The sweet mourning beauty and the King of Hell are killing each other like crazy in the world

Chapter 248: The watershed in life at the age of 35.

"Yeah, I understand." I nodded as if I understood, but I just didn't want Gu Yichen to continue explaining.

But he still told me, "There is a more important point. If you have a stable job, there will be no watershed in your life at the age of 35."

"Is there any other way to say this?" Since he wanted to say it, I could only cooperate.

Gu Yichen picked up another bun and said to me with a smile, "This bun is a little salty, but it's okay to drink more soy milk."

I said to myself, you should eat quickly, it will be almost nine o'clock later.

No matter how much I delay, I can't delay my little aunt's cleaning.

Anyway, I'll set off at nine-ten. If Gu Yichen can't go, I'll ask Hu Yanzu to go with me.

I still owe Hu Yanzu a meal.

To be honest, he himself has not lived to be 35 years old, but now he wants to tell me about being 35 years old.

I really can't say.

He really didn't think he was a better dad.

"The age of 35 is a watershed for most people in the world, and it is also a time point that truly determines how you will live in this life."

"Some people, between the ages of 25 and 35, are very tired from work, and they are still doing nothing. They can't do anything, and they don't have anything left after eating. There is another characteristic of this group of people. In the stage before the age of 25, Among them, it’s actually pretty good.”

"In the next ten years or so, after trying again and again and falling down again and again, they will often make a big turn around when they are around 35 years old, and then live a smooth life from then on. "

"There is another group that has just entered society. It is a bit difficult at the beginning, but in the next ten years, there will be a steady improvement every one or two years. However, this group of people is around 35 years old. , there will be a huge change, and it will go down step by step.”

"The reason why this phenomenon occurs is because everyone has their own moments of arrogance, and arrogance is often a sign that people will fall into trouble."

"The reason why the stage between 25 and 35 is difficult for the first type of people is because they become arrogant too early. They may even be born with an arrogant character. When they are in their 20s, they think they can do anything. , it was extremely swollen, and then it was beaten by the society for ten years. It started to become calm and low-key, abide by the rules of society, and then it changed and became better and better. It is not that people around the age of 35 will wake up at all, but they are purely influenced by reality. He was beaten to death."

"The second type of people, most of them will be very humble and stable at the beginning. They just caught up with the dividends of the development of the times, and they were calm at the beginning. In the rapid development of this industry, they have also received good benefits. During the development stage, people in the real estate and Internet industries have cultivated their inner arrogance. In the past two decades, this industry has developed rapidly and expanded rapidly, and a large number of directors, general managers, etc. have emerged. Waiting for a job that looks scary.”

"But people often mistakenly regard platforms as their own personal abilities."

"The rules of this world have been formulated. Many positions are nothing more than a link in this rule. Everyone in these links, whether their personal ability is high or low, actually does not have a great impact on the actual system. ”

"So, it is not the corporate management system that helps make the company bigger, but the process."

"If you had a hard time before the age of 35, then all you need to do is actually sum up all your failed experiences and wait for the turning point to come."

"And if you have been rising steadily before the age of 35, then the most important thing you need to do is to keep your tail between your legs."

“Nothing in this world is absolute except change.”

"Even the most powerful civilization in history will decline at some point, let alone a weak person."

"If a raindrop of the times falls on everyone, it may be a tsunami." I calmly pulled Gu Yichen's sleeves, "Brother Yichen, are the buns getting cold?"

I'm really afraid that he won't finish talking.

Not only was Gu Yichen not angry, but he smiled and ate the buns.

Seeing him eating happily, I felt a little sad, "But you haven't lived to be 35 years old. With my level of hardship, I'm afraid I can't live to be 35 years old."

Gu Yichen kissed me.

I go, it smells like anise.

Although I also ate this, the taste came from Gu Yichen's mouth, which somewhat affected his appearance.

I took a tissue and wiped my mouth.

Was seen by him.

"You dislike me?" He felt aggrieved, but still said, "Then you have to listen to what I have to say."

"Say it, say it."

"Everyone is miserable without a doctor, and of course no one has a happy life. A person's life can be roughly divided into three stages."

"The characteristics of the time attributes governing these three stages are also different."

"If you had a difficult childhood, it may be because the attribute of time that governs your childhood is very unfavorable to you. But the attributes of time will change, and there are rules to follow. One attribute will not last a lifetime. "

"Among these five attributes, there will be at least one attribute that is relatively gentle to you, so the pain in your early years will gradually get better when time enters a stage that is extremely beneficial to you. , This is why many rich second generation families are in decline when they reach middle age, because the time attributes in their early years are extremely beneficial to them.”

"But the attributes of time will definitely change. Often when they reach middle age, they will change to an attribute that is extremely unfavorable to them."

"Some people are using their childhood to heal their whole life, and some people are using their whole life to heal your childhood."

"Of course it is undeniable that there are indeed a very small number of people who can do well throughout their lives."

"But the probability is extremely low. There are also very few people whose lives are full of suffering. The probability is also extremely low."

"For most people, as long as you seize the stage in your life that is beneficial to you, that will be great."

"But because you were still young in your early years, you didn't have much room to make choices, so in a sense, living too well in your early years is not a good thing."

Ah, I understand.

"You mean, I have suffered a lot since I was a child, but it will be fine when I grow up?" His words gave me hope.

There are chocolates that Gu Yichen put in the drawer on the counter.

He reached for a piece of chocolate, peeled it open and popped it into my mouth.