The sweet mourning beauty and the King of Hell are killing each other like crazy in the world

Chapter 345: Take a rest if you are not in good condition.

Luoyu Tingzen: "My child and I have the same birthday. Is that why it's not good?"

I pushed the phone to Gu Yichen again.

This time I moved the stool and sat next to Gu Yichen, watching him reply.

He replied:

Is it okay for children and parents to have the same birthday?

What do you want me to say?
There are good ones and there are bad ones. What are the reasons?
Because you were born in different years, your scripts may be completely different.
If you, hey, you may like summer and autumn, then you like both at the same time, then this is a coincidence, so don’t always regard this coincidence as either a very good thing or a very bad thing.

I think he is just a coincidence.

Just treat it as a coincidence.

Then look at it from another angle. On the same birthday, you can have double birthday cakes and double meals.

Oh, not a double meal. This may be a bit of a loss, but a double birthday cake will definitely be fun to eat, because I also love desserts.

Desserts really make people feel happy.

Luoyu Tingzen: "But my family, my mother-in-law, my sisters-in-law, my classmates and neighbors all say that it is very difficult to get into college now. Children work hard for a long time. After passing the exam, they still can't find a job after graduation. Graduate students still can't find a job." They are delivering food all over the street.”

Gu Yichen: "My son is your own, why do you have to listen to outsiders' nagging?"

He continued to reply: People like you are considered weak.

Why is it better for weak people to be alone?

Because these people are very sensitive and easily influenced by others.

If you are also easily influenced by the outside world, it will affect yourself.

If you want to become a good person, the first step is to screen people and stay away from environments that consume you. There was a girl named Xiaoxue who came to read the script before and she was such a person.

She was born in a wealthy family in the south. Her family owned several factories, but her parents were very powerful and did not approve of her in anything.

She will only recognize her brother and younger brother.

Ever since I was little, whenever I spent time with my parents, I would be careful about everything I did, for fear that I would do something wrong.

Her happiness, anger, sorrow, and joy are not actually determined by Xiaoxue herself, but by her parents and their parents' attitudes. The harder she tries to prove herself, the more she will get all kinds of belittlement.

Many people are asking, what should I do if the person who consumes me is my parents? What if it’s my child?
What if it’s my lover?
This environment is my family and the place where I work, so what should I do?
There are actually no standard answers to these questions.

In the game and in the journey of life, they persisted to the extreme in suffering, but they did not encounter the moment when fortune turned around.

It can be said that their mission in this life is to pay off debts and endure hardships.

But what about the other kind of person?
Quite the opposite.

Luo Yu Ting Chan: "But I feel that everything makes me feel bad. I really feel that I am very impatient every day and just want to lose my temper. My mood and body are not good."

Gu Yichen wrote:
Take a rest when you are not in good condition, and don’t always think about pushing yourself. Today's science is one-sided and only knows a little about the environment in which we live.

But everyone is a complex composition.

What we cannot deny is that the flash of a star hundreds of millions of light years away may affect the mentality of some people on the earth.

Even a glacier falling from the Arctic may affect some things.

Some of the emotional changes that occur in us may really be affected by things beyond our cognition.

Since this possibility exists, we should fight against it through our own efforts, just like little ants fight against the magnifying glass in the hands of children.
Based on what I have learned, I think the most important factor that affects your mood is time.

The relationship between calendars and celestial bodies is still very scientific, especially the Ganzhi calendar left by our ancestors, which is really interesting.

The characteristic of time is that we cannot affect its fluidity.
When you have negative emotions, it means that your ability to act, judge and execute has declined. At this time, take a proper rest.

Do whatever you like and let yourself relax.

Wait until the time comes to a stage that is beneficial to you, and then try your best.

There must be ups and downs in one's life.

Among those who speculate in stocks, those who are full of positions every day cannot make money.

Luoyu Tingzen: "I still have a question I would like to ask. Why do I dare to pat my chest and say filial piety to my parents, who are so busy with big and small things? Why not only do I not receive care and empathy, but I don't even have the most basic trust. I can’t figure it out.”

Gu Yichen: "Just do what you should do and don't ask for anything in return."

Luoyu Tingzen: "Master, are you asking me if I don't drink with my husband? Ever since I married him, I haven't been smooth with him, and of course he hasn't been smooth with him either. Are you asking me if we are against each other? That shouldn't be the case at all. together?"

Gu Yichen, "What if two people are unlucky after marriage? It's not because they are incompatible, but because they are about to get married and are unlucky enough to find each other. What's wrong with them? It's a match made in heaven."

"They fit together perfectly, a match made in heaven."

"Another one is that the invisible world determines the tangible world. Some people are not having a good life right now. Maybe they have too many invisible good friends. Then you interfere too much in their lives and help them make decisions. "

"That's a challenge with those invisible good friends,"

"Unconsciously, he will transfer some of it to you and share the responsibility."

"Think about it carefully, what happened to you inexplicably. When did it happen?"

"But as a mother who wants her children to learn well, she must have confidence."

"You see, those wealthy people have one obvious characteristic, and that is self-confidence."

"Believe that you can do it and have better things,"

"If you are not confident, you will not be able to sustain the wealth and energy brought by the script. Just like an ordinary person with a monthly salary of three to five thousand, if he tries to drive a multi-million dollar luxury car, most people will not dare to do so, fearing this or that. ,"

"Then people with the same salary level as you drive those luxury cars, enjoy the atmosphere and quality of luxury cars, and think to themselves, hey, I will buy one in the future. In terms of mentality, he has already opened the gap. This is fate. If you are given an opportunity, you must believe that you are worthy of it and can take it.”