This couple in the apocalypse is not easy to mess with

Chapter 530 Back to Base

After Xiao Ya said this, she went on to say that although many people nowadays are very casual in their relationships, they are free to choose to separate if they are married and "have had a relationship, if they feel it is inappropriate."

But you have to know that once something happens, there is no turning back, especially marriage and love.

While those people may be looking for someone else to start a family with after a divorce, some things just happened.

No matter how much the partner you find in the future falls in love with you, the person you were with before, no matter how much you deliberately try to forget that person, that person will leave traces on your body and mind.

"So I hope that every member of our team will be loyal to each other emotionally."

It's best not to be half-hearted, let alone casual. Only in this way can you get true emotional happiness.

And if any of you dare to betray your lover, then although I won't kill you, I will definitely kick that person out of the ghost team.

No matter who made this mistake, I will show no mercy.

Because my husband and I "just can't stand this happening to our team."

As for what I said before, "My view on relationships, that's just our view.

My husband and I "don't need you to do anything according to our ideas?"
  You just need to know what you're doing, don't regret what you're doing, and don't hurt anyone else.

No matter what you do or what choices you make, my husband and I will not interfere.

But first of all, you can't do anything like betrayal. As I said before, if you dare to betray your lover or friend, I will never forgive you.

And the reason why I say this is "I want you to think clearly about the consequences" and your true intentions when making any choice.

Only in this way will you not do things that harm yourself” and others.

Ling Zhuo and Xuanyuan Haoyue listened to Xiao Ya's words and said at the same time, Captain, thank you for saying this to us.

Captain, don’t worry, after experiencing the failed relationship before.

We will now "definitely be more cautious in dealing with relationships, and we will not do anything to hurt ourselves" or the other party.

After Xiao Ya heard what the two said, she nodded and said cautiously.

It is because of your previous experience that I say that to you carefully.

Although you have all experienced a bad relationship.

But you must not trust each other wholeheartedly because of the past.

You must know that trust is the basis of any relationship, whether it is family, friendship, or love. Only when you trust each other wholeheartedly can you get results.

Otherwise, if you don't trust each other from the beginning, then you don't have to get along with each other anymore.

Because it’s over before you even begin.”

So the past is the past, and you need to understand the true meaning of feelings from that experience, instead of being afraid of the previous experience and not being able to trust each other.

In this way, even if you can get along "or become a couple, there will definitely be a lot of twists and turns and hardships.

Because there are many people in this world who "disdain those couples who are happy in relationships or marriages, and some people are even more crazy" and want to break them up.

So if you can't trust each other wholeheartedly, then as long as someone else creates a little conflict or misunderstanding for you, it will separate you or leave a deep emotional rift.

And some cracks cannot be repaired once they appear.

So since you choose to get along, try to trust each other from now on.

Of course, I ask you to trust each other, and I don’t ask you to trust each other blindly. It doesn’t matter what the other party says, you have to understand with your heart. "Is the other party telling the truth or a lie?"

Similarly, you cannot be carried away by the short-term sweetness. You must think clearly about the various things you will experience after being together. So-called various tastes of life, ups and downs, poverty and wealth, you have to think about all the things you may experience in the future.

Only in this way can you know whether you can support each other and go forward when encountering these things.

It's best to tell each other what you think about your relationship.

You can only make the right choice after you truly understand how each other views each other emotionally.”

Instead of being self-righteous, let the other person live according to your ideas, and you can't deceive the other person because you think it's good for the other person.

Because what you think is good for the other person may bring harm or greater pain to the other person.

When you think about this, you first have to think about it. If the same thing happens to you, do you also want the other person to bear the difficulties and pain ahead alone for your own good?
  If you have such thoughts, it proves that you don't love the other person at all.

And if you both love each other deeply" then you will never have such an idea.

So when you encounter something, you have to consider it from the other person's perspective. Only in this way can you make the right choice.

It is by no means self-righteous. No matter what happens, "do it according to your own ideas, even if you do it for the good of the other party", that is wrong.

If you really think and do this, then no matter how much you love each other now, there will be big problems in your relationship in the future.

So if you really form a family in the future, no matter what happens, you must discuss and resolve it, and you must never deceive each other for the sake of the other.

Of course, you may not understand what I said now.

But from the moment you choose to try to get along, you have to think about these things clearly in your free time.

Only if you both think clearly about this, will your future life be happier and better.

Okay, I’ll just tell you this, don’t think I’m verbose!

As for how you should get along in the future or where it will develop, that is your own choice.

But no matter what, we hope you can find your own happiness.

Lingzhuo, Xuanyuan Haoyue, "as well as Bai Fei, Xia Yu, Yin Hanshuang and Xia Mohan" heard Xiao Ya's words, and several of them came back from their deep thoughts. Then they stood up at the same time, bowed to Xiao Ya and said.

Thank you very much, captain, Xiaoya, for your concern and guidance for us. We will definitely get along well in the future, and we will not distrust each other because of some unfounded things."

Xiao Ya was sitting next to her husband. When she saw the two of them like this, she quickly used her strength to lift them up, and then said with a smile.

We are all a family." No need to be so polite, as long as you don't think I'm too verbose.

After Xiao Ya finished speaking, she motioned for the others to sit back on the sofa.

When Xuanyuan Haoyue heard what Xiao Ya said, she immediately nodded and said with a smile, Xiaoya is so lucky to meet you when she comes out this time.

Especially meeting you, Xiaoya, has made me learn a lot. Even my parents have never told me about what you just said.

If I hadn’t met you this time, when it comes to dealing with relationships, “even with that previous experience, I’m afraid there would be many things I still don’t understand.

So thank you very much” for what you just said to us.

Xiao Ya heard Xuanyuan Haoyue say this and said with a smile.

You're welcome, I just said some "our couple's views on relationships, and it doesn't represent everyone."

Because everyone in the world is independent and has different ideas on various things.

So you don't have to be so polite to me. Okay, let's not talk about this. You haven't eaten yet. Let's eat first. I want to talk to you about something after eating.

(End of this chapter)