How to survive in poverty: I use a simulator to farm

Chapter 96: What are the three obediences and the four virtues taught?
"Daughter-in-law, you are referring to what Mencius said: "If a worker wants to do his job well, he must first sharpen his tools," right?"

Chen Feiyan was stunned for a moment and nodded.

Then, she taught him how to make an exquisite painted fan.

Chen Feiyan now pays special attention to her little girl.Seeing that she could calm down and knowing that her IQ was smarter than her brothers, she tried her best to train her.

Even though her daughter Chen Jiaxin is only three or four years old, she has already learned to think independently because she is naturally smart.

She felt that no matter how many skills her mother taught her, she would never have a sense of reality.

Every time I see my parents working diligently and hard day and night for this family.

Deep in her heart, she had an idea to completely change the status quo.

She wants to escape poverty.

I want to lead the whole family to stand out.

She didn't want her family to live in this poor and backward place for the rest of her life.

They are obviously all human beings.Why can others live a life of enjoyment if they are born rich?Why should I have to beg for food in the fields for the rest of my life after being born into poverty?
Not reconciled.

unfair.

This is what is in her little mind.

At home, she always heard her aunt say to her uncle, "Everything is low-grade, only education is good." She would always keep saying, "When we have money at home in the future, we must talk to our younger brother." My brothers and sisters said, "Send our son to study in the county town"...

On this night, Chen Jiaxin said boldly to her mother and father: "Mom and Dad, I want to study!"

"I also want to get ahead!"

"I can also give you glory and honor your ancestors!"

"If you are rich, don't send your cousin away! Send me! I am your biological child."

When Chen Feiyan heard her daughter say that she wanted to study, she wanted to get ahead, and she wanted to honor her ancestors, Chen Feiyan was completely shocked by her.

At such a young age, she actually has such ambitions?
Is this kid really here with her?
Or does she usually listen to someone in her family?
The man talked a lot, so she remembered it?
Chen Feiyan was really confused, so she looked at her daughter Chen Jiaxin in front of Chen Yixuan and asked, "My daughter, who did you hear this from?"

"I guess my daughter doesn't even know what she's talking about..." Chen Yixuan, who was sitting aside, suddenly interrupted.

After hearing this, Chen Jiaxin frowned and shouted seriously: "Dad! Don't treat me like an ignorant three-year-old child! I understand everything you say!"

"I know what I'm talking about!"

"Father and mother~, just tell me whether you agree or not? Provide me with education, provide for me to go to school! I also want to do something earth-shattering and great as my uncle and aunt said."

At this time, Chen Yixuan and Chen Feiyan had completely determined that Chen Yixing and Wang Yingying had said many things to their children behind their backs.

They probably all thought their daughter couldn't understand, so they always said it in front of her.So much so that my daughter can memorize it after listening to it for a long time.

As a woman, Chen Feiyan has never favored boys over girls.

After knowing that her daughter had such ambitions, she did not dampen her enthusiasm. Instead, she looked at her with praise and encouraged her: "My daughter, you are really my daughter, smart and ambitious!"

"When we women live in this world, we should be as ambitious as you, eager to learn, and determined to do something earth-shattering and great. Well, I, the mother-in-law, agree!"

After saying this, Chen Feiyan suddenly took a turn. "But my daughter, you are still young now, and our family doesn't have the money to stay in the city. We can't send you to a private school in the city for you to study. Otherwise, let your father teach you more every day? Wait. After you have finished studying the Thousand Character Classic and learned all the characters, we will send you to school. Do you agree?"

Hearing this, Chen Yixuan, who was sitting next to him, was shocked.He had an expression like "Daughter-in-law, are you crazy?"

"Daughter-in-law, why don't we think about it more?"

Seeing him like this, Chen Feiyan couldn't help but push him. "What are you thinking about?"

"This is our daughter. She has been smart since she was a child and has a high IQ. She can learn anything quickly! Let her read more books. It will only be good for us, and there will be no harm."

"...Okay." Chen Yixuan knew in his heart that even if he nodded and agreed to this now, it would be a few years before his daughter wanted to go to school.

No one can tell what the situation of the family will be like after a few years.

After Chen Yixuan hesitated several times, he nodded in agreement.

Let's do this first.

The daughter-in-law might just be coaxing her daughter to play...

Moreover, my daughter is young and her temperament has not yet been settled.She may have heard his eldest brother and sister-in-law always saying that everything was of inferior quality, but only those who were good at studying, wanted to change their family, wanted to honor their ancestors, wanted to get ahead... After hearing too much, she began to imitate him.

At a young age, Chen Jiaxin knows how to act based on people's looks.

She understood that her mother was sincere in agreeing to send her to school, while her father was perfunctory, and she immediately laughed.

Under Chen Yixuan's surprised eyes, she memorized the few books she had learned from him in the past two months, word for word.

"Dad, I have already mastered the books you have taught the fourth and fifth brothers to read in the past two months. If you don't believe me, you can test me."

When Chen Yixuan saw that the girls he had taught twice were able to memorize everything, he widened his eyes in surprise, looked at Chen Feiyan next to him and said: "My wife, I didn't expect that there would be such a literary star in our family? !”

"Yeah! That's great!"

Chen Yixuan is a good father.At this moment, he was not like other fathers who regretted that his daughter was not a boy when he learned that his daughter was precocious. Instead, he was happy for her from her standpoint.

The smarter the daughter, the better off she is likely to be in the future.

This world is cannibalistic.

A stupid woman will either be eaten by this man or that man.None of them will live long.

In Chen Yixuan's opinion, if the woman is lucky and can meet a man with good character, responsibility and the ability to shoulder the important responsibility of the head of the family, she might be able to live a stable life and even have children and grandchildren around her. old age.

However, there are too few women with such good luck.

Even if it was his own daughter-in-law, he loved her so much and wouldn't let her go to the fields to do farm work, but she still stayed with him, almost breathless under the weight of this world.

The world is difficult and the people at the bottom are in poverty. Children from poor families like him will have an even harder life in the future.

Thinking of this, Chen Yixuan suddenly spoke: "Daughter-in-law, this child is indeed born smart. However, it is not enough for us to teach her to read. We also have to teach her some principles of dealing with others. Moreover, it is better to believe in books than nothing. Book. I will never tell her about the three obediences and four virtues in the book!"

Chen Feiyan was extremely happy to learn that he had such an educational philosophy.

"We shouldn't teach you things like the three obediences and the four virtues! Anyway, I think she should read whatever books you men read in the past. Things like historical stories, the art of war, and conspiracies, we shouldn't teach them. You have to tell her..."

(End of this chapter)