I'm so old, I need to rely on my ex-girlfriends to turn around.

Chapter 54: Learn to be the bad guy yourself
Not only Shen Huai wants to know the answer, the audience is also extremely confused and puzzled.

No matter how she looked at it, she shouldn't have chosen Shen Huai as her favorite guest!
Looking at the bright-eyed and high-spirited Shen Huai, Chen Wangshu smiled and said, "Then I'll have to wait until this date is over before I decide whether to tell you or not!"

"Actually, it doesn't matter whether you say it or not!"

Shen Huai didn't pay too much attention, shrugged and said: "After all, with my character and appearance, it's not surprising for anyone to like me."

Chen Wangshu was silent for a moment, sighed softly and said, "Let's explain it then..."

This sigh was so quintessential that the audience enjoyed it.

[Huaizi is so thick-skinned that he is bulletproof! 】

[It seems there is a hidden secret. I knew it wouldn't be that simple. 】

[Chen Wangshu is helpless. Is it because of Shen Huai's coercion? 】

[Hey, I think I've seen this anime... Let's not talk about it for now. I'm going to turn on the computer. 】

……

The two chatted and waited for the food to be served in the restaurant.

Shen Huai also took this opportunity to look at Chen Wangshu carefully.

The standard duck oval face is white and smooth, the smart eyes are as bright as autumn water, the bridge of the nose is high, and the red lips are not too big or too small and must be very comfortable to hold.

When smiling, the eyes look like eyebrows, the corners of the lips are curved, and when not smiling, they also look like smiling. In addition, they have a slim and graceful figure, an elegant and noble temperament, and a gentle and generous manner...

No wonder some people use the words "qiaoxiaqianxi, beautiful eyes to look forward to" to describe her.

Chen Wangshu glanced at Shen Huai and asked softly: "I understand what you just meant by asking others to reflect and find their own reasons.

Do you want to express that you must affirm your self-worth, don’t belittle yourself, and have the courage to question others, right? "

Shen Huai laughed and said, "It's not that complicated. Just don't wrong yourself and pass the blame to others."

This too straightforward explanation left Chen Wangshu speechless.

There are also all kinds of happy complaints on the barrage.

[Huaizi is very upright, can you say this casually on the show? 】

[Haha, I'm going to be laughed to death, Chen Wangshu's expression is so funny. 】

[Shen Huai is a bit of a scumbag, but at least he doesn’t pretend, so I give him a thumbs up for that. 】

[I agree with this. Although it is a bit selfish, I feel very happy inside! 】

After a moment of silence, Chen Wangshu asked softly: "Then under what circumstances do you think you would choose to take the blame yourself?"

Everyone was a little confused about Chen Wangshu's question.

If the blame could be shied away, ordinary people would not choose to take the blame themselves, let alone Shen Huai, a sweet-tempered person.

Unless the other person is someone she deeply loves or a relative, is this what she wants to express?

Shen Huai pondered for a moment and chuckled: "This situation is relatively rare.

As the saying goes, if a person does not serve himself, he will be punished by heaven and earth. Selfish human nature determines that everyone's thoughts and actions will subconsciously benefit themselves.

So the blame can be thrown away, and we don't care who likes to carry it.

However, at certain times, such as when we ask for something from others, we must learn to take the blame ourselves! "

"What's going on?" Chen Wangshu looked at Shen Huai intently, and his posture of listening quietly could easily arouse others' desire to talk.

Shen Huai pondered for a moment and said softly: "Do you still remember the defibrillator incident in March this year?

At that time, an old man suffered from asthma. After his family called 120, they found that there were ambulances nearby to pick up other patients!
So the family asked to borrow the defibrillator, but the doctor refused because it stipulated that it could not be borrowed.

After the video came out, the doctor was verbally criticized and finally suspended..." "Yeah, I know! "Chen Wangshu nodded and responded.

This incident made a big fuss at first and even became a hot search topic.

Almost every netizen was filled with indignation and denounced the doctor's cold-bloodedness.

It was clear that as long as the defibrillator was lent, the old man could be saved, but he stuck to the rules and did not know how to adapt, which eventually led to the old man's death.

But this matter has nothing to do with what Shen Huai said about learning to take the blame!

When the audience heard Shen Huai mention this matter, they still felt angry and their chests were clogged.

A living life cannot match the rigid rules, which is indeed a bit confusing.

Shen Huai smiled and shook his head, his expression a little meaningful: "Emotionally speaking, this doctor is indeed not humane enough, has no humanistic care, and is too cold.

But legally speaking, he was not at fault. He just abided by the hospital's rules and regulations and had no direct responsibility..."

Chen Wangshu frowned and was about to speak, but was interrupted by Shen Huai.

"I'm not excusing the doctor, but if a patient in the car has an accident after borrowing it, who will bear the responsibility?

Or if the defibrillator was loaned out and failed to revive the asthmatic old man, would his family depend on him?

These were the reasons for his final rejection.

Even though the ambulance was parked there and not leaving, family members and passers-by kept asking if they could borrow a defibrillator.

But haven’t you ever thought about why the ambulance didn’t leave?

If you don't act like the bad guy first and get it, why don't you wait for others to break the rules and take unnecessary responsibilities to help you? "

As soon as he finished speaking, the audience in front of the screen was stunned for an instant!
Yes, you can obviously be the bad guy and get it yourself, so why should the doctor bear such a heavy responsibility?

In fact, it’s not that he doesn’t want to help, maybe he needs this job, maybe he’s afraid of taking responsibility for something going wrong, maybe he’s out of various scruples...

But as a family member, you can, and even need to, shoulder this responsibility!
[Yes, human life is at stake, just go and get it at this time! 】

[Why didn’t I think of that? Isn’t this another kind of rigid following of rules? 】

[Huaizi still has something, friends who have watched the live broadcast know it! 】

[I’m convinced, I feel like I’m enlightened! 】

[I am the front desk of a hotel, and there are always people coming to the hotel to catch people. According to the regulations, the room number cannot be revealed, but you can come in and take a look yourself, and we will not stop you. After all, everyone wants to watch the excitement and gossip... …]

[Shit, I’ve learned it, I’ve learned it. I said that the last time the bank applied for a credit loan, the loan officer kept asking me for a business license. I asked if I had a business license. He said you can have it... It turned out that he asked me to get a fake one and give it to him. Him! 】

【wipe!I'm enlightened! 】

Chen Wangshu was stunned when he heard this, and then showed an expression of admiration and admiration: "Awesome, your angle is indeed thought-provoking!"

"Actually, these are all obvious truths, but we didn't think deeply about it!" Shen Huai looked calm and pretended to be cool.

You don't have it, but I do!
"Well, what you said makes sense!"

Chen Wangshu pondered for a moment, nodded and said: "People rarely discover their ignorance because they are immersed in a highly homogeneous environment, where their beliefs are constantly self-proven and strengthened, and there are few contradictory voices... "

Shen Huai also didn't expect Chen Wangshu to say such words, and he suddenly felt emotional.

Many times, the reason why he is able to understand the essence of many things is because of the huge memories from dreams.

And Chen Wangshu, when he was only in his twenties, was able to have such an understanding of life, it is indeed amazing!

　Please read it, it is very important, it is related to whether it can be recommended in the fourth round of recommendation and Sanjiang recommendation~ The more profound connection is the final score of this book.

　　I hope all brothers and sisters will spend a little time reading the chapters next Monday and next Tuesday~
　　Fengqing thanks you~I love you~
　　


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