Don’t be a licking dog when you are reborn.

Chapter 162 Because what you like, we must like (2 in 1)

After returning to the warmth, Ji Feng was finally satisfied.

Picking up the phone and thinking about it, Ji Feng also wanted to send a red envelope to his girlfriend during the Chinese New Year.

Ji Feng opened Alipay and looked at the money left inside. Ji Feng looked slightly embarrassed.

I gave out more than 2 yuan in red envelopes before, but I was robbed of my lucky money. I lost 3000 yuan playing cards, and I couldn't hold on.

As a result, he now has more than 400 yuan left in his personal account.

He wanted to send a 520 transfer, but he couldn't do it as a New Year's red envelope.

This shit...

He is a hammer rich man who is about to become a loser.

When Ji Feng was awkward in place, old Ji walked over without forgetting to give Ji Feng a cigarette:

"Gangshun, Hua Zi!"

Ji Feng took the cigarette and smoked the corner of his mouth:

"Dad, transfer me some money."

Lao Ji's face stiffened:

"Father and son, nothing is worth money."

"Just tell me whether to give it or not."

Ji Guangxun was smiling just now, but now when Ji Feng asked him for money, his expression suddenly dropped.

"No, I'm so poor. How can you ask me for money? I don't understand."

Seeing Lao Ji's shameless look, Ji Feng was a little helpless. The fishing guy was really stingy, and he would tell his mother later.

"The company's turnover is not working well, it is difficult to operate, and there is no living expenses."

Lao Ji was stunned when he heard this, sighed, and took a puff of cigarette.

He took out his mobile phone and transferred 500 to Ji Feng, and said in a serious voice:

"Dad doesn't have much money, but Xiaofeng, don't worry, if you go bankrupt, the family will be able to support you.

From now on, if I have a bite to eat, you will be the one to wash the dishes. "

Monsoon:? ? ?

Okay, okay, you eat and I wash the dishes, right?

My biological father has his say.

Ji Feng picked up the phone again and was about to transfer 520 to Nuan Nuan.

Unexpectedly, Nuan Nuan transferred 1314 first.

Note: [Happy New Year, wait for me]

Ji Feng:……

He was actually beaten to the spot by his girlfriend, which made Ji Feng very embarrassed.

My own more than 400 plus Lao Ji's 500 are not enough for 1000.

Silently turning 520, Ji Feng made a note.

【Wait for you】

After receiving the reply, Nuan Nuan raised the corners of his mouth slightly, put away his phone, and spoke softly to Wang Yaqin:

"Mom, it's very late, go and rest."

When Wang Yaqin heard that he was about to take a rest, his expression suddenly stiffened.

The nights during this period were not easy.

Not only was she having a hard time, Huan Nuan himself was having a hard time too.

It's just that Nuan Nuan didn't mean to speak softly at all during this period. On the contrary, she, as a mother, can't hold herself any longer.

Today, mother and daughter had New Year's Eve dinner together and watched the Spring Festival Gala together. This should have been an opportunity to relax.

But now Wang Yaqin can't guess what is going on in her daughter's mind.

"Then, let's rest..."

"Well, mom needs to have a good rest tonight!~"

The corners of Wen Nuan's mouth raised slightly, and he stared at Wang Yaqin intently. Every time he saw this look, Wang Yaqin felt a creepy feeling.

What is she going to do?

What on earth is she going to do?

Was it when she opened the door late at night that she found Nuan Nuan standing at her door?

Or when you go to the toilet, a figure appears on the glass on the door?

Or when you return to the bedroom, you suddenly find someone standing at the window?

Or even in the closet?

under the bed!

Wang Yaqin's thoughts were inevitably confused and a little irritable. She didn't want to face those situations anymore.

During this period of time, warmth was disappearing, which made her collapse a little.

She didn't know how long the rivalry between herself and her daughter would last.

Now Wang Yaqin even hopes that Nuan Nuan will start school as soon as possible.

Let her go to school quickly.

She really, really couldn't stand it.

She just wanted to have a good sleep, sleep normally like before.

So, can you have a good sleep tonight?

"Xiao Nuan." Wang Yaqin moved her mouth.

"Mom, it's time to go to bed." The warm tone was colder, not at all as kind as before.

She did not soften her heart because of Wang Yaqin's cowardice, nor did she mention when the rivalry between mother and daughter would end.

Warm understanding of his mother.

Even better than Wang Yaqin himself.

My mother is very good at pretending.

She lied to her father and to her former self.

My mother will not give in so easily. If she shows any sign of softness, she wants to reconcile with her mother with love.

The final result will drag her into the abyss.

why would you say so?

Because my father compromised bit by bit, was forced bit by bit, gave in, and had no way to retreat. He was forced to the point where he couldn't even go to the work unit, and finally chose to die.

She made her father the culprit of all her problems.

Wen Nuan knows her mother's character too well.

She is very good at putting herself on the highest moral level when speaking and doing things.

Let yourself be covered with a layer of hypocrisy and hide your desire for control. Cowardice will not bring sympathy and reconciliation, but will only make it worse.

Because she will think you are giving in.

Wen Nuan will not give her mother such a chance, even once.

After being with Ji Feng, she grew up so much.

Under Ji Feng's teaching, Nuan Nuan understood many principles and techniques that he could not understand in the past.

Many emotional skills can even be used between herself and her mother, Wang Yaqin.

Just like emotions.

Emotions are used to influence others, not yourself.

Ji Feng said that this is a common method used by the sea kings.

Regardless of men and women.

Anger is actually a means, not a result.

For example, between male and female friends, they will use anger to create compromise in each other.

Another example is that between teachers and students, they will use anger to create their own majesty.

This is all an act of using anger as a means.

Emotional abilities can also be used in reverse.

I'd rather go crazy than be internally consumed, and don't be affected by other people's emotions.

After understanding the pros and cons of emotions, Nuan can adjust his own emotional state and deal with other people, including his mother.

Everything has become much easier.

Being angry can only make yourself uncomfortable.

But if she pretends to be angry, she will make others feel uncomfortable.

Just like her mother's condition.

Nuan Nuan himself is not very clear about what the final relationship between their mother and daughter will be like.

But her life will no longer be controlled or restricted by others. It will not be like a clock fixed on the wall. She will always be able to follow the originally set path.

She wants to make her own way.

Be ruthless.

When Wang Yaqin slowly walked to the door, Nuan Nuan raised his head slightly, raised the corners of his mouth and whispered softly:

"Mom, I hope you have a good dream tonight."

"Uh……"

Wang Yaqin quickly opened the door and walked in, then stood leaning against the door for a while.

Locking the door until she felt the warm footsteps disappear.

She slowly walked to the bed and lay down with a slightly dull expression.

It's hard to sleep at night.

Although Wang Yaqin had locked the door, she would still look at the door from time to time.

The New Year's Eve is very long, and there are always people setting off firecrackers and cleaning firecrackers around.

This made Wang Yaqin, who had trouble falling asleep, even more uncomfortable. When she was half asleep and half awake, she always had the illusion that someone was standing by her window or bed.

Therefore, there was no good dream this night.

the next day.

Don’t visit each other on New Year’s Day.

Monsoon and Nuan both slept in.

Monsoon sleeps less often on weekdays because of his biological clock and self-discipline.

But Nuan Nuan's side is more complicated. The battle of wits and courage with her mother is not over yet.

But she was very smart and used language skillfully to express "I'm angry", thus giving herself plenty of rest time.

There was nothing she could do about it. During this period of competition, her sleep state was not good either.

But she had to take a good rest. After all, she was going to visit Ji Feng's home on the second day of the Lunar New Year, and she had to be in good condition.

But Wang Yaqin didn't know all this.

She thought the warmth and her sincerity were still going on.

especially……

When Wang Yaqin opened the door sleepily in the morning, she suddenly saw Wen Nuan wearing only pajamas standing in front of her door.

When their eyes met, Wen Nuan, who was equally sleepy, leaned down and whispered softly in her ear:

"Mom, I've prepared breakfast, do you want to have some?"

"Did you not sleep all night?"

"Guess what?"

Wang Yaqin looked at the warmth in front of her, and her emotions were not tense again:

"You are crazy, Nuan Nuan, you are really crazy..."

Wang Yaqin didn't eat, closed the door, and locked herself in the room.

Nuan Nuan sat at the dining table with a smile and ate breakfast slowly.

It had been a long time since she had such a solid sleep, and she actually felt good now.

After breakfast, Nuan Nuan stood in front of the closet and started thinking about what to wear tomorrow.

On the other side, Ji Feng also told his parents about the warmth coming tomorrow.

When my mother went to the kitchen to prepare the meal, he began to brainwash her with serious words.

Because he had never brought a girl home before, Ji Feng didn't know whether Dong Kaihui had a vicious mother-in-law character or something.

Get a vaccination first.

"The warmth will come tomorrow."

"Well, I understand, what next?"

"She is a rather shy girl."

"anything else?"

“Also, she has less contact with boys and has never been to other boys’ homes.

In short, you must not make some embarrassing old rules. I don't understand some of the old rules, so don't talk about her. "

"breeze."

"how?"

"You're so panicked!"

Ji Feng:……

In fact, Dong Kaihui was right. When Ji Feng talked about warm things, he did lose some of his previous calmness.

"Have it?"

"Of course. Mom thought you had grown up, but she didn't expect you were still a child. Hehehehe..."

Ji Feng is not sure how Dong Kaihui made such a boar-like laugh, but at least it is certain that she listened.

Just listen to it.

There were no surprises on the first day of the new year. Both of them spent their time preparing and waiting.

Early in the morning of the second grade of junior high school.

After Ji Feng and Nuan Nuan approved the letter in advance, they drove to Guanghua Community to find her.

When she arrived at Nuan Nuan's home, it was her mother Wang Yaqin who opened the door.

Ji Feng also greeted him politely as always.

"Good morning, aunt."

"Ji Feng-san..."

For some reason, Wang Yaqin gave Ji Feng a feeling of hesitation today. Did she want to talk to herself?

What would she want to say to herself?

In Ji Feng's doubtful eyes, the sudden warmth interrupted what Wang Yaqin wanted to say.

"The monsoon is coming, Mom, then I'm going out."

Wen Nuan was not dressed particularly coldly, she still maintained her previous slightly sweet college student attire.

There are not many warm clothes left at home, and even less in winter.

Apart from two sets of coats, there is only this set of down jackets.

Moreover, meeting parents is not to discuss business or anything, so there is no need to be so harsh.

Just keep it simple.

Ji Feng didn't know what happened between mother and daughter, but he was very observant.

It is obvious that Wang Yaqin today is far less gloomy than before, and there is no more domineering look hidden deep in his eyes.

This should be a good development.

"Mom, I'm going out today, you can cook for yourself."

"There are still leftovers at home. Go ahead and come back early in the evening."

Wang Yaqin reminded her loudly, but Nuan Nuan stopped at this moment and looked back at her:

"I may not come back tonight."

Wang Yaqin was stunned for a moment, then looked at Ji Feng in disbelief.

Ji Feng also looked confused.

not coming back? Do you want to stay at his house?

Isn't it too fast?

She didn't tell me about this, so look at what I'm doing...

Ji Feng was a little helpless, and at this time, he didn't know what to say.

But Wang Yaqin only hesitated for a few seconds, then nodded slowly: "Okay."

Ji Feng said "yes" three times in a row, but Ji Feng didn't quite know what she meant.

When he looked at Nuan Nuan, Nuan Nuan just held his hand gently.

"Let's go."

"okay."

Went downstairs with Wen Nuan and when we got to the car, Wen Nuan suddenly started talking about what happened just now.

"Ji Feng, do you think I'm a little cruel to my mother?"

Cruel?

From the perspective of ordinary people, it is indeed a bit, even too much.

But Ji Feng also knows that the relationship between their mother and daughter is not that simple, and they can stand and talk without pain.

Don't urge others to do good things if you haven't experienced others' suffering. If you have experienced my suffering, you may not be kind to me.

He has not experienced a warm childhood, so he will not say anything from a neutral perspective, let alone "fair words".

Many times, fair words are the most disgusting.

Ji Feng thought for a while and then shook his head seriously:

"You are a smart Mr. Wen, you must have a reason for doing this.

As a boyfriend, I should trust your choice at this time and just stand by your side silently. "

"Thank you." "Let's go buy some gifts or something."

"Okay, buy these."

Wen Nuan smiled and took out a piece of paper with many small words densely written on it.

[Gifts for Boyfriend’s Dad] [Gifts for Boyfriend’s Mom] [Gifts for Grandparents]

Donkey hide gelatin, tea, health products, American ginseng, and a lot of other things.

Looking at the dense list above, Ji Feng also felt a twitch in his heart:

"This is too outrageous. In fact, there is no need to buy so many gifts."

"Ah, I read on the Internet that I want to buy 8+8." Wen Nuan was also a little confused.

She had no one to ask for advice, not even her own mother, so she had to look up these things online.

In the Internet of 13, there were indeed many big bosses, but many things did not tell the truth.

Gift giving 8+8 was actually created by some marketing accounts during this period.

And in the later period, it even became a custom in some areas, and the gifts became more and more abstract.

"Those are just marketing accounts talking about. Just buy some milk, gift boxes, and cigarettes. Just go there normally. Don't worry too much."

“The Internet says it’s not a good idea to buy cigarettes.”

"You're farting on the Internet. Lao Ji has only so much potential. How can I still understand him?"

"So, do you want to buy some wine?"

"It's too expensive. Go home and drink what he hid."

"Uh, okay."

He Nuan bought milk, cigarettes, and two gift boxes, and Ji Feng drove the people towards his home.

While in the car, Wen Nuan suddenly became a little silent.

She looked out the window from time to time and tangled her fingers together.

Ji Feng knew that she was nervous.

"Are you nervous?"

"I'm afraid they won't like me."

"Don't worry, I like you, so they must like you. This is called Aiwujiwu."

Wen Nuan was stunned for a moment, is this how Aiwujiwu is used?

Ji Feng brought him home in a daze. He saw Nuan Nuan adjusting his breathing at the door, and Ji Feng knocked on the door with a smile.

Tuk-tuk-tuk!

The old couple who were already waiting at the door quickly opened the door.

As soon as Ji Feng opened the door, Dong Kaihui and Ji Guangxun greeted him warmly:

"Xiao Wen is here. Oh, this girl is so beautiful. Ji Feng, a silly boy, I don't even know how he found her!"

"Come on, come on, come on, come on in and sit down."

Nuan Nuan was taken aback by the old couple's enthusiasm.

She nodded in a panic, trying to carry something, but she looked a little clumsy because she was using a cane.

"Hello uncle, hello auntie."

"Oh, no, put it down. If your leg is injured, take good care of it. Lao Ji, go and carry something."

Lao Ji stared at one of the gift bags between the two of them, good guy, four golden buns.

This girl is sensible!

With joy on his face, Ji Guangxun did not forget to say a standard Chinese polite word:

"You're already here, why are you buying so many gifts?"

Lao Ji smiled and was about to get a cigarette, but after looking through it, he felt something was wrong. He lowered his voice and pulled Ji Feng:

"Huh? Son, didn't you buy any wine?"

"Drink yours." Ji Feng said casually.

Ji Guangxun:? ? ?

After bringing the person home, Dong Kaihui and Ji Guangxun each took out a red envelope and stuffed it into Nuan Nuan's hands.

Wen Xiaonuan was a little stunned while holding the two red envelopes.

Before she could react, Dong Kaihui had already pulled her towards the sofa in the living room.

"It's not much money, it's just a little bit of kindness from me and your Uncle Ji. Please put it away as a meeting gift. Sit down quickly. I'll cook first while you watch TV for a while."

Wen Nuan also looked at Dong Kaihui with some confusion, and wanted to get up:

"Auntie, let me help you, I can cook."

"Huh? How can I let you go? Sit down, let's not talk about the inconvenience caused by your leg injury.

There are just no injuries. How can I ask you to help with this when we meet for the first time? Come on, sit down and Lao Ji and I will go. "

"Uh, okay."

Wen Nuan sat neatly on the corner of the sofa, put his legs together, and then picked his fingers.

The parent seemed to have a good start this time, but she was still a little nervous.

I read a lot of guides online before, but now they seem to be completely useless.

She didn't meet a vicious mother-in-law.

I didn’t meet any weird father-in-law either.

There was no drama about the stinky daughter-in-law meeting her parents-in-law.

Everything went smoothly, so smoothly that I didn't know what to do next.

She sat awkwardly on the sofa and watched TV intently.

The image reflected on the TV reflected in her big bright eyes, making Wen Nuan look a little cute.

It's just that her mind is no longer on these TVs.

Seeing Ji Guangxun running to the kitchen to help, Nuan Nuan cautiously asked Ji Feng:

"Monsoon, what should I do now?"

Seeing Wen Nuan being so nervous, Ji Feng smiled and sat next to her, gently holding Wen Wen's fingers.

At this time, as a man, don't say anything like "Don't be nervous, just treat it as your own home."

Normal girls are more or less nervous.

It's impossible to really regard your boyfriend's home as your own home.

For girls, going to their boyfriend's house for the first time is equivalent to entering a very unfamiliar trial environment, and they need to pay attention to many people's attitudes and opinions.

In this environment, what they need is comfort and emotional resonance.

Instead of talking about "treating yourself as your own home".

It's just as warm as now, when I hold hands casually, kiss casually, or even touch casually.

When Ji Feng tried to hold her hand, he actually evaded in a panic.

I haven't had the warmth of autism for a long time. At this time, I have bowed my head and become autistic.

However, Ji Feng did not give the autistic girl a chance to escape. He easily grabbed her soft fingers and brought Nuan Nuan closer to him.

Wen Xiaonuan pursed her lips:

"Isn't this bad?"

"Our family doesn't have that many rules. They like you very much and may have fantasized about you becoming their daughter-in-law."

"Huh? Hmm."

Feeling the companionship and comfort of the monsoon, the warm emotions gradually calmed down.

She held Ji Feng's arm and watched TV, like a peaceful wife in the arms of her lover.

Soon, Ji Guangxun and Dong Kaihui brought the dishes to the table.

"Xiao Feng, go get the food quickly, and Xiao Wen, go wash your hands, it's time to eat."

"okay."

"Okay, Auntie."

The two moved separately, washed their hands and ate.

While sitting around the table, Dong Kaihui greeted him warmly again:

"Xiao Wen, eat it quickly, eat it quickly, otherwise it won't taste good if it gets cold, and I won't pick up the food for you. You can eat whatever you like. Don't be polite."

"I understand, thank you auntie."

Nuan Nuan was stared at by Dong Kaihui, and her eating movements became much smaller.

This scene made Ji Feng want to laugh. He knew very well that warmth is usually very edible.

He won't be as polite as he is now.

"Mom, don't look at her like this. If you stare at Wen Nuan like this, she won't be able to eat well."

"Oh, okay, I won't watch."

Although Dong Kaihui said this, when he looked back, he couldn't help but admire:

"The girl is so beautiful, even more beautiful than in the photo. You kid, you are quite lucky..."

Seeing Dong Kaihui waving his finger towards him, Ji Feng also smiled and said nothing.

At this time, Lao Ji, who had not spoken much, also asked:

"How is Xiao Wen's leg injury?"

"Yes, Xiaofeng said your leg was injured, are you okay?"

"It's much better now, but if I want to remove the plaster, I probably have to wait until I return to the Magic City."

"Then Xiao Wen must protect himself during this period and don't get hurt again."

"Ah."

The meal was very harmonious.

Mainly Dong Kaihui and Nuan Nuan were chatting. Ji Guangxun occasionally said a few words. The father and son opened a bottle of wine and didn't drink too much. They each talked about their own things.

This kind of warmth gives Nuan Nuan a sense of familiarity as what a family should be like.

There is not so much mutual wariness, not so much intrigue.

Ji's mother would occasionally hit Ji's father, and Ji's father would occasionally quarrel with Ji Feng and make some jokes with Ji Feng.

harmony.

It's the warm feeling given by Ji Feng's family.

After several exchanges, Wen Nuan's slightly stiff state relaxed a lot. Dong Kaihui and Ji Guangxun also saw the autistic girl's embarrassment, so they always took care of her in attitude.

After eating, Dong Kaihui took Nuan Nuan and sat down on the sofa, and began to whisper some whispers as elders.

"How was Xiaowen's studies in the past?"

Dong Kaihui asked with a smile, not forgetting to pick up a sugar orange for Nuan Nuan.

The aunt's smile on her face gradually turned into a mother-in-law's smile.

But Wen Nuan rarely saw such a battle. She held the orange handed over by Dong Kaihui and didn't know whether she should eat it or not:

"Alright, okay."

"I heard from Xiaofeng that you gave him extra classes during his senior year of high school?"

"um, yes."

"Xiao Wen is so awesome. That brat Ji Feng can help you stand up."

"No, Ji Feng worked hard on his own."

"I heard that you were the top scorer in the college entrance examination?"

"That's it."

"Xiao Feng has never brought a girl back before. You two have to get along well and get married as soon as you graduate."

"Ah?"

The warmth instantly turned her ears red.

Although I do have plans to get married after graduation, it still feels weird to be asked about it by my elders.

While Nuan Nuan was being "tortured" by Dong Kaihui, Ji Feng and Lao Ji were squatting in the kitchen.

Dong Kaihui cooked the rice, so she couldn't let her wash the bowls, right?

Then it was Lao Ji's turn.

And, of course, there are the monsoons.

Lao Ji and Ji Feng put on aprons for each other, like two househusbands, and then started to work separately in the kitchen.

Lao Ji gave the job of washing dishes to Ji Feng.

He is a lazy old dog. He will let his son do it, but he will never do it himself.

This is how raising children helps them grow old.

Seeing Ji Feng washing the dishes honestly, Lao Ji lit a cigarette for himself, and the old god teased:

"Look, I told you yesterday that as long as I have a mouthful of food to eat, you will have a dishwasher. How about it? I didn't lie to you, did I?"

"Is there a father like you?" Ji Feng was a little annoyed.

"Oh, letting you work is to train you."

Monsoon was halfway through washing the dishes when he suddenly stopped:

"dad."

"Ok?"

"How do you feel about the warmth?"

"What do we think?"

"Just... do you think she is good? Are you satisfied with her? Do you like her? If there is anything bad about her, I can work with her to improve it."

Ji Feng rarely said such weak words in front of his parents.

In fact, after his rebirth, he has always been very strong, but that strength is hidden in his daily jokes.

Ji Guangxun heard this but waved his hand:

"You care what we think?"

"Don't you need to care about your parents' opinions?"

Lao Ji did not answer immediately, but took a puff of cigarette and started his Ji's teaching method again:

"I told you a long time ago. In fact, what people say is bullshit. You really don't need to pay attention to it."

"why?"

"What's the point of saying it if you haven't experienced it? And everyone is different. Your grandparents didn't let me marry your mother back then, so why didn't I marry her anyway?"

Ji Feng opened his mouth, and after a while he showed his original expression.

"Oh, it turns out you were a traitor before!"

"roll!"

"No wonder my grandma seems to be quite unhappy with my mother, and she even said such a thing..."

"Your grandma liked Li Lingqi very much back then, and they always felt that it was inappropriate for me and Li Lingqi to break up.

But it’s been so many years, and the past has passed. You’ve grown up too. Aren’t your mother and I living a good life?

So, it really doesn’t matter what others say, and what people say may not be suitable for you.

At most, they can give you some advice based on their own experience. "

"Dad, do you have any suggestions?"

"Do you listen to what I say?"

"What you said makes me feel like a traitor." Ji Feng was a little dissatisfied.

"Aren't you a traitor?"

"Stop talking nonsense and speak quickly."

Lao Ji leaned against the cupboard and made a wise expression:

"Think about it first, is warmth to you any different from Gu Xueting or other girls?"

Ji Feng was stunned and immediately replied:

"Of course Warmth is different. She is the only woman I have wanted to marry for so many years. She is my future wife, not my girlfriend.

We are going to get married, and I want to marry her, not just for fun.

Love is as impermanent as wind and snow, but it brings sorrow at every move. "

Lao Ji had an I know better than you expression:

"Look, isn't this enough?

Even though there are hundreds of beauties in the world, you are the only one I love.

What every man thinks in his heart, he knows best.

Do we agree or not? Is it useful? "

Ji Feng scratched his head.

Indeed, after deciding to be warm, he didn't have to listen to his parents' opinions.

But if you really do that, you will still feel guilty:

"Is that so?"

Ji Guangxun seemed to have guessed what Ji Feng was thinking, and patted Ji Feng's shoulder gently:

"Son, just make your own choice, don't worry about anything else."

"I hope you like her too."

Lao Ji has regained the inscrutability of the fishing guy. If he had a fishing rod in his hand now, he might be a master:

"Don't worry, because you are our son.

What you like, we definitely like. "

(End of this chapter)