This couple in the apocalypse is not easy to mess with

Chapter 601 Teaching the little guy
  Xuan Ye waited for his wife to finish saying this," he continued to talk to the little guys.

You may not particularly understand what your sister said before, but you just need to remember what we said today.

In addition to the situations your sister mentioned before, there are many mistakes that cannot be made in love.

Because these mistakes “are, in our view, irreversible once committed.

And even if you can look past those things by then, what happened before “will definitely leave the deepest mark on your hearts and bodies.

And these things include doing some "intimate actions that cannot be done between family and friendship."

Just like the intimate actions your sister and I did before, only we as husband and wife can do that to each other.

Whether it is other family members or friends, we do not allow them to have such intimate actions with us.

In addition to these, there are many intimate contacts that can only be done between lovers.

And these "intimate actions" are not something you can do when you meet the other half you like.

Only if you "truly understand each other and yourself, see each other's sincerity" and your emotional attitude, can you finally reach a consensus.

And you have deep feelings and form a couple. Only when you become a true couple can you do those intimate things.

Xiao Ya heard her husband say this and then continued.

When your brother talks about becoming a monk couple, he doesn't mean that you have to be witnessed by everyone" or in the presence of onlookers for it to count.

As long as you can come together after meeting your significant other, "have the same ideas about life and love, and can go through various tests".

As long as you are prepared to live and die together forever, you can make a vow to become a pair of monks to the way of heaven.

Only by taking this step can you and your partner "really be together from body to heart."

Otherwise, before this happens, you will never be able to do those things with your partner that can only be done between lifelong partners.

Of course, this is just my and my husband’s view on love. I have told you before that you have your own life, thoughts and characters.

My husband and I will not interfere too much with you, nor will we be involved in any decisions you make?
  But you must not do anything that goes against morality and your true intentions. If you do something that is morally based and goes against morality in terms of friendship, family, love and other relationships.

Even if we regard you as family now, we will sever any relationship with you by then.

And if the "objects you hurt" are also our family members, then your brother and I will definitely make you receive the punishment you deserve.

These are also the mistakes I’m going to tell you next that you must not make in love?

Listen carefully, what I said above is to tell you what love is.

And what I want to tell you next is "In the face of love, besides doing intimate actions, what other things are there" that you must not commit under any circumstances.

The first item is that you must not like someone of the opposite sex who has already formed a family or become a Taoist couple.

Because this is both immoral behavior and disrespect for love. "A person who truly understands feelings and love" cannot like someone who has a family or someone who has fallen in love with someone else.

And if you are a person who has a family or is dating other people, he will still want to date you when you meet him.

So for people like this, do you think their views on love are consistent with yours?
  If you think that someone who wants to be with you while being with others, you have the same idea of ​​​​viewing love.

Then I can only say that what I said to you before is "in vain."

So in terms of love and other matters, you must learn to think from others' perspective.

Only in this way can you understand, "Is it right or wrong, or how do you feel when you are in that position?"
  In addition to the above, when you meet your significant other, in the process of getting along with you, you must carefully feel what kind of person the other person is? You must not let the other person's sweet words "or always like to say something about you" If you like to listen to words, you will lose the direction and standard of looking at people.

Before you try to date each other, you need to understand the person you want to date and your views on family, love, friendship and other relationships.

If you are on the same page emotionally, then you can try to get along with this person or a similar person.

If you have different ideas, then I advise you, sister, "It's best not to even try."

Because even if you get together temporarily, you will be unhappy in the future because of various trivial matters or differences of opinion, and even worse, you will become a resentful couple.

And if you meet this person or the same person you want to date, he or she has the same emotional thoughts and views as you.

Then in the process of getting along with this person, you should carefully observe whether what this person says and does to you is from the heart.

Because a person who wants to deceive your feelings will "understand your thoughts on various things when he gets along with you, so when you talk about various ideas, he will talk to you according to your thoughts."

In this way, you will be deceived by these untrue words and be harmed.

And these people or similar people who "have used words to deceive you from the beginning" are not even as good at dealing with feelings as those people or similar people who tell you different opinions and true thoughts from you.

This is why I want you to thoroughly understand this person's style of doing things when you encounter a relationship, and sometimes you can test it a little bit.

But don't pass it, because some temptations, once excessive, will break the heart of someone who truly loves you.

To judge whether a person is good or bad, you must not just rely on what you see in front of you and what you hear with your ears, but you must also experience it with your heart" and various details.

Only from these" can you find out whether the person you are getting along with is sincere or fake?
  And there is another thing that can judge these, and that is lies, even white lies "are not needed in the face of true love.

So when you get along with your sweetheart" no matter what kind of lie it is.

As long as the other party has deceived you, you must think carefully about whether the other party is still trustworthy and whether it is worthy of you to continue to associate with this person or the same kind.

Of course, ordinary jokes are not included in this. It is up to you to analyze what is a joke and what is a real lie?
  "So in the future, no matter how you deal with family, friendship, love or any other feelings, you must see clearly the hearts of yourself and others before you can decide whether to have a deep friendship with this person or the same kind?"

Xuan Ye waited for his wife to finish speaking," he continued.

After hearing what your sister said, you must have a lot of questions. This is normal, after all, you have not experienced those things.

But you must keep what we said today in mind.

In this way, when you encounter various emotional problems in the future, you can think about what your sister and I said to you today.

In addition to what your sister told you before, love also has many complicated things and entanglements that will take place in it.

But these are things that happen to people who have a different emotional perspective than we do.

So we have said before that what your sister and I said "are just our views on various emotions and do not represent everyone, including you.

And what we said is just for you to use as a reference and a basis for understanding. We do not require you to do what your sister and I said.

But your sister has also told you before that since you regard me and your sister as your family, then your sister and I will point out the things that we cannot make mistakes. It is best for you not to make such low-level mistakes.

Because if you make that mistake, you will not only hurt yourself, but you may also hurt other people or similar people.

What's more, you can't do what your sister said before, "You clearly have a family or are dating other people or similar people, but you still want to provoke other innocent people."

If you dare to do such a thing, then don’t blame me and your sister for disowning you.

(End of this chapter)