This couple in the apocalypse is not easy to mess with

Chapter 599 Teaching the little guy
  After Xiao Ya said this, she continued, why did I say that?
  That's because if a person "or your kind" is infinitely good to you, he or she will help you achieve both good and bad things.

That will definitely give you unlimited desires, and you will be controlled by desires and do many things that go against your true intentions and morality.

Even if you didn't intend to do bad things from the beginning, if this friend suddenly stops being nice to you, you will definitely feel resentful towards this friend.

And from the time you have resentment, "or from the time you are dissatisfied, you have already given birth to inner demons" and have embarked on the evil path.

Of course, maybe your "friend" doesn't deliberately want you to be like this, but the way he gets along with you is wrong.

Because he didn't understand from the beginning what true friendship or family love was, or what to do to be good to your friends.

Rather than harming the friends around you because of your blind self-confidence and ideas.

Therefore, a truly worthy friend or family member will never rely on you for everything, but will "really point out your mistakes" when you make them and help you correct them.

"Only those who do this" are family members or partners who are truly good to you.

Because they will not let you go wrong, but will urge you to "go on the right path."

And only such friends are worthy of your friendship, not those or similar people who do one thing in front of you and another behind your back.

You can also see clearly the true face of a person or something. "Only you have enough patience" and a specific understanding of the person or thing itself.

Only when you have an absolute understanding of someone or something can you correctly judge whether these people or things are worthy of your deep emotions.

What I said above are the principles for making friends or family members in the future. They are also my husband’s and my views on friendship.

Xuan Ye waited for Xiao Ya to finish saying this, and then said, you may not fully understand what your sister just said.

But you just need to remember one thing, no matter when and where you are in the future, if you meet someone you are compatible with, you must feel with your heart whether this person is worthy of your friendship.

And it takes long-term contact and various tests to decide whether this person is worthy of your sincere emotions.

And when you don't have a concrete understanding of the true nature and character of the person you want to make friends with, you must keep your distance.

The so-called friendship between gentlemen is as light as water. A true friend will help you without any scruples only when you need help.

And those people who usually talk and laugh with you and have a very good relationship with you on the surface, in fact, "I don't know how many thoughts of harming you are hidden in their hearts."

Of course, what I just said is just to let you know.

A person who is truly worthy of friendship will "never dilute your friendship for this reason, no matter how far away he is from you or how rarely you interact with him."

It’s not that someone who is worthy of your true friendship cannot work or live with you.

This is also what I want to say to you next. For example, let's say you live with friends or family members who are worthy of your friendship.

There will never be any differences just because you live together. Of course, some minor frictions and quarrels are inevitable.

After all, everyone's personality is very different, and you can't make other people live their lives the way you do.

Likewise, you will never live your life according to other people's terms, it's all mutual.

So no matter how close friends are, there will always be times when they have different opinions.

However, although you have different opinions, you will never have any real resentment or hostility towards each other because of your different opinions. Instead, you will renegotiate the solution to something after you calm down.

So when you encounter this kind of thing, you all need to calm down and figure out the correct solution to something, instead of being self-righteous and "doing it according to your own method."

Because impulsive choices often make you pay a heavy price or regret for the rest of your life.

So a true friend is not someone who sounds nice on the surface but actually stabs you in the back, but someone who does his best to help you when you need help.

Of course, in addition to these, the exchanges between true friends also need to be more tolerant and considerate, but there must be a bottom line.

So when you make friends in the future, you must think about what we have said today, and use your own hearts to understand whether the person you want to make friends with is worth making friends with.

And if the person you want to make friends with "is not worthy of your friendship, then if the other person cannot threaten you, you don't have to be hypocritical with the other person and directly cut off any contact with the other person."

Because "that kind of person" has no need to pay any attention to it.

And if you cut off contact with these people, "it will bring danger to you in a short period of time, and you can also pretend to get along with each other in half-truths and half-truths."

While making the other person unaware, find a way to eliminate them completely so that you won't give these people any chance to hurt you or your friends.

These are the ways your sister and I want to teach you how to get along on top of friendship. Whether you understand it or not,
  But you must remember what your sister and I said to you today.

If you really meet friends worthy of your friendship in the future, you must recall what we have said today to make the most correct choice.

Of course, what your sister and I told you are just our own opinions.

You will also have your own thoughts or opinions on friendship, and this is also your own right.

Your sister and I will not interfere with everything, even if you are making friends with other people of the same kind. "We will not interfere too much.

Your sister and I are saying this to you today “just because we don’t want you to be hurt in the future.

So when you make friends in the future, in addition to what your sister and I have said to you, you can also understand your own views on friendship.

But there is one thing you must not do, and that is you must not do anything that goes against morality or your true heart.

And if you do that kind of thing, then your sister and I will not only not forgive you, but we will also give you the punishment you deserve on behalf of those innocent people.

Of course, we are not asking you to stand still and take beatings. What I am talking about is that you should not take the initiative to cause trouble, but not to fight back when others bully you.

No matter who it is, as long as it is not you who offend the other party first, but the other party who offends you, then you will return the favor multiple times according to the situation.

But at the same time, you must also have a generous heart, such as a very small thing, or a negligible thing, and something that will not cause you any harm at all.

Then you don’t need to care about these things at all, and don’t take them to heart. You can’t retaliate against others or cause harm to others because of these small things.

You know what I said before, "Only those things that really cause harm to you can be returned a hundred or a thousand times."

After listening to Xuan Ye's words, they all nodded in confusion, especially Miaomiao, who looked at the two tentacles on her forehead with a confused expression.

(End of this chapter)