Traveling to Daliang Kingdom starts from falling into the water

I don't know if the ability to coax people is hereditary, but Gu Erlang, who has a high emotional intelligence, is definitely an expert at coaxing people. He even accidentally praised his wife in front of his son.

After Gu Erzhu led his two sons and eldest grandson to the Gu family ancestral hall to worship their ancestors, Zhou Banxia saw Ma Shan holding her hand and going back to the west wing with her.

Coincidentally, she also wanted to ask Ma Shan whether the men of the Gu family should take advantage of this time to go to the ancestral temple to worship their ancestors and go to the Gu family's old house to pay their respects to Mr. and Mrs. Gu.

If I were not at home for the New Year, it would be okay to go today, but now I am only a hundred meters away from the Gu family's old courtyard, and it would be inappropriate if I didn't show up.

But before she could ask Ma Shan for his opinion, she heard Ma Shan imitate Xiao Changsuo's tone and start to "talk", "...Look, my wife, you and my father found such a good one~"

If she hadn't been paying attention to what Ma Shan was saying, she would have almost missed the deep meaning. "Sister-in-law, you are very good. I never lied."

"Are you serious?" Ma Shan laughed, "To be honest, your elder brother and parents came first, and I was also scared when I first came in.

My father is different from my mother. When he agreed to my marriage with your eldest brother, he only thought that my parents loved me very much and was not afraid that they could not protect me.

It's my mother. She is not like my father. She always worries that my father is too filial and that my mother is not favored by my grandmother, and she is afraid that I will be bullied after I get married.

In my mother's words, if a grown man stays at home all day, as a daughter-in-law, you should not only consider whether you can get along with your mother-in-law, but also how your great-grandmother is.

Take our grandmother, for example. She thinks she is a good person, but my mother has actually found out that she is not only partial to the eldest son, but also the eldest son.

On the surface, it seems that our grandfather favors the eldest son and grandson, but in fact, the two old people are not that bad. If our father had not separated from the family, he would definitely have to support the family.

Before I got married, my mother told me everything about the Gu family, for she was afraid that I would be stupid enough to just believe whatever my elders said.

My mother is not worried that my mother-in-law will not protect me. She is afraid that if I am unfilial and disobedient, even my mother-in-law will not be able to protect me. After all, the old man and the old lady are our real parents.

You don't know that when I first came home, our father was not like this. He would agree to anything as long as our grandmother grabbed him and cried a little more.

One time, my mother was so upset that I was pissed off. I couldn’t fight with my grandmother, so I had to take sides and let my mother pinch my aunt a few more times.”

Great!

Zhou Banxia looked at Ma Shan with admiration, "So I said you are good, you should take action when necessary. If you hadn't come in, my mother would never have been able to fight them alone!"

Ma Shan shook her head, "I still lost. My grandmother said that my mother taught me, her daughter-in-law, bad things. When my father came back, she even held my hand and cried.

It meant that I wanted my father to teach my wife well and let me go back to my parents' home for two days. My father then said that it takes two to tango, and that if we wanted to go back, we should all go back to our parents' home for two days.

Think about it, if it were today, would Daddy have a hard time pampering our grandma? At that time, your eldest brother and Liu Lang went to ask the eldest aunt if she couldn't tolerate our family, and the other caught Da Lang and beat him.

Otherwise, how could I say good things about Liu Lang? Your brother is only good at talking. Your brother Liu Lang doesn't talk much, but he always manages to make the old man and my aunt afraid of him.

At that time, the old man didn't dare to scold you, Brother Liu Lang, for being inhuman in front of our father. It was just that when he saw his eldest grandson being beaten by Liu Lang, he asked our father to deal with Liu Lang.

I still remember that Liu Lang was furious at that time. He asked the old man in front of my great-grandfather, "You always scold people for being unfilial. My mother is being bullied. How can I, as a son, be filial to her?"

Do you think that making my whole family kneel down and kowtow to beg for mercy is the way you are a filial son and grandson of the Gu family? I am a younger generation and cannot beat my uncle to teach his wife well, and I cannot control their Tian family from not teaching their daughters well. But I know the old saying is good, the son pays the father's debt, as long as their eldest son beats me more. Anyway, I am a dead man, if you want to feel sorry for your eldest grandson, you can take a knife to me, if I fight back, I am not the son of my parents. "

Zhou Banxia frowned.

"It was also after that time that our father seemed to be frightened by Liu Lang. In your brother's words, Liu Lang was too filial and always took our parents into consideration in everything he did.

Whenever Duo Liulang complained to his father, he would not listen to the old lady. Don't underestimate him because he has a good brain. He did a lot of stupid things in the past.

Take me for example. Within two or three months of me entering the family, I noticed that Liulang and Dalang didn't get along. Dalang was so afraid of Liulang that he would try to avoid him whenever he saw him. But my father just couldn't notice it.

Earlier, your eldest brother and I thought that Dalang must have been scared by Liulang's beating in private, but we didn't expect that the three generations of grandparents and grandchildren had plotted against Liulang and were guilty of their crimes.

I was wondering how the old man could tolerate Liu Lang's indifference to him. He refused to work if he didn't want to. It seems he was feeling guilty. He still had the nerve to say he didn't know!"

"..." Looking at Ma Shan who was getting more and more annoyed, Zhou Banxia didn't know how to take over the conversation for a moment. He had to prevent her from feeling resentful. His sister-in-law would not give up.

"Now the retribution has come. They still wanted Liu Lang to ask you to help his eldest son and grandson. Don't say that your eldest brother and I don't agree. Even our father won't tolerate them getting any further!"

Well, even the idiom has been used. It must be that the smiling fox uncle asked his wife to talk to her more often, so that she won’t be plotted against by the two elders someday.

"As for you, I know you are thinking about our father and don't want him to be caught in the middle. Also, for the sake of our family's reputation, you can't be too serious."

Looking at Ma Shan who was speaking in a tones of coaxing a child, Zhou Banxia held his forehead with his hand, not knowing whether to laugh or cry. He really wanted to ask if this was the conclusion his uncle had drawn when he was teaching his wife behind her back.

But, she was also right as what people said. She should not give face to others but to others. Her father-in-law was not a very good father. It didn't matter if she wasted a few more dollars.

If we really get serious about it, it's not about the reputation, but it will make such a good father-in-law feel disheartened, unless the father-in-law himself truly realizes that filial piety is filial piety, not foolish filial piety.

Moreover, given the current situation, my father-in-law has clearly realized that parents cannot be spoiled, as doing so will only bring down their children.

This is already a very good result. How can we really not support our parents who are so old that they may pass away at any time? It is impossible.

She was the daughter who was often criticized by her parents as an ungrateful person. No matter how disappointed she was or how heartless she was, she still had to pay alimony on a monthly basis in the end.

It has nothing to do with filial piety or not. It is the bottom line of being a child. If you don't want to have the child to cause trouble, you can just throw him/her away and ignore him/her. The most you can do is to pretend that you don't see him/her.

What's more, as a daughter-in-law, no matter what she thinks in her heart, no parents-in-law would be unhappy to see their daughter-in-law respectful to their parents.

Hit people without slapping their faces, and curse people without revealing shortcomings.

Like her dad.

She hated her unkind parents so much that her father would not be happy to hear her mother scolding the old man a few more times, let alone her father-in-law who came from the framework of foolish filial piety.

"I understand what you said, but there is one more thing. Hehe, I still need to discuss with you. Should we go to the old mansion to pay our respects while the old man is not at home?" (End of this chapter)