Traveling to Daliang Kingdom starts from falling into the water

Chapter 576 You are such a good father
You are such a good father. You have already thought about everything to leave for the child while the child is still in your belly, and you still say the word "all" in a serious tone.

This brother has transformed again, and quickly stepped into the role of a father, a father who is crazy about protecting his children. At this time, he pointed out who all the things were kept for.

Zhou Banxia looked at Gu Wenxuan teasingly and whispered, "Why, are you worried that I won't be able to handle things as my mother does? Don't you want Master Taishui to live in a big house?"

"What a joke! You'll never look like your mother. Your mother was so good at pretending to be innocent and weak at first, but she still managed to scare you away."

You know your own wife well.

On weekdays, he looks harmless and behaves magnanimously, but that is within the range of her tolerance. Once the line is crossed, she will hide 80 cents for every dollar she earns.

If you make her angry, she will be so petty that she will bring up old scores. She will think two cents, let alone two cents, is too much. She will even refuse to see you or answer your phone.

If it weren't for this temper, could she have angered her mother to the point of revealing her true nature? Besides, she was her mother, not her father, so how much affection could she have?

"It's mainly because of your good father. It's rare for you to meet such a kind father, it's worth it. I'm happy to let your father live in a big house, not for you as his mother."

Poor daughter-in-law, Gu Wenxuan patted Zhou Banxia on the shoulder, “Even the big rivers and small rivers, I only did it for your father’s sake, and they are sensible and obedient.

If they have a brother like yours, I won't bother to care about him. Our concept is different from that of most people nowadays. We don't think that the mother's family is a support.

Besides, do you still need your mother's family to support you? Putting aside your connections, the pancreas workshop in your hands is enough to make people look up to you.

I'm not worried about your mother's family. Even if your mother is confused, if your in-laws want to get any benefits, it depends on whether my Gu family agrees.

In terms of relationship, I am not your father. Your father is your grandfather and uncle, so he lost a chip. At best, I am just the husband of your grandfather's granddaughter.

From the perspective of etiquette and law, your grandfather's status is not even as high as my grandfather's, let alone his. The paternal family is the closest relative, and the imperial examination only checks three generations of the paternal family to ensure a clear name.

What does this mean? It means that your maternal family is far away from me. You are a daughter of the Zhou family. If you marry me, you will be a daughter-in-law of the Gu family. What does it have to do with the Li family?

Therefore, it is not legitimate for them to use your mother to gain benefits from you. As long as you don't confess, it will be useless even if they die. If it gets out, they will be scolded.

But Dajiang and Xiaohe are different, as grandsons, they can't avoid it. Like now, Dajiang has been admitted as a student in the government stipend, and in fact, their Li family has benefited.

For example, when it comes to taxes, "It's easy to see the King of Hell, but hard to deal with the little devils." With Dajiang as their grandson, at least the yamen runners wouldn't dare to mess around when they came to their village.

It's just like I won the first place in the court case this year, and even my grandfather benefited from it. This year's corvée labor is no longer paid in silver, so it is much easier.

You can enlighten your mother on this point when you have time. Her close relationship with her mother's family is harming her two sons. I don't believe your mother dares not to understand this.

Now that your mother sees that you don't bear a grudge against her and that you have plenty of money, she has even made her live like a maid and a slave, forgetting how she got through the days of poverty.

The saying "How can a poor man become rich? He has a bulging chest and a sunken belly" is exactly what your mother is thinking now. She loves to show off and has gotten a little carried away.

This is why I agree with your father not letting you give your mother pocket money privately. Otherwise, even if your mother is confused, she can afford to give her head ornaments and jewelry, so why would she be short of those few copper coins?

Your mother is not your father. Your father deserves more respect because he was able to endure for eleven years without even knowing that your mother was in Gao's house. If it were your mother, she would have started complaining long ago.

Of course, it’s not a big deal on your mother’s side. If she is confused, it’s her family’s fault. To this day, how could her family offend your father?

They know that the initiative is in your father's hands. What good will come of angering your father? At most, they will not get any benefit from instigating your mother. Instigating is useless. Your father doesn't like your mother. Believe it or not, your mother is more afraid that your father will not want her. After all, no matter how stupid she is, she can see that you four siblings will only stand on your father's side. "

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Do you still want me to nod?
Zhou Banxia glanced at him speechlessly. She didn't want to hear Gu Wenxuan mention her silly mother again, so she immediately pointed at the wooden box with her left hand.

"Angry?"

"Not really. I'm actually a little surprised that you actually said how bad your mother-in-law is in front of me. She wasn't your father-in-law before. No matter how bad your mother-in-law is, she's still my parents, right?"

Gu Wenxuan couldn't help laughing, "Can it be the same? You were already upset at that time, and if I continued to make them angry, wouldn't they just blame you for not returning home?
Why not use money to send them away? Why did I go through so much trouble to trick you into giving it to them, and then let them bother you right under your nose?

But now, this guy is not completely bad. He treats me and my eldest brother-in-law and two of his sons-in-law quite well. It’s not just now, he has been very good from the beginning.

Not to mention her family, there must be people in our village who talk behind her back, saying that my son-in-law relied on you to become a scholar in my family.

But to be honest, your mother really never gave me an unpleasant look, or said anything unpleasant in front of me.

She is at most a son-in-law. My San Ya likes you and cares about you wholeheartedly. You must not let my San Ya down when you become successful in the future.

Or, my son-in-law, when you become an official in the future, you must not forget that we are a peasant family. It is not right to take in a concubine and forget your wife who has shared the hardships of life with you.

Everything else is just good things for you. She never asked you to give her anything, let alone say bad things about you in front of me.

She won't be partial to your elder sister just because she grew up under her nose. If you increase the monthly allowance for your elder sister and her husband, will she stop you out of fear that you will suffer a loss?"

This is true.

Are you saying that this mother is not good?
She would also worry that her daughter would promote her family too much, causing her in-laws to feel alienated from her, and that her son-in-law would become estranged from her.

Sometimes smart, sometimes confused.

"Even if she favors her son, she never asked you to buy a shop or something for Dajiang Xiaohe. If it was that person, do you think she would let you buy a house?"

Replace it with her mother?

Is there any need to guess?
Didn’t she say before that she was not a child anymore and was planning to buy a house for her wedding in the county town? She said that as the eldest sister, she didn’t need to do many favors and just had to pay the down payment!

Don't bother with her!

"Isn't it much better in comparison? People are different now. My father-in-law is not that (father-in-law), so naturally the way of handling things has to change as well."

What a contrast!
Zhou Banxia laughed, "I understand what you mean. After all, my mother-in-law is still salvageable, but I can't spoil my mother."

Do you spoil your mother?

Don’t mention it, the word “habit” is used very cleverly.

He knew that in his wife's heart, this level of behavior was considered as pampering her mother, rather than protecting her mother, and it seemed that she no longer had much patience.