problem of 'Chinese men'. They will silently bear some hardships in family and life by themselves, and rarely reveal it to outsiders until they can no longer bear it.

So, over time, it became a matter of course.

"Study...Senior is very insightful." Hong Liang said with a smile. After knowing that Gu Yuan was a high school student, the word 'senior' always felt a bit awkward.

Now that they were all here and watching the breakup drama, Gu Yuan had no intention of going back immediately. Instead, he took a small horse and sat in the yard.It was rare that it didn't rain today, but the sun came out, and there was no wind at all. It was warm sitting in the yard.

There is also a wintersweet tree planted in the center of the courtyard. There are many buds on the branches, and a few have even bloomed, giving off a refreshing fragrance.

"Actually, if you stop her today, the relationship between the two of you can continue, and she may be able to change for you." Gu Yuan flicked the cigarette ashes and continued to be a close brother, "I can see that Du Yan sincerely apologized today .”

Of course, if he wasn't sincere, he wouldn't let the other person leave so easily.

A small spell was enough to make her unforgettable forever.

"Women rarely admit their mistakes in this life. The only time they admit their mistakes is that they were blind and found the wrong husband. The rest of the time, they will look for opportunities to pour dirty water on others."

"Sometimes it is said that marriage is a woman's second life, and I think it is also a man's second life. As the saying goes, marrying a poor wife will bring disaster to three generations. Good women can cheer up men, and bad women can make trouble. The family is restless."

"It's just that people are all animals. We all disguise ourselves and cannot recognize each other, so we will regret it after we get married..."

When this topic comes up, Gu Yuan can't stop talking.

Wang Daming also moved a horse over.

He likes to listen to Gu Yuan bragging very much. He is not only a talented person, but he also speaks well.He was often able to hit the nail on the head and point directly to the truth of the incident. He didn't know how this high school student, who had never stepped into society, had such a sharp vision.

The originally loud mood was still a little low.

But Gu Yuan's unique point of view really interested him, and he couldn't help but ask: "Then how can you tell the other person's disguise?"

"That's a good question, because men and women in love will unconsciously put on a filter when looking at each other, so they will subconsciously ignore many details. And sometimes, they won't listen to other people's suggestions."

Gu Yuan looked at the two people:

"If conditions permit, we will live together; if not, we will travel."

Wang Daming agreed with this point of view and also talked about an example he knew.

"In the student union of my department in the past two terms, there was a couple. The senior was the vice-president, and the senior was the radio station manager. It is said that the two have been in love since high school. I don't know how many people thought that they would get married on campus. "

"As a result, the two moved in together in the second semester of their senior year, and broke up within three months."

Hong Liang seemed stunned that he had heard about this matter, but he never knew the reason.

"I also asked him why, and he told me that the senior sister looked glamorous on the outside, but was actually extremely lazy. She had never cleaned the house, and the dishes after eating were piled in the sink, waiting for him to go back and wash the clothes. There are piles and piles, and they are thrown on the bed after wearing them. I can change several sets of clothes a day.

"Often he has tidied it up before, but in the blink of an eye it becomes a mess again. The dirty mice in the house will vomit if they get in."

Although this is not his personal experience, Wang Daming still feels his scalp numb when he talks about it:
"After the breakup, when he cleaned up the sink, he found that half of the bowl of leftover ribs was already infested with maggots. He was disgusted for half a month."

Gu Yuan couldn't help but raise his eyebrows.

He has heard a lot of this kind of thing, some even more exaggerated than this.

"So what's going on with the tour?" Hong Liang asked. "Because in love, daily necessities are rarely involved, but once you enter life, the problems of both parties will become prominent. The same is true for traveling. Whether it is taking a bus, eating, visiting scenic spots, or staying in a hotel, everything needs to be done in a short time. Intensive decisions.”

Gu Yuan picked up the topic and continued:

"During these decisions, it is easy to have disagreements. If the stronger party makes all the decisions without considering the other party, it will affect the weaker party's subsequent travel experience. Therefore, whether it is suitable to enter into marriage together, You can feel it when you go on a trip.”

Wang Daming was dumbfounded when he heard it. After a while, he laughed and said: "It's so damn complicated. Falling in love and getting married are just like fighting. If you don't read "Sun Tzu's Art of War" well, you really won't dare to get married in the future."

Hong Liang felt the same way.

In fact, for students of their age, interpersonal relationships are not too complicated.

If you can talk, get along more.If we can't talk, we'll just fall out.

They have not yet learned to understand the pros and cons of adulthood.

"Actually, it's not complicated." At this time, Gu Yuan leisurely added, "The best marriage is a two-way relationship. You like the person and the other person likes you, because after marriage, you can consider the other person in everything."

"Secondly, find someone who likes you, because the other person can think about you. At least your life after marriage will not be too miserable."

Wang Daming patted his head and said: "I know the third one, is it to find someone you like..."

"That's the fourth one."

Gu Yuan glanced at him and chuckled: "The third one is when two people get married without any emotional foundation, such as a blind date. Because the relationship is not deep, when the other party tosses you, you can also torment the other party. .”

"As for finding a partner you like to get married, that is the worst. Because you are reluctant to end the marriage, you can only endure the endless pain brought by the marriage. For the general public, the first type of marriage is really too rare. . Only a few people have the second type...the most common ones are the third type."

Having said this, Gu Yuan threw away the cigarette butt, patted his butt and stood up:
"After the chatter, let me come in for the meeting. Come with me, and even if you don't get the first kind of marriage, you can still enjoy the second kind."

Only then did the two of them realize the purpose of Gu Yuan's words.

but.

The four marriage models Gu Yuan just mentioned made them look forward to the future.

"I looked at the data and found that the traffic was very successful and the website activity was quite high. But this is not enough. This is the next development plan for the website."

In the living room that was originally a kitchen, Gu Yuan took out a stack of plans that he tore out from a composition book.

One is a 'game plan' and the other is a 'podcast plan'.

The game plan was written densely and in detail.

Basically, it is to select a few popular games and then organize a competition. A series of regulations are listed from auditions, preliminary rounds, round-robin rounds, semi-finals, resurrection rounds, etc.

As for the other 'podcast plan', the two of them were a little confused because it only had these four words.

"Senior, the 'game plan' is easy to understand. Every game is scheduled on Saturdays and Sundays. This is to increase the stickiness of users. After they finish playing the game, they can find their favorite games. As time goes by, even if If there is no competition in the future, they will habitually look for videos on the website to watch."

After Wang Daming carefully read the two plans, he had more or less analytical skills as a website manager for so long, so he quickly understood the purpose of the first plan and explained it to Hong Liang.

But when faced with the second plan, he didn't understand:
"But what is the 'Podcast Plan'? Is it a plan like Tudou or Youku?"

Podcast is the later UP host.

The first one to come up with it was Youku, but it was promoted by Tudou. At this time, the most popular podcast on Tudou was "Yi Xiaoxing" from the wretched cult of Maopu, and his spoof videos are equivalent to later generations to a certain extent. Ghost beast.

However, for Tudou's senior executives, such videos are difficult to achieve in a dignified manner.

So even though the spoof video of "Calling Beast Yi Xiaoxing" became popular all over the Internet, he was not able to win the Best Podcast of the Year. Instead, he turned around and awarded the Best Podcast Award to several game commentators.

From this we can also see the short-sightedness of Tudou’s top management.

Because this type of video is a huge supplement to the website, but the senior management personally suppresses it, which means that the development of this type of video is restricted to some extent.Later, many people believed that the decline of Tudou and Youku was due to excessive blood sucking by Ali.

In fact, hidden dangers have been laid since 07, which is why Station B has the opportunity to rise.

Because not everyone is interested in TV series, anime, movies, and games.

However, of course Gu Yuan would not tell Wang Daming in such detail, "It's almost the same, but most of the videos uploaded by Tudou's podcast are game commentary types, but this type is really lacking, so we need this type of video Make some additions.”

"In addition to games, it can also be developed from music, movies, and animation, giving people a refreshing feeling."

(End of this chapter)