Traveling to Daliang Kingdom starts from falling into the water

As the saying goes, "Buddhas fight for a stick of incense, and people fight for a breath." Some things can be forgiven, but some definitely cannot. This is a matter of principle.

Men don't shed tears easily. No matter how hard or tired her father was, he never shed a tear in front of her. But there were still people who hurt him to the extreme and made him cry.

No matter how young and ignorant she was, she would never forget how her father, who loved her the most, was insulted and kicked out of the house for the first time in her life.

Even after being kicked out of the house, her father didn't dare to drop her. He carried her out of the village where there was no one around. The tear that fell on her neck was so hot, so heartbreaking.

What's the difference between humiliating her father and humiliating her?

As a daughter, she can easily let go of such shame. What's the point of her father raising his children?

At such a young age, she held her breath and worked hard to survive, earning a monthly salary, learning embroidery, reading people's faces, not daring to show up, and dealing with the backyard without expecting anything.

She herself couldn't bear to see her father suffer any injustice. Who did he owe anything to? They were just ordinary people, and everyone came from a poor family. Why should her father be despised?

Is it that the son-in-law is not working hard enough, or is it that he beats and scolds his wife and daughter? He secretly earned the hard-earned money to raise chickens for his wife to recuperate after giving birth, and he took great pains to bring the child to his parents-in-law's house. As a son-in-law, why is it that he cannot even have a sip of water and is publicly scolded and kicked out by his father-in-law?

What's more, nowadays, there are social interactions during festivals and weddings. Isn't it already a face-saving thing? What else do you want? You don't have to have the son-in-law bring his children to your house.

Zhou Banxia really had no good feelings towards her in-laws who not only humiliated her father, but also refused to lend her a penny when her and her sister were secretly sold.

She must have understood the purpose of her mother saying this at this moment. Maybe she was just talking to her, or maybe she had already wanted her to persuade her father to let it go.

But, letting go is easier said than done. She can't even take a step into her in-laws' family. How could her father, a tall and strong man, forget how his father-in-law humiliated him time and time again?

Zhou Banxia thought so, and she told Li honestly, "...I won't persuade my father unless he forgives them himself.

Now this is actually a sign of my father's generosity. It's not that my uncle gave dowries to my sister and me because he owes them a favor, but that they know what they have done.

Mom, you may not be able to see, but when my eldest sister got married, my father didn't leave any dowry. At that time, our family was actually much better off than my uncle's family.

Think about it again. When I come back, my aunt and the others will come to our house more often and want to strengthen the relationship. They will not fail to expect that I will bring back money.

After that, in order to add to my dowry, even my aunt gave me a bigger red envelope than she gave to my eldest sister. Why would a niece like her get twice as much as the gift?
Don't say that they had long seen that Liu Langge would win the top three prizes. It's the dowry. My father prepared a lot of dowry for me. My aunt took the initiative to ask you not to forget to ask my uncle to deliver the dowry.

For this matter, did my father generously give my uncle a generous gift in return? Now that my uncle is here, my father is also politely inviting him to drink?
In fact, my father is not such a petty person. If we count the mistakes made by my eldest uncle, he made more mistakes. When my grandfather scolded my father, he did not stop him, nor did he let my father sit for a while. That was a mistake."

It's over.

If there is one mistake, there will definitely be two.

Li secretly thought that this was not good.

Looking at Zhou Banxia who was half lying on the other side and then sat up while talking, Li didn't dare to interrupt.

Sanya is not Daya, she is not a child that her mother would scold and then forget what she said at the beginning. Sanya can always bring back what she wants to say. If she is not allowed to say it, she will not say it again, but she will not want to mention it from the bottom of her heart, and she will not want to hear her mother mention her uncle one day.

As her mother, she has now figured out the temperament of her daughter San Ya. She is exactly the same as her father. When she gets cruel, not only her uncle but even her own mother is nothing.

"In order to find my second sister and me as soon as possible, my father swallowed his anger and went to Yue's house again. Not only did he not lend my father a penny, but he also told my father not to look for me. This is his second mistake."

Alas, this matter cannot be accepted. It has been remembered by the father and son. Even she, as a daughter-in-law and a mother, cannot say that her family was right.

"The third mistake is that his two nieces were sold off, and he didn't even support you. Even if you went to your house to make a scene and scolded you, that's what an uncle should do.

There is one thing I have never mentioned to my father until now: why did my grandpa and his wife just come once to ask the two children where they were selling and then go home without making any noise or caring about anything?

Firstly, I had no evidence, and secondly, I was worried that the old woman would tell you what she gave to grandma and drag you into this, so I didn’t even mention my grandma’s house that night.

Your own parents, you are good-looking and you don't have to worry about finding a better family than my father, so why are they willing to earn less in dowry and marry you into the Zhou family?
Don’t say that they valued my father for his diligence and honesty. They looked down on my father from the beginning. You must know what they were after, so I won’t tell you. "

Li originally wanted to explain a few things to the child's uncle.

Your uncle has a hard time too.

Your grandfather is a domineering person. Although your uncle is the eldest son, your grandfather is not an old man. He is not partial to the eldest son and even beats him with a stick if he disobeys.

Before she could open her mouth, her daughter San Ya suddenly started talking about her parents again, and she was talking about the time when her parents came to visit her after they found out that their two granddaughters had been sold.

That's fine, but from what San Ya said, her grandparents came and left without saying a word, and it seemed like her grandma secretly took something.

Her grandma?
Her mother?

San Ya could coax people, but she would not make up stories or lie in front of her husband and wife. Nine out of ten times what she said was true.

The reason why San Ya could be so suspicious until now is probably because she is worried that her mother still thinks her mother's family is good, so she has to say it out loud. She probably can't escape the fact.

I'm afraid that her mother was guessed by San Ya at that time and was bribed by that damn old woman, otherwise why would she ask her to persuade the child's father to stop making trouble.

That day?

What did mother say? It seemed like she said that after finding the girl, she had to pay the owner ten taels of silver. Yes, it was mother who said ten taels of silver when we left.

If my mother hadn't said that she sold it for ten taels of silver, and she hadn't told the child's father about it, the child's father would have thought she was a dead old woman and really paid back the borrowed silver immediately...

"No matter how wrong it is, the mistake is that over the years, in the interpersonal relations, it is not now, but always eating more and giving less. How can my father respect this Yue family from the bottom of his heart?
If my father hadn't said that he wanted me to have a grand wedding, and if I hadn't been concerned about my two younger brothers getting married in the future, which would require my presence as the eldest uncle, wouldn't I?
To be honest, I don't want my eldest uncle to send any dowry to my husband's family for me. Zhou Yifu has severed ties with us, but I still have the support of Uncle Changping from my great-grandfather's family.

I just don't have anyone to back me up. My parents-in-law love me as their daughter-in-law, so who am I afraid of? They even broke into the backyard of their house. Would I be afraid that the Gu family would bully me?" (End of this chapter)