Who can fall in love if he can cultivate immortality?

Chapter 385 Parents (two in one)

According to the rules, if an unmarried girl goes to her husband's house to celebrate the New Year, she will have a bad reputation, so Lao Gu is still a little hesitant.

However, Yuan Xin's attitude was quite obvious: "What's not nice? To put it bluntly, it's not because they were afraid that the relationship between the two parties would be discordant, so they couldn't get together in the end. And there is no one else in Xiaoye's family. It would be pitiful for her to celebrate the New Year alone." ah!"

Lao Gu wanted to say more.

Yuan Yin directly threw out the big killer:
"Let me ask you, do you recognize this daughter-in-law?"

"recognize."

"Then it's settled."

Yuan Yin said directly.

but.

It's one thing for the old couple to decide privately. Next, it depends on whether Ye Wenjun is willing. Yuan Xin also reminded Gu Yuan, "When you ask, please be tactful. If she is not willing, forget it."

"I've hung up your coat for you, and folded your autumn clothes and trousers, and put them on the first layer. Because there will be a period of cold air coming, and you can wear them when it's cold. Still. I’ve washed your slippers, but they haven’t been dried yet.”

What is the mouth used for? It is not bought with a loan. Many misunderstandings in life are caused by poor communication. If you really talk openly, there won't be so many misunderstandings.

At the wedding, Gu Yuan knew that the two of them would divorce sooner or later, but it was already done and they already had children, not to mention it was at someone else's wedding, so Gu Yuan didn't say anything, and he didn't expect to get divorced this morning.

This situation is only limited to people with good relationships. As for the bad relationship, there is no need to worry about conflicts, who cares.

"Everything has been put away and put in the box." Ye Wenjun walked to the corner of the room and patted it gently with his hand. The box has not been closed yet, the clothes inside are neatly folded, and brightly colored underwear can still be seen.

"Oh!"

For example, the personality of the man's family is so weird that the other four brothers and sisters have long been unwilling to interact with the man's family, even during the Chinese New Year. Not only that, even his colleagues are unwilling to have anything to do with him...

Yuan Xin felt that Gu Yuan's attitude was too casual, so she brought Gu Yuan over and scolded him, "It was because of the quarrel about visiting relatives during the New Year that both parents got into trouble. Later, the boy actually said it in front of both parents. I went under the knife and went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to get divorced this morning.”

"Don't worry, the three girls in your family got divorced yesterday."

"I'm going to the station tomorrow morning. You don't have to give me a ride. I can go by myself. Take bus No. 6 first, then transfer to bus No. 7 to get to the bus station. I've also prepared water and snacks. You don't have to worry. I'll keep giving them to you on the way. You send a message and I’ll call you back when I get home.”

Maybe I have experienced more.

So Gu Yuan has an attitude towards many things:

'I don't know if my mother did it on purpose. When Ye Wenjun came, she didn't even take my clothes. '

Gu Yuan continued:
"My parents both hope you can stay for the New Year."

Ye Wenjun listened and looked at Gu Yuan blankly, not knowing what to say next.

The reason for the complete falling out was because the man did not go out with his relatives during the Chinese New Year, nor did he allow the woman to interact with her relatives.

Gu Yuanxin said, I know as much as you do.

"You won't go back for the New Year, how about staying here?"

"Of course I hope so too!"

It seemed that she didn't want Gu Yuan to make an extra trip to see her off, so she spoke in quite detail.

Because this matter is a family scandal of the three majors.

Gu Yuan felt that his mother was too cautious, "I understand."

"What about you?"

Yuan Xing was talking about Lao Gu, the sworn brother who ran a kindergarten, and the one whose mother-in-law brought abortion pills to propose marriage.

Obviously.

of course.

Gu Yuan was thinking in his heart, but said:
"Where are your clothes?"

The three families had always kept it a secret. Later, after the couple divorced, and three to five years later, they gradually revealed the affairs of the couple in their marriage during daily chats.

Ye Wenjun said nothing, not knowing what he was thinking. Sitting on the edge of the bed, he lowered his head and folded the remaining clothes. Then he looked at Gu Yuan secretly and found that the other person was looking at him. His cheeks were suddenly stained with a layer of crimson, and he finally asked in a low voice:

Gu Yuan interrupted her directly.

She is already preparing for what will happen when she returns home.

Don't hide it.

"But if you want to go back, that's okay. They respect your opinion, including me. If you want to go back, I will drive you."

"Why aren't you surprised at all?" Yuan Xin was a little stunned.

In the bedroom, Ye Wenjun was sorting out his clothes. The weather has been good these days, and the clothes I washed at night will dry in a day. Ye Wenjun was picking out pairs of Gu Yuan's socks, making them into a pair, and then folding them up.

Gu Yuan nodded.

"This grid contains shorts..."

Another example is that the man’s monthly salary is handed over to his parents for safekeeping...

After folding the socks and putting them in the drawer, Ye Wenjun opened the wardrobe again:

It was obviously boring, but Ye Wenjun seemed to enjoy it, as if he was having fun.

If there is a conflict, resolve it. If there is a problem, solve it.

Ye Wenjun nodded softly:
"Then I'll stay."

……

Knowing that Ye Wenjun was staying for the New Year, the old couple was naturally extremely happy.

but.

Uncle Ye Wenjun must be informed about this matter. Don't use bean bags as dry food, after all, they are guardians. Moreover, Lao Gu also felt that calling the other party might not be polite enough, so he took Gu Yuan and Ye Wenjun to the door.

This is Lao Gu's usual approach.

He has always been a showman.

And this behavior also definitely affected Gu Yuan.

They prepared cigarettes and alcohol overnight, and drove out early in the morning with Gu Yuan and Ye Wenjun.

Departed at 6:30 in the morning and arrived at 11:00.

The person opposite also knew that Lao Gu was coming, so he prepared a large table of hard food early to kill the chickens and geese. Not only did he clean the house inside and outside, he even painted the tiles outside the courtyard to a shiny finish. He was even planning to call a large group of relatives to come over and drink with him: in rural areas, the more people who drink with him, the more he pays attention to the guests. However, after Lao Gu found out, he still kept the matter down, saying that it was just a simple family banquet, it didn't need to be too grand, and it would disturb too many people, so there was no need to cause trouble to others.

When a group of three people, carrying large and small bags, were welcomed into the door by Uncle Ye Wenjun, they discovered that a red carpet had been laid out at the entrance of the courtyard, extending to twenty meters away.

"Crack!"

After entering the door, her uncle even lit a firecracker and welcomed Lao Gu in the door amidst the sound of firecrackers.

"This is the sedan chair that everyone is carrying."

Mr. Lao Gu likes to educate Gu Yuan with practical things. When he saw this scene, he immediately started preaching:
"We respect each other, and the other side will respect us. Even if others do something wrong, we have to be ourselves. You young people may find etiquette troublesome, but this is actually a way to protect yourself."

"Because the etiquette is not enough, it is easy to get other people's blame. If we do it well, others will not be able to accuse us. Although it seems troublesome now, it will be a lot less troublesome in the future."

"Of course, if the other person repeatedly disrespects you, you have to stay away from this kind of person. Because the other person doesn't buy your account at all, there is no need for you to warm your face and stick to your cold butt. In short, in one sentence, how to treat people Me, how I treat people.”

Gu Yuan smiled and said, "I remember you told me this when you were in high school."

"Different ages will have different perspectives and feelings on one thing."

Lao Gu smiled and said, "Don't bother me. The times have changed so fast, and the experience we had back then is no longer useful. And you are already much higher than me in terms of academic qualifications, so there is only so much I can teach you. It’s just a matter of human relations, and in fact I won’t be able to teach you for many years.”

After hearing this, Gu Yuan couldn't help but glance at Lao Gu. At nearly fifty years old, he is indeed no longer young, and there are some wrinkles at the corners of his eyes. Although she looks very energetic with short hair, she can't hide a few gray hairs.

Perhaps because he was carrying too much cargo, his originally straight waist was also bent. There is an obvious scar on the finger on the right hand that is holding the wine, and the nail on the thumb is also an abnormal color, because it was smashed by a hanging hammer on the shelf.

"dad!"

Gu Yuan's throat was a little dry and he didn't know what to say. Finally, he patted Lao Gu on the shoulder:

"I have never embarrassed you outside."

of course.

Gu Yuan doesn't need to emphasize this, because it can be seen from the politeness of Uncle Ye Wenjun's family.

When Lao Gu arrived, the other party brought tea, water, and cigarettes. In front of Lao Gu, he praised the two children to the sky:
"Gu Yuan, this kid, is not only sensible, but also capable. I feel confident leaving Ye Wenjun in his hands."

After chatting for a while, they started to prepare for dinner.

of course.

Today’s protagonist is Lao Gu.

With me here, my son naturally doesn't need to drink anymore. There was a lot of excitement on the table as cups were exchanged.

Lao Gu can drink to the limit of eight ounces, and he is particularly easy on the face. He will turn red after just one glass of beer. He did not refuse the other party's toast, and did not forget to return the toast. Shengsheng drank a pound at noon today. After finishing the wine, he hugged the teacup, sat on the armchair and basked in the sun and fell asleep.

Although Uncle Ye Wenjun was also drunk and could not speak clearly, he was happy to see him.

What I fear the most about drinking is the kind of alcoholic lunatic who makes a fool of himself after drinking too much, talks nonsense, babbles, smashes pots and bowls, and even treats people as brothers and sisters regardless of seniority. You know the nature of such a person as soon as you see him.

It's a pity that Uncle Ye Wenjun never got Gu Yuan drunk in the past few years, so he didn't know the taste of Gu Yuan's wine. It was only through Gu Yuan that he kept running for several years that he finally felt relieved.

Now I see Lao Gu drinking too much and not talking but sleeping. This kind of wine is good, and his character is definitely not much different. Even if Ye Wenjun gets married in the future, he will not be bullied by his father-in-law and mother-in-law.

Because I have to go home at night and the drive is long.

So her uncle had dinner at 3:30 in the afternoon. Even so, it was almost 10:30 when he got home.

"It really doesn't work. Just make a phone call to inform him. Why do you have to go there in person and drink so much wine?" Although Yuan Zhen initially agreed with Lao Gu to inform Lao Gu in person, but looking at Lao Gu who smelled of alcohol, I couldn't help but complain in distress.

"This is etiquette." Lao Gu was leaning on the bed. He had sobered up from the wine, but his head was still a little groggy. "To compare with others, if my son goes to other people's homes in the future, I also hope that others will consider me. handle it seriously."

Yuan Xing knew that what her husband said was correct. The family's business was nothing among the thousands of merchants in the market. Regardless of what others did or thought behind their backs, there were quite a few who were willing to sell face.

"and."

Lao Gu paused and looked outside the door again.

The couple have been married for twenty or thirty years, and the old couple has already achieved a heart-to-heart connection. They know each other's thoughts and plans with every look and movement. Yuan Xin knew that what Lao Gu said next was all about the couple, so how could the child hear it?

So I turned around and closed the bedroom door.

When Lao Gu saw it, he continued:
"Many little things can become reasons for couples to quarrel."

"If they mention this matter after they get married, Xiaoye will only think that our family values ​​her, and will not say that we don't take her seriously."

Yuan Xin nodded. Of course she knew that newlyweds often quarreled. When they quarreled, all the old memories came out. For example: when I went to your house that year, your mother was not enthusiastic enough; the first time I went to your house, your family didn’t even give you a red envelope;

Maybe you didn't understand it at the time, but you will feel dissatisfied when you understand these rules in the future.

After hearing this, Yuan Xin changed her tone of voice and couldn't help complaining: "Then you drank too much."

"I've already drank the wine, so there's no need to say anything more."

Lao Gu waved his hand.

When Yuan Xin saw this, she didn't say anything else. She made a cup of strong tea and poured some water for washing her feet. Lao Gu soaked his feet and suddenly laughed twice.

"Why are you laughing for no reason?"

Yuan Xin also took off her socks, and the old couple faced each other and soaked their feet.

Lao Gu stretched out his hand and gestured, "I still remember that when we didn't go to the city to do business, Gu Yuan was only three or four years old."

"Huh? How can you talk about this matter so quietly?" Yuan Xin asked.

"I just suddenly had the feeling that so many years have passed in the blink of an eye. Maybe in a few years, I will become a grandfather."

Lao Gu grinned.

"I still remember when he was a child, I took him to town on a bicycle and put him on the back seat of the bicycle. When he couldn't pedal when he encountered an uphill slope, he stood up and pedaled hard. The little guy sat behind and took pictures. Start and say that dad is so awesome that he can actually stand up and ride a bike.”

"When I drank too much today, all I could think of was the image of him clapping his hands, and I would still remember the image of him walking down the street with him on my shoulders." Old Gu took a sip of tea, "It's a pity that when he gets there, I couldn’t carry it anymore in elementary school.”

"Later on, I stopped caring about him when doing business, and never hugged him again. By the time I realized what was happening, he was already past the age where he needed to be hugged by me."

"Yes!"

Hearing what Lao Gu said, Yuan Xin couldn't help but blush, as if he was remembering what happened when he was young:

"I still remember that time when Gu Yuan didn't learn to speak."

"In the summer, I took him to town to sell popsicles and put him on the back seat of my bicycle. He just sat there and watched obediently, without making any noise or fuss. Whenever I teased him, he would giggle. Clap your hands happily."

"Later, an aunt said to me: Girl, your son's skin has peeled from the sun. Can't he stay in the shade? When he lay in bed at night and cried, I felt really bad. Now in the blink of an eye, he is gone. He’s almost 21, and he’s taller than me when he stands.”

(End of this chapter)