The sweet mourning beauty and the King of Hell are killing each other like crazy in the world

Chapter 388 We are the best.

What Hu Yanzu said is not wrong, but will it be useful if he says this to Jing Xiaoling?

That's simply like playing the lute to a cow.

After Lao Hu finished talking about Zhe Xi'e, he lowered his head and fiddled with his cell phone. It was obvious that he didn't want to explain anything to Jing Xiaoling anymore.

Jing Xiaoling probably felt that it was boring, so she stopped asking questions.

After a while, I received a WeChat message from Daniel Hu, who wrote to me:

"Madam Boss, I have no choice but to answer her. Don't take it personally. It's better for the two of us to be together.

Remember, there is an antidote for all emotional disasters.

Many people seem to love others, and then fall into abusive relationships and suffer a lot. But the reason for the pain is not how much you love this person, but because you don’t love yourself.

Because you don't love yourself, you don't want to love yourself, you are too lazy to love yourself, so you pass this difficult task to others. You choose a way that is easier, more escapist, and does not require you to face yourself directly, which is to be nice to others.

Then you can confidently say to others, why don't you love me? Why don't you love me? To put it bluntly, this is similar to a kind of emotional kidnapping.

You feel that you are pitiful, but in fact you are very cruel. You need the love of others to fill the huge emptiness in your life. You need the love of others to help you escape and find yourself and face your own life issues.

I hope you can clearly realize that it is not because you love him that makes you suffer, but because you do not love yourself.

What the Diamond Sutra really wants to say but doesn't say is: Life is just a game, don't be attached to appearances. As long as you can play without being attached to appearances, all games are fun, and there will be no pain or fear to torture you.

In fact, there is nothing more in our life, and nothing less in our death. To this world, everything is just a game.

In this game, our survival mode is set. We fight for, rob, and eat other organic matter, then survive, continue to rob and eat, and finally die. One day, we may also be killed and eaten by other organic matter, or we may decompose and have our energy absorbed by the heaven and earth, and finally be eaten by the earth.

Throughout the game, we can have what we want, but don’t be too greedy, too persistent, too wasteful, or consume too many resources.

Because, one day, we ourselves will be swallowed or consumed by something, just as we consume other people or other lives. This is the rule of the game.

So we can make money, even a lot of money, but if you cannot see through the illusory nature of money, do not know how to use money, do not understand the power and meaning of money, then your life lessons will be equivalent to a blank paper.

The Diamond Sutra just wants to tell us that the world before our eyes where so many people are playing games together is not actually the human world, but a common karma place for all of us.

You come to this dojo to study engineering. All the fame, wealth, and pleasure, including your body and others' bodies, are just props and scenery.

However, some people just don't understand and instead think that the purpose of their coming to this dojo is to snatch these props and scenery. This kind of stupidity is like a person throwing away the biscuits in a biscuit box while drying his eyes and then eating the biscuit box. It is both ridiculous and pathetic.

The process of life is for us to experience and understand the feeling of survival, because we are the same as playthings. The meaning of life is for us to use our limited and fragile life and our short-lived body to complete some missions and tasks, to understand some truths and to regain our original heart.

And wow, all blessings come from desperate situations.

In fact, the really good things are basically realized when you are in the ditch.

After going through the trough period, a person's fortune, pattern and even personality will undergo tremendous changes. As the saying goes, "after going through the low period, one will be reborn from the ashes." This is what it means.

The trough period means that you cannot make money, live in poverty and anxiety, and the people around you are in a mess and noisy, just like being trapped in hell. You can't see the way out, your self-confidence is trampled, your efforts are completely denied, and all your efforts are in vain.

Only by admitting failure during the trough period can you see everything in the world clearly, and only by admitting failure during the trough period can you know your true value, because what you hear and see during the trough period is real. The trough period is the process from quantity to quality.

Everyone who has experienced it knows that after you get through it, you will suddenly have a very strange feeling, like a phoenix rising from the ashes, and the pressure and misfortune you carry on your shoulders will disappear like an iceberg melting by itself.

Everything really is getting better.

This is the wonder of fate. I have gritted my teeth and gone through so many hardships. I am really like a dark horse rushing out.

And wow, the relationship between men and women really can’t be forced too hard.

Especially when a girl is facing a man, she just needs to wait and attract him. It is best to just give in and don't be too proactive.

This is what the opposite means.

We have also learned the concept of force and reaction force in physics.

Everything will have an opposite force to oppose it. Everything exists at two extremes at the same time.

When a person works too hard, the moment she collapses is when she has rested and relaxed too much.

One who wants to be overly comfortable welcomes endless torment and pain in her affairs.

The "Tao Te Ching" advocates that all things should conform to the laws of nature, working at sunrise and resting at sunset.

What we want is not a momentary pleasure, but to feel the slow passage of life in the long river of life.

In the end, you will most likely find that even though you never think that you have worked very hard, as long as you go far enough on this road, your life will become easier and easier, and everyone will think how hard you work.

People who work too hard are just wasting their time, while those who really persevere often seem very relaxed because they feel that this is already good enough.

We also know that it is best not to get involved in other people's choices, not to bear the consequences of others, and let others do whatever they want. Don't worry about whether they are good or not, don't give them any advice, and don't feel uncomfortable.
Otherwise, the karma of others will be borne by you.

There is another more important ability, which is not to get involved.

A person is particularly prone to encounter all kinds of people and things during his/her rising period. The lowest level of predatory means are: jealousy, slander, and framing. The higher level means are: PUA, brainwashing, and exploitation.

Once you pay attention to these voices and let your thoughts and emotions follow them, basically, you are in the game.

Few people can always maintain rational thinking, that is, understand what they are doing, what they want, and what the other party wants. Then they make a silent decision: I won’t give it to you, no matter what you say, it’s useless.

This kind of situation and rationality often requires going through a lot of hardships, suffering a lot of losses, and feeling very painful before one can slowly gain understanding.

Therefore, between people, we really cannot easily give our time and emotions to others, which are basically the most precious resources in life."

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